If the idea of sharing your sexual fantasies makes you want to crawl out of your skin, welcome to the club. Talking about sex with a partner is a vulnerable act anyway, and voicing your sexual fantasies can leave you feeling extra exposed, especially if you think those fantasies are embarrassing or taboo. I remember when I expressed my sexual fantasies and desires to my partner. It was a risk. Instead of judging me she turned on and opened up about her sexual desires.. Dang.. Jackpot. I felt I am the luckiest guy.
You might worry that your thoughts and desires won’t line up exactly with your partner’s or that they might judge what you’re into. You might even fear what your fantasy says about you or your relationship. But I think it a risk worth taking. Now look at us. We have share too much with each other , like too much taboo. And now we are growing on another level.
