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Why Are The Hard To Get Ones Always So Damn Sexy?

At our core, we are still the Neanderthals who clubbed and ugg’ed our way through the day, even if today we do it in fancy suits or overpriced Yeezy’s. That hunter-gatherer instinct runs through our veins and nothing gets us more aroused than the thrill of the chase – whether we’re chasing fame, fortune or great sex.

If you want to stand out from the crowd you need to be unattainable, elusive and desirable – but knowing when you’re crossing over from lusty object of desire to cold-hearted bitch is a delicate balance.

Turn The Tables, Play Hard To Get

Here 5 ways to play hard to get and land your prey – yes, this is where the hunter has become the hunted.

1. You Can Look But Don’t Touch

Put on that tiny black dress, get that fresh new haircut, look your best, act your best and fill the room with your presence. Whatever it is that you do that draws attention do it when your mark is in the room, draw a crowd of potential lovers to you and let everyone know that you get to pick and choose not them. Allow them to admire and desire but make it playfully clear that you decide who gets to touch and when.

2. Personal Confessions Of A Nympho

When playing hard to get there is nothing easier, and sexier than a breathy apparently-tipsy confession to set your would-be lovers’ blood on fire. A quick “dancing always makes me wet” as a grab a shot between songs and run back to the dance floor (not looking back, of course) or some other just-for-you confession will leave them picturing you naked and writhing while not being sure if it was an invitation or a throwaway comment.

3. Me? Flirting? Maybe

With that image of you burning in their brain and their pants, and you back on the dance floor – with all that watching you move to the music now entails – a few lingering glances, a slight smile as you dance up against another person or between two of them will only heighten the lust levels in the room. And best of all no-one but the one you’re playing hard to get with knows what’s going on.

4. But I’m Here For Everyone

Want to keep the tension levels high, and your future lover on the edge? Then don’t let them get too close. If your crush is an aggressive hunter, they will push the point to see where it goes, try get you alone, try to dominate your time – don’t let them. Keep inviting friends into the conversation but let your looks linger on them even when the new person is speaking to you. As much you want to give into your own lust, let it simmer a while longer – enjoy the hunt.

5. I Know You Like My Touch

Once you’re in your crush’s head and have them vying for your time – which you have them guard jealously by almost never being alone with them – a few seemingly stray but very intentional touches will seal the deal. We’ve all seen them in the movies, but they work. Pushing back their fringe to “see their eyes”, gently brushing something from their shoulder, a hand resting on the back while speaking to someone else, these will leave your crush with a lingering sense of connection and not ever quite answer the “Am I going to see you naked?” question that has been strung up between you.

Know What You Want & Get That

All this flirting and sexual tension building is great, whether you intend to follow through with it or not but knowing what you want is the key to this whole game of playing hard to get. Looking for hard up against the wall sex? Then after the night described above it’s as simple as biting your bottom lip and asking, “Want to come back to my place and dance some more?”.

However, if you’re looking for something equally sexy but a little more long-term, delay your sexual gratification, remain the one that got away a little longer. Mention you’ll be around again tomorrow, perhaps you can have that drink then that you couldn’t have tonight? Joke about hoping that they play your favourite song, the one that really gets you going – as horny as you might be, keep them on the line a while longer to really get them hooked.

Happy hunting




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