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Shy and insecure! Need advice

10:00 pm Monday, 3rd January, 2022

I am me and I guess im just trying to find out who I am.


There has always been a part of me who has been interested, interested in exploring fantasy and the things I thing I like. But, I’ve always felt insecure because of my size( 16/18) not worthy of being able to explore, worried what people may think! I’d like to try new things, couple, woman on her own but scared of going public!


I’m happily married yet something is missing, I’m not sexually confident unless I’ve had a drink or too because I don’t feel sexy or wanted in that way.


I want to be able to explore who I Am but scared or loosing what I have.
Is there anyone else out there who feels that way. I’m so new to this!



Comments
8:01 pm Wednesday, 5th January, 2022

When.we got time we can have a chat

12:42 pm Thursday, 6th January, 2022

Know exactly how you feel. Hugs 

11:26 am Saturday, 8th January, 2022

Hey bbe don't ever feel chappy about the way u look I guarantee ur beautiful im bigger then you and big is beautiful girl , keep smiling xx

4:06 pm Wednesday, 2nd February, 2022

I could have written this very post! Hugs to you x

3:39 pm Saturday, 19th February, 2022

All men are told "size isn't important", therefore I reckon this works both ways! Never feel that because you aren't a stick, you are not attractive or sexually wanted. Life is for living, live it and have fun! Xx

3:13 pm Wednesday, 23rd February, 2022

You soundbite the two of us, we would love to chat and see if we can put you at ease. X

5:02 am Friday, 1st April, 2022

Hi, this journey is actually the cure for what you’re feeling! Having sex with random people who are there with you for your body and realising that those people only want your body and your desire sets you free! 

1:51 pm Saturday, 2nd April, 2022

I'd suggest including your husband, either by telling him straight out what you need, or bring a woman home and just start in front of him.

2:14 pm Monday, 18th April, 2022

Hi 
I am also curious and if you let me i would like to explore with you.

8:46 am Thursday, 28th April, 2022

Nothing wrong with your size. Maybe hubby should make you feel more sexy and compliment you on your lovely curves and the way you look then you might not have confidence issues........ your a BBW and be proud x

6:29 pm Saturday, 14th May, 2022

I married my wife at size 22, she’s lost since but no at my direction. Nothing wrong with a larger lady, very sexy indeed.

11:26 pm Saturday, 21st May, 2022

For every person that likes a slat thin woman there is a person that likes a larger woman. Embrace who you are, I am a curvy size 12 and my partner loves my body and doesn't see all the imperfections that I see

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