Home > Articles > Watching Porn With Them - One Of The Kinkiest Things To Try With A Partner

Watching Porn With Them - One Of The Kinkiest Things To Try With A Partner

    When it comes to solo-pleasuring, everyone has their go-to strategy to get themselves going. For some people it’s visualising a particular fantasy, for others it might be the extra stimulation of a toy or vibrator, but for many of us watching porn is the preferred method for getting in the mood. Anyone with an Internet connection has access to a seemingly infinite array of porn choices - every fantasy you’ve ever had is available with the click of a button.

    Yet, many of us want to include our partners in the fun but aren't sure how. How do you bring it up, what do you do to get the most out of it, how do you deal with the awkwardness that could come up?

    That said, if you're both on board with it, watching porn can bring you closer, become a starting point to talk about how to kink up your sex life, and warm you up for sex.

    So, if you're into the idea, here's how to do it.

    Don't Make It A Surprise.

    Watching some porn to spice up your sex life could be a fun surprise, right? Not always!. "Talk about it before you turn it on," People can have big differences of opinion about porn. Some don't want to see it no matter what; some see watching porn as a form of cheating, for others, certain types of porn will be a big turn-off.

    Talk About It

    As with most relationship decisions, talking about it is pretty much always the first step. And if you’re worried that blurting out, “Hey, instead of The Office tonight, let’s watch some nude penetration?” might get things off on the wrong foot, When you start getting into foreplay, you can kick things off with a suggestive question, like, “You know what we’ve never tried before…?”. Or, if you’re a little unsure about how your partner might react to the request, try a little white lie, like, “I had this hot dream last night, we were watching porn together,” and you’ll be able to gauge their interest level based on their response before you take things further.

    Pick Something You’ll Both Enjoy

    Are you into leather and gang bangs? That is awesome, but maybe your partner is not into that. When you're watching porn with someone else, you have to take their tastes into consideration. Instead of throwing on your favourite videos and hoping for the best, browse together. Find something new. It will show your partner that you care about what they like. Encourage your partner to choose something they think they might find hot. The exploration is part of the foreplay, and it will help get you both in the mood for the main attraction.

    Use The Experience To Learn About Each Others Needs

    As you're watching, keep an open mind. It's unlikely that you know everything that turns your partner on an vice versa. Being judgmental or reactive can shut anyone down. If they say they aren't into something you express interest in, don't wallow, keep it for your solo pleasure time. After a few times watching porn together would be the best time to ease in some content that interests you, even if it's a fetish. Make sure you get a movie that has that in it and drop hints, “I'd really like to try that,” “That looks exciting,” “I think that would turn me on.” Give them the opportunity to express their kinks by allowing them to pick films that interest them.

    Have you ever watched porn with a partner? Or is it something you would like to try? Let us know in the comments below.




    Comments

    Yes I have watched porn with multiple partners and really like watching it. We try some of the ways and see if they fit our sex lives, I will watch more porn with my next partner and she loves watching it as m

    I would love to make porn yummy please contact me if Need a guy who takes cock

    We watch it every day. Love the older ones with the natural imperfect bodies. I watch it e

    if i had a partner then we would watch porn together both being naked 

    bbc ir cuckold 

    How are you I am babu from Vadodara I interested in 

    Yes, it serves as motivation in most c

    Hi

    Love getting fucked in both holes all day long by groups of guys any length any color 

    Watching porno to spice our sex life, sometimes we both watching. It excited very much. She like sucking, deep penetration creampie.

    Yes 

    yes I watch porn totally naked with two bisexual  girls and play with each other at the same  time and become so horny

     My wife and I occasionally do watch porn. However, what we find most exciting our videos such as we find in the gallery section of this website. To us, those are every day people just like us and above that they’re not acting it’s the real thing you can see the real passion in their faces and we love that it’s amateur photography and video taking. Another posi.      is

    Anxious to learn how to include her.  Thanks for the information

    Watching porno was how I got my wife use to the thought of using a strap On with me at 21st she was apprehensive then I found a video that explained why men like it and it doesn't mean he is gay she really got into it 

    Bad luck my x didn’t read instead of the other way

    I’ve Watched porn with nearly all my partners

    I always liked bringing porn into the bedroom it’s great for the mood and allows a glimpse into the hidden dirty thoughts partn

    ??

    Yes it stimulates both..it's my personal experience 

    I have female for creating video

    it experience gang bang or liker sex

    I hope I find a woman really soon 

    I watch porn alone.  Due to being alone watching, I self pleasure when possible or I can.  At my age it is very difficult o find any female that wants to even  talk to me.   Wife is to much of a prude to watch it. I am not.   I think that the human body is exquisite.  Oh to watch and see others, and would love to feel -

    I watch porn I love to meet she woman or a 3some  and have sex all night long have pussy and a cock 

    Me and my partner never watched porn until we started talking about fantasys and how I liked his younger friend and he told the guy I wanted him and never believed he said he would come round and ask me if it was true and I just said it was a fantasy and he brought a porn of threesome porn so as we began watching it he came and sat next to me and stroked my legs and I felt myself getting excited as I saw him getting hard and my partner told me to open his jeans and I did and was shocked to see he was pretty big.  I was dying for it and was told to sit on his knee and felt him in me lifting me up and down and I was already wet and he was really good taking his time before I felt him explode. We all went upstairs and had sex for hours. God it was the best decision to watch a porn film 

    Hi

    Yes myself and my wife together watched foursome porn. To excite my wife but it’s long back now I need to involve her again

    We always watch porn together, threesome, foursome....and have grt sex after that...it sets the mood for us