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The Art of Edging

    Want better, longer-lasting and stronger orgasms? If you're up for making your orgasms just generally, better, than this orgasm technique called 'edging' may be right up your alley (wheyy).

    Closer to the Edge

    ‘Edging' is the art of bringing someone to the very brink of climax (and we are talking toe-curlingly close here) and then holding back just enough so you can prolong the powerful sexual sensations that take place. The physical demands of being kept (or keeping oneself) in this highly excited state for an extended length of time can induce an incredibly pleasurable and almost euphoric state.

    Savings, Savings, Savings!

    Here are some tried and true techniques to help you get used to edging:

    1. Stimulate your sensitive spots in the normal way. Use slow and steady stimulation rather than a quick buildup. Switch techniques as soon as you feel the point of no return oncoming.

    2. Stop stimulating your current sensitive spot and move to another type of stimulation. Pleasuring multiple spots at once or in a session can lead to more intense orgasms over which you have more control and may even enable you to have multiple orgasms!

    3. Imagine your arousal and proximity to orgasm on a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 is not aroused, and 10 is right on the verge. Try to categorise where you are on the scale at any given time. Whenever you're higher than an 8 (7, if you're at the point of no return, is more fleeting!), back off, slow down or stop what you're doing entirely!

    4. Redirect your focus away from sexual stimulation entirely to prevent yourself from climaxing. One method you might find useful is to focus on your breathing. As you get closer to the point of no return, your breathing is probably quicker and more shallow, so taking the time to focus on each breath and inhale and exhale more slowly is one of the best unexpected edging techniques.

    The Big Payload

    When you first experiment with edging, you may lack the control it takes to get it right, but don't be hard on yourself. Keep practising either by yourself or with your partner, and you might soon be an edging expert. However, if you're already having trouble reaching orgasm or edging just leaves you frustrated, no rule says you have to do it. After all, different folks require different strokes – especially when it comes to sex!

    Anybody tried edging? tell us in the comments.




    Comments
    finalst3759

    Edging can be lots of fun, especially in a tease/denial dynamic. 

    saddamwali769Bangalore

    Sex

    arum1953

    Licking pussy is also one of the way to stimulate

    chicg222jhhjw

    What are you talking about 

    muppey34

    Edging is the best way to masturbate if you have time and enjoy the extended pleasure.  For me edging can keep me aroused for hours, literally.  Guys probably don't think of this idea or care for it.  Fuck your girl, guy with a condom.  For me a condom will desensitize my dick and allow me to keep her going "Oh do that to me one more time...or more."   Very good fun for your woman, and when you are both ready to come, just pull the condom off if you both agree and blast off.  

    nclleiser

    I have had Mistresses in the past that would tie me to the bed and edge me over and over while the would please themselves with a vibrator while watching porn on the tv.  They would make me beg them to stop every time I would get close.  This would go on for hours and in the end if They wanted me to cum They would force me to.  I would be begging Them to stop but They would keep going and order me not to cum.  Eventually it would happen and I would be chastised and put back into chastity.   It is awesome.  

    Ravikumarcxd

    great article i like it

    MumbailadBandra

    would love to learn edging

    Bakerlarry070EastCandia

    That sounds really good an different  

    ebonycpl36

    This is something we enjoy a lot. Sometimes we fail to stop at the edge, but it feels great when successful.

    cana447

    Oh yes orgasms are so beautiful what a man sticks his cock in my ass strokes me long and deep and finally he has his beautiful wife orgasm in me I get goose pimples all over my titties to feel the warmth of it coming into my body is beautiful

    Lucious19Spokane

    I like and enjoy a lot

    69loveguru

    Best position is cowgirl to get a lady to orgasm

    salilchakraborty03

    Enjoying

    kumararun73

    Hi I'm in Bangalore till Sunday couples who want fun can ping me

    Kumarmail

    Would love to try this once

    gmb408

    Willing to try thank you 

    fbat162

    I love edging, I fuck their bottoms till I almost cum then plunge it in their mouth.

    alynablondy23

    It' a great pleasure !????????

    Soniyaa

    Hiìiii 

    wiredpantyboy

    Edging is fucking great when combined with stimulants. i have edged for up to 4 days before allowing myself to finally cum. Huge huge loads. 

    Elitecandy85

    Edging combined with ball play is our new thing. So satisfying for both partners. 

    Travellust69

    This is something that gives more time again and again...

    divan65

    Love it as it allows me to shoot a load of Precum before actually Cumming 

    malgayeom856

    Tantric sex

    PraviABCD

    I resort to edging only when i intend to make it a slow and long session. Inching close to the climax and holding off for a minute or two helps synchronise the timing of my orgasm with my partner and also helps me shoot huge cum loads....

    HappyTez4U

    I luvit , very sensual and erotic , walk around naked and the boys are bouncing around and ol Buck is steady flowing and dripping..I could climax without touching myself towards the end ! Can't explain it, just have join me !

    raku403

    Gud one

    mariej045

    As a guy, edging is my favourite thing!  It prolongs the pleasure.  The key is for the woman to have the patience for it.  Each time I get close to the edge, it takes longer, so as you are fucking, the climax for both of you at the end of prolonged love making is great!

    singhchandrash20Poona

    Lovely

    bobbyb037

    I have tried this many times the orgasm is intense when I finally cum but sometimes I go just a little to far and end up have a ruined orgasm 

    annar30

    The explosive orgasm after a long edging session is the absolute best! 

    amansinghu034

    ????????

    ozto897

    My past partners have experienced this through my suggestions and them listening to my voice, no need for actual touching if you can enduce their imagination and lead them there

    LoverOnFire

    I read a very long time ago of a man prolonging his ejaculation due to his mind concentration of sexual intercourse . He used to turn it on and off at will like a switch. It can be done believe me with practice . After you been having sexual intercourse for a while the need to ejaculate and orgasm gets greater of course and very intense. So when the woman is almost at her peak of explosion the male pulls out of the vagina and he thinks say of his vechile or a damn light bill  something to make the mind go off the sexual intimate  part of it for a short time, she will probably want to bitch slap you to death lol but, when you both start back to action again the rewards are so much greater and a good sign of this when she claws with fingernails  and chucks you around the bed or threshes you from the tremendous orgasm . lol  think of the mother in law bitching at you that ought to bring you to a hault for a few minutes  lol . Its all for the greater good  lol. Have fun !

    shaunwise358

    I’m going to give it a blast tonight ??

    Darcdic

    yes edging is awesome, prolonged pleasure for both mem an women 

    connectwithjay

    Edging build the sex more fun along the side of building more tension. And makes you cum a lot!