Bringing up the subject of tickling many time evokes bad memories in many. Perhaps there were times when a person has been exposed to very negative experiences in the past. Perhaps they are just so ticklish that they will not consider allowing someone to tickle them.
I believe that much of the aversion to tickling results from someone that does not appropriately adapt their techniques and take the time to observe their partner's reactions.
As a man with a real foot fetish, I always want to find a reason to experience a well-pedicured woman's foot in many ways. Deep inside, I want to kiss and lick them all over, I want to find an opportunity to tickle the living crap out of them, and I want the woman to let me do it often. I love them bare, and have a real affection for the look of them in quality sheer stockings, ideally with a set of red pedicured toes peeking through the sheerness. The look of a nylon-covered leg and foot will always get my attention over a bare leg. The amount of power that a woman with a well stockinged leg and foot has over me is extraordinary. I am far from alone with such a weakness.
So...how do you manage to experience the feet of a "very ticklish" woman? Let's start with a woman with very ticklish feet. Start with a massage, and do not "cheat" and sneak-in a tickle, no matter how much you really want to do so. The idea is to behave long enough to get her to want (and ask!) for a nice foot massage. Sensitivity quickly decreases after a massage. Undoubtedly, the most ticklish point that a woman will have is those first few minutes when the shoe first comes off. Part of you might want to tickle the crap out of a freshly-exposed nylon foot, to feel your fingers sliding over the smooth nylon soles and gently on the top of her pedicured toes, and to hear the screams and uncontrollable laughter that will result. But doing so may cost you the only opportunity you will ever have with that woman. Instead, a lengthy and relatively hard-pressure massage with both hands, paying attention to every part of the foot, will allow you to experience some of those deep desires.
If you are like me, it may be impossible to hide the arousal you are experiencing (my "barometer" is impossible to hide!). Chances are, she will either notice (or feel) the "barometric response" and actually feel good about it. Generally you can start massaging lighter and lighter as the sensitivity decreases. Eventually, you can get to the point where you are tickling her feet, and she may actually enjoy it.
The secret is to be very observant of the responses, wherever you are tickling. Be observant of the techniques that are acceptable and the ones that are too strong. Just vary the pressure and technique to find that point of enjoyment, just below the point of tolerance. The level of excitement that this will induce is well worth the effort.
Tickling during sex can really send a woman over the moon. Some women may be quite amiable to the real ultimate: the TickleGasm! Personally, I like to lick and kiss a woman's toes just before and during her orgasm. Sometimes when I need that extra little oomph so that I can explode, i like to tickle a woman's feet while deep inside her, or stroke her upper thighs with the back of my fingers, to hear the laughter and get that extra little wriggle. Screaming laughter is a sure way to make me explode.
Aside of my fantasies of tickle-torturing a completely helpless and well-stockinged woman, I fantasize about being bound and endlessly tickled and teased by a woman. Having a stockinged foot so close to my face, or just out of reach of my bound arms is an incredible tease. Being tickled and teased without being able to tickle back...watching a foot and leg dancing around just out of reach...just thinking about it sends my barometer soaring. Ideally, it would get to the point where orgasm with one finger relentlessly tickling my barometer while I squirm and beg for release. Fantasies of relentless barometer teasing, causing release through the use of just an evil feather.
Where are all the evil woman ticklers?