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Your Glorious Sexy Guide To Threesomes

Looking to be sexually adventurous with more than one partner? A threesome is in the ultimate sexual fantasy for many people. They can be horny, highly erotic, and seriously fun action. Making it happen however can be a hard sell despite all the perks, but fear not, we’re here to help. More hands! More mouths! More genitals! More fun! It really is a magic number!

Threesomes might be a great way to spice up a monogamous relationship that has lost its heat. Introducing another person into your bedroom can be thrilling, but only if the couple carefully plans out their experience with a potential third person. The most famous threesome fantasy typically calls for two women and a man (FFM), but two men and a woman (MMF), three men (MMM) or three women (FFF) can boink each other just as happily.

Introducing the Idea to a Partner

For people who value monogamy as an important aspect of a relationship, threesomes can sound intimidating. Like all sexual fantasies, the desire for a ménage à trois should be introduced as an exciting new adventure to try together. It should also be discussed when the relationship feels rock-solid. Unsurprisingly, many people may worry that a partner’s request for a threesome indicates dissatisfaction or a wish to break up. If this is the reason you are asking for a threesome, you may need to reconsider the relationship. Trust is the most important ingredient in a threesome, and it is necessary for everyone to enjoy themselves.

If your partner seems reluctant, ask what worries them and attempt to soothe their fears. Offer to let them choose the third and set limits on what they can or cannot do. Try exploring threesome fantasies when you are alone together by turning your partner on and then talking about three-way action, developing a positive association between threesomes and orgasms.

And if your partner says no? No means no. Threesomes are not worth losing a relationship over. And if a three-way is that important for your sexual satisfaction, perhaps it is time to break up and search for a partner who is also into threesomes!

Rules For Triple the Fun

Make sure to set rules and limitations before you even begin trying to find a third person. Discuss what can and cannot be done as specifically as possible. Is penetration allowed? What about kissing? Can one of you sit back and watch for a while? If someone leaves the room should everything stop? Will the third person sleepover? What will happen the next morning? Is this a one-time-only event or not? It might be a good idea to write the rules down so that they can be referred to later. Communicate openly and honestly about potential jealousy to avoid problems. Condoms should be switched for every penetration and sex dams are a good idea, too.

You should obtain permission from your primary partner for everything from licking nipples to buttholes. But the third person should feel safe and satisfied, too, so once you have established rules with your primary partner, welcome them into a discussion as well. Everyone should feel comfortable, stopping the threesome in its tracks if anyone feels uncomfortable or insecure. And do not break the rules in the heat of the moment for any reason.

Finding a Third For Your Tasty Triangle of Lust

There are two types of thirds: one you know and one you don’t. While it may feel like a good idea to invite a close friend into your bedroom, consider carefully the possibility that things may get awkward afterwards. The ideal third is someone you trust but will not have to see regularly. Do not pick someone you harbour romantic feelings for, as this could make your partner feel (understandably) insecure.

When it’s finally time to do the deed, don’t jump into bed together right away. Relax together and ramp up to it by playing sexy truth-or-dare or rolling naughty dice with sexy deeds on them. Building this intimacy can help the three-way feel more comfortable and safe for everyone. Try not to leave anyone out and be as generous as possible with your tongue, hands and toys to make sure that everyone is satisfied. If your primary partner worries about being ignored, make sure not to give too much attention to the third party.

Afterwards, discuss your experience. Find out how your partner felt during the threesome and how they now feel afterwards. Change the rules if necessary. With some fine-tuning, and if you’re sensitive and responsible, you can have many wild nights that bring you both even closer together, as well as begets some amazing orgasms.

So guys, are threesomes your favourite scenario? Ever had a threesome. What do you like/dislike about them? Share all your tasty trio thoughts in the comments.




Comments

I'm in 

I have had a number of threesomes over the years and can be great fun for all as long as all are relaxed. Even better if there is some bi interaction.

My female partner has a female friend that likes her a lot,and makes comments about her breast and butt. I have thought about a MFF with her.

Good points made. 

It is fantastic...had multiple orgasms with the right 3rd person...i let my fantasies loose and reeped the rewards

Is great when all are Bi.. love the oral.

Focus your attention on both and learn to enjoy each others

Nice i m intrested

This a great artical . All rules till the bind fold came out who knows which one was doing what to me women 

Had a ffm 3way years ago and while it was fun, my gf put alot of limitations on me. Made it awkward because the other woman was really into it, and kept asking me to drill her while is was eating her pussy while she was eating my gf out. In the end, I didn't have sex with the other woman, but I really wanted to. My advice, don't get into it unless everyone involved agrees that all bets are off, and everyone should get to cum!

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Good article, well said. I've been a 3rd in mfm with couples. And I'm eager to try an fmf, any ladies interested???

Yeh, i like threesome sex ffm

Good information as I m s beginner n has not got any chance to try despite my best efforts. Pls help me out to get something here in Cardiff UK. 

Yes I had a 3some last week,  fmf an it was great

open to any and all new ideas

Great guidance for a newby.  My preference is fmm.  I love to watch her getting fucked. Spitroast and dp is erotic. Everyone satisfied

I would like to do a threesome at some point, it would be fun ??

 Interesting how most of the comments are from men .  Are the women to shy, or the guys just boasting ?  I prefer MFM/MMF.  Also a BIG fan of  Gang Bangs.

supper i noted for further compliances, thanks 

i'm interested

Nice,i am very interested.

Woohoo I'm interested to do threesome

I love FFM and they will be satisfied by me ....wow

I’d love a threesome

The rules are very nice for relationship, I would like to be with a matured couple in mumbai

I have always fantasised about 3some, but haven't had it. I really want to. Any couple in Nigeria who are willing to explore?

My first threesome was with two of my best freinds which was a couple due to get married n with me being the best man but the couple decided between them both that l was not only to be the best man. No they decided together that the best man had to sexually satisfy the bride before her husband was allowed to be near his bride nore was he allowed to touch his bride and all he was allowed to do was massterbate his cock but he was not allowed to cum untill l had CONPLETELIY given the bride total sexual satisfaction then we had a threesome giving the bride her first double penatraithion D.P ORAL VIGINAL AND ANAL FUCKING SESSIONS ON THERE HONEYMOON ON A NUDEST BEACH. YES OUR FREINDSHIP IS STILL GOING STRONG PLUS WE STILL INDULGE IN ME AND THE WIFE AND THREESOMES AND MUCH MUCH MORE. So who says it does not work out having sex with your freinds eh !!!

wanted a foursome only got a threesome MFM wife asked can we so in a week i let her fuck three strangers we set our rules me giving one on one to start first one just wanted a quick fuck little foreplay jumped into her pussie pounding away cumming to quick then left not our plan the second one lasted bit longer and she sucked my cock as he fucked her we enjoyed it but really wanted more to happen she picked another man talked to him on phone she started preparing herself shaving her pussie she told me hes the one asking if they can have time together first he arrived at motel room saying how hot she was laying on the bed dressed so sexy wasting no time he got between her legs and started licking her pussie well there was no room for me and as they did every thing possible her breaking all the rules they fucked each other for four solid hours paying no attention to me now refuses to allow me to share intimate time with another girl       

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me and my partner have had a threesome twice, she prefers to have another female, no males, she doesn't feel comfortable with another male present when I asked her if she would...her reply was still no......she gets turned on, by watching people having sex, and than she joins in.....she likes safe sex, she is like a tiger in bed........it's just hard trying to keep up with her. she enjoys sex.....but loves me still......as long as I don't fall in love with other women........

everyone should try a threesome 

Nice. Mate few elite folks in this journey

We are indians and my wife is willing to have threesome act, she wants a women to be a third partner and wants to watch her seduce me. Want me to suck her in front of her. But till date not able to find asuitable wome

I m here to join female couple to join them to get them feel wet and make a unbelievable experience with all my best massage therapy and a great wildness to have your lonely cave to quirt again and again to have your satisfaction guaranteed and make you addicted to my touch and presence in your life and let me be secret meet up and privacy is important for me always to give a real pleasure to make a clients personal

Wow bi mmf makes me so aroused i was suprized and shocked. After exploring all the hot porn i want a bi mmf even more and now know i want to suck cock and submit to being the bottom 

Sound advice. 

I am a veey out going person but i just cant bring myself to approach a woman 

I Want a lsbo patnr who can lsbo with me infront of my hubby. After that if my lsbo patner agree thn 3sm me my hubby and my lesbo patnr. No other male.

my lady is wanting a lady to join us.. i want a couple or lady . she wants dp and cock in each end. she is shy so maybe we blind fold her then she wont care . it will be my cock in her mouth as far as she knows.. help us make it happen.. ??????

Amin

If at all it happened it will be my first experience and I love it even if I failed somewhat. But it is an act should be in once career. 

I have always been straight. I love women. I could never kiss or touch a bloke, but have often wondered what it would be like to take it up the a**. So, would like that. Then do the woman afterwards.

I love playing with couples.

When I meet new couples like to take it slow and easy.

I enjoy talking with them, over a glass of wine, to find out what their hobbies
and outside the bedroom interests are.

When we all are comfortable, I like to discuss sexual likes, sexual dislikes,
and sexual fantasies, particularly Bi fantasies. I want to know what they
expect from me.

If all our comfortable, I suggest we watch some Bi movies. This usually gets
everyone warmed up for fun.

I agree

Me and my husband really want a threesome with anothe female but we are finding it so difficult to find siomeone on the sites that is actually genuine and now ready to give up which makes us sad I refuse to pay for any more sites 

Would like to participate.

I want to try this!

My wife will do it