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The Longest Lay - 8 Tips for Extending Your Sex Sessions' Staying Power

    While quickies are great and all, sometimes you want something that lasts a little longer. But what's longer? For starters, it's important to get a healthy sense of expectation of the length of an average sex session. Research has shown that the average time it takes for men to ejaculate is two minutes, while it takes women 20 minutes to reach the end goal.

    Further research shows that the average time spent getting frisky in the sheets is a mere 5 minutes... I'm no mathematician, but even I can see one party is probably missing out on the big O.

    So next time the clothes come off, don't go in there all tits blazing, grab a bottle of water and check out these 8 tips for extending your sex session' staying power.

    Drink Loads Of Water

    "Yes Mum" I can hear you say, but water is going to get you through this. Staying hydrated is so important to lasting longer. You don't want to burn out within 30 minutes because you dry up.

    Get Creative

    Sticking to just a few positions in bed is going to get boring. Make the most of the space around your home and really mix up the positions. You don't need to plan a fuckit list of positions and places, but have a look online for some inspiration, you might just find your new holy grail manoeuvre.

    Whip The Toys Out

    You're in this for the long haul, so some added toy fun is going to break your time up. Make sure you have a good selection of toys to space out throughout the weekend to use on your playmate, as well as yourself. To get back into the swing of things, if you're feeling a bit drained of energy, or after a break, that is the perfect time to whip them out.

    X-Rated Viewing

    Instead of chilling on the sofa with a movie, turn on some porn, it will keep you both horny when you need a break. It might also give you some ideas for new moves or even a fantasy you want to try.

    Lube It Up

    Lube is going to be your best friend during this time. Let's face it, when it's too hot, the river can dry up if you know what I mean. It doesn't mean that your partner isn't feeling it anymore, but we women cannot control what happens down there, and sometimes a little extra help is needed.

    Pick You Ups

    Food, snacks, and nibbles. You don't want to eat a huge meal, that will make you feel bloated and tired. Light bits and plenty of it is what you will need, to give you an energy boost. Incorporate the food into your lengthy sex session, with sexy food you can feed each other, like strawberries, chocolate, etc.

    Keep It Clean

    It's going to get hot and sweaty so make sure you take a shower or bath when your feeling dirty-dirty and not sexy-dirty anymore. It doesn't mean the action has to stop, continue in the tub or shower by washing each other down and getting hands on.

    Take A Break

    Let's face it, no one is capable of shagging 24 hours none stop, you're going to need a break. Give yourself a moment to take a breath and prepare for whatever round of sex you are starting next. Why not head out for a walk in the fresh air, you never know, you might find a secluded spot for a bit of al fresco action.

    What is the longest sex session you have been apart off? Let us know in the comments below.




    Comments

    Three hours but I was youg

    5 hours, made her cum 10 times!

    5 hours with 4 rounds in it.

    24 hours but I was trying to see how many times I could masturbate in one day. And yes, I was sore for days.

    My longest time was just over 5 hours and the best sex I've ever had if we didn't have commitments I'm very sure i

    13 hours 

    Thank you for this. We went for a couple of hours with breaks in between. This was at a hotel in Monaco. Sensational.  And was wit a pick up in the hotel!!  She noticed my key number and knocked on the door?- with a bottle of champagne. I went back the next night but she had checked out- sadly.

    4 hours and the final was 28 to 3 there are a lot more ways to  extend the enjoyment of your partner and finding the  pleasure centers on her body that make  

    An exgf and I went at it four hours non stop one new years eve 

    Seven hours of nonstop sex. We never use the same position twice. It was the longest I have ever gone nonstop and it was awesome!

    Hi this is bbw shelley . Well my sex lasted for about hours straight. We nibble on fruit in between. Sex was great

    15 to 20 mint my max time I try ur tips let's see

    I went six hours and it was the best sex ever

    With a most gorgeous woman that is also an incredible person and friend... our first time "together" went from mid afternoon one day to mid afternoon the next day.  We made love over and over into the evening, waking up in the night, the next morning and more afternoon delight.  I came twelve times... she had even more orgasms.  That's the kind of ratio it should be.

    3 hrs

    4 session in 6 hrs was the greatest night with my gf.. Various positions helped to have longer sessions 

    4 our

    4 hours and it started at 12 at night I was living in an apartment at the time and the guy below me heard everything all night and I actually got evicted

    50min to 1h 30min of enjoyment with break but the first round 35 min...
     

    three hours straight

    Thank you for the list I am going into a longe  sex night on Saturday  

    5 hours with a few breaks

    Always be clean and smell nice perfume shouldn’t be cheap and overpowering. Just smell sweet and sexy.    I

    as much as both partner are attracted and have similar interest to take up anytime.

    Just under 6 hrs

    7hrs easy