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Issues with finding real Unicorns

1:27 am Sunday, 20th February, 2022

Hi all!


I've been a unicorn for several years now and have recently begun looking for one myself. I should state for the record first that I'm bisexual, I love women. I love threesomes, BDSM and Swinging lifestyles. I'm dominant. I have, unfortunately, encountered issues finding another woman to play with.


As a unicorn with me and a male play partner are for just myself. I've found that it seems that a number of women identify as 'bi-curious' or bisexual when, really, they aren't... in fact, they are acting on the wishes of a husband or boyfriend.


I can immediately tell, but it ruins the whole experience.


It's awkward and uncomfortable. After all, who wants to be sexual with someone who doesn't really want you and is just acting for the pleasure of another who, most of the time, doesn't even have her interests or desires in mind at all. But who is just concerned with getting what he wants.

Another issue is that for a possibility of reasons, I find communicating with other potential female play partners or unicorns so far very ambiguous and confusing. I don't mean to sound sexist or harsh, but I find a lot of passive-aggressive game playing. "Oh yes, i'n fine with you fucking my husband" when clearly, they aren't... maybe it's just that women are very complex and i'm just more comfortable and adept with talking with men due to the fact that I've had much more experience with that than with women.


A contributing factor, I guess, is that I'm by nature very confident, very sure of myself and what I want, no reservations, no fear, no insecurity and perhaps that enables me to be more clear and blunt about the entire thing than others.


Idk.


I just know I'm having a hard time finding another woman who wants to play closer than a 5 hour drive! Lol and most women on here that identify as bi anything are part of a couple.


Where are all the other unicorns?


Suggestions please! Thank you in advance!


Stacey



Comments
7:30 pm Sunday, 20th February, 2022

I would love to talk check out my profile and if interested let me know. I'm definitely bi all the 

3:16 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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3:27 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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3:31 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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3:34 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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3:48 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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3:54 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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5:13 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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5:43 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

I understand your thoughts. I feel a lot of women say unicorn just to get to the guy in a relationship..

7:43 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

Hey

7:49 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

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7:51 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

Where are you located 

7:56 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

I agree with you A friend of mine did woman woman for her husband She liked kissing and titty play but did suck pussy for her hubby He passed away and she got out of the life style She did it all for him 

8:00 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

Lets fuck soon

8:01 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

And I could be so interested in you

8:18 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

People just need to act like adults and not judge and be real I've never myself been or experienced anything I don't put labels on things I like things in my butt does that label me

8:19 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

I like  this idea. Come to me soon. I want to suck your pussy soon my ❤️ love. N  Srinivasan 

9:37 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

Hi

10:16 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

Hi we are a fun loving couple who are looking for fun times with a Lady 

11:18 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

well written and you have poured your heart on the genuine problem that exists here. i wish people were more forthcoming with what they have in mind. 

11:24 pm Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022

Hi darling nice to meet you

12:00 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Your insight is so true on all levels. 

12:15 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Yes

12:39 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Very nice and sweet 

12:43 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

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12:43 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

1:12 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

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1:16 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

I like all of that....looking for a anal queen

2:02 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

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2:28 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

👅thank you, your thinking are best for bisexual people.but I am man for making a fantastic fucking for all kinds of female person.

3:08 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

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4:47 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Hi

6:57 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

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8:39 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

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9:20 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

I'd love to have a bisexual threesome with you baby let's both get our assholes fucked and filled with cum 

10:20 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Hi Stacey. I have no partner and am mainly gay. I have had a little experience with a guy but I'm far happier with a girlfriend. If you fancy chatting please feel free to contact me. X

10:20 am Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Hi Stacey. I have no partner and am mainly gay. I have had a little experience with a guy but I'm far happier with a girlfriend. If you fancy chatting please feel free to contact me. X

1:03 pm Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

How are you doing today you're very cute

1:54 pm Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

let you know

2:09 pm Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

well can I say I am am male unicorn,interesting reading above let us experiment what you want which i will love to experince and consider as male unicorn though 

5:15 pm Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Where can we meet up?

6:23 pm Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

Thank you

5:07 am Thursday, 24th February, 2022

Thank you

5:06 pm Thursday, 24th February, 2022

I'm ready mitting you help monye

5:06 pm Thursday, 24th February, 2022

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5:06 pm Thursday, 24th February, 2022

I'm ready mitting you help monye

1:54 am Friday, 25th February, 2022

Nicely written been in lifestyle a long time and a agree with you. Enjoyed reading your blog very much.

5:16 pm Friday, 25th February, 2022

I worked away from home and my Wife found a lover, she told me all about it when I came home. She was waiting for me to rant. But I didn't and told her i wanted to see him. She eventually got him to visit. When he came in he thought I was going to hit him, he was very surprised when I told him, you could have waited till I was home and we could have shared her. That started a long long threesome until I eventually moved away because of work.

11:31 am Sunday, 27th February, 2022

I love ur profile and ur honesty as a woman, I can tell dat ur very sexual and love passive-submissive sex, well I'm all for, only thing about it, I'm not upgrading to read messa

1:43 pm Tuesday, 1st March, 2022

I want sup

1:43 pm Tuesday, 1st March, 2022

Contact me

5:54 am Wednesday, 2nd March, 2022

Call me

11:28 pm Wednesday, 2nd March, 2022

Hii

4:18 pm Saturday, 5th March, 2022

Thank u all so much for the input and comments! Now I don't feel like the only one having these issues. UPDATE I did meet in person w a great couple. Had great time. But my unicorn, specifically bi r bicurious female unicorn, continues. Keep those comments coming, I appreciate ur time and opinions! Stacey

1:51 am Friday, 18th March, 2022

If you think you can handle what I have in store you should PM me. I promise I will not bite unless you would like 😘

9:23 am Friday, 13th May, 2022

Yeah, you are telling the truth

4:43 am Saturday, 27th August, 2022

We struggle to find a true unicorn for both of us. That has been my problem with so called bi women.  I always give and never get to receive. Because they really aren’t bi. They lay there and let you. That’s not the same thing.   

5:38 pm Thursday, 10th November, 2022

Great blog Stacey. I feel your pain. I moved from Seattle to NC and here I just can’t seem to find the real women that truly want throuple. Breaking my heart not to have a female in my life. 

2:17 pm Sunday, 30th June, 2024

Wow 🙌

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