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Ah, the illusive sex party… And yes, they’re as filthy and fun as they sound! 😍
Desperate to swing your way in, but unsure about how to make that first connection? Say no more! 😏 We’re sharing our top tips for securing that all-important swinger party invite. 🔥💌👇
People will want to invite people who present themselves well, so polish your online profile if you’re after an invitation to a sex party. 👋 Upload great quality photos for instant attention, update your profile description so people will know what you’re here to find as soon as they click on you, and send respectful messages. 🙏 Sure, ask your hottie matches about their kinks and fantasies, but only send horny pictures when you know they want them! 🙌
Head over to Spaces and check out if anyone’s hosting any sex parties or meet-ups in your local area. Why not put up a post yourself and see what’s out there? 😏
We kinksters are the most open of people, right? So always ask! Even if we don’t know exactly, we may just be able to point you in the right direction. 👀
When it comes to the offline world, explore sex-positive spaces like adult book shops, sex shops, or kink workshops and look for flyers or pinboards where people advertise their parties. 📚📌🥳 You might find pointers towards other networking events (like BDSM “munches”). 🍔 Ask the adult event organizers or the people behind the cash registers if they have access to any of these resources.
Glance over at our Events area to see what horny networking events are going on in your area. 🔥
Parties tend to be private affairs, but most sex clubs are open to the adult public, so that’s your easy way in! 👐 Look out for swinger clubs or “lifestyle” clubs, and peep at their website to see if they’ve got any events that might get your motor running. 💻
💡 Networking Tip: Club not looking too busy that night? Chat to the bar staff - they’ll be the experts when it comes to filling you in about when the crowds tend to rock up. 🍺
Show everyone else the best version of you at public events to maximize your chances of an invite to a private party. 👌 Dress in a way that makes you feel hot, keep good hygiene, spritz a sexy fragrance on the side of your neck… 🚿 Show that you’ve made an effort and that you care about how you come across. And yes, there’ll be plenty of cumming across later… 💦💦😛
Okay, you’ve got yourself into the right place at the right time - online or offline. Now it’s time to chat! 🥂
As tempting as it might be to approach the sexiest people in the room, be sure to talk to everyone! Remember, everyone here shares the same kinky interests, and your aim is to secure those follow-up invites, so approach big groups to get yourself well-nestled into your local scene.
How is everyone enjoying the event, who do they know here, and what are they hoping to get out of the night? 🎉 Be open with your questions - you don’t have to hone in on sex right away! 😛 Then, when people inevitably ask you what you’re looking for, you can be honest without seeming pushy. It’s okay to go after what you want! 🔥
A personal connection is key to knowing when you can trust a swinger party is gonna be the one for you. Who do you know that’s going? Where did you meet this person, and do you trust them? Do you know anyone that’s been to an event by that host before, and if so, how did they find it? 🤔
Paying a cover charge on the door is common, but anything more than around 20 bucks is a red flag. 🌹
How open is the host being about giving you the details of this event? Always feel free to contact the organizers if you have any questions or doubts. 👍
As a general rule, trust your instincts. Don’t jump into a dodgy basement just because you’re horny, ok? 👅
You’ll have access to more parties if you bring another sexy somebody along with you.
Even if the party isn’t labeled “couples only”, it’s much more fun to go round with a (fuck)buddy or wingmate, especially if you’re new to the scene. You’ll feel way more confident when you’re around trusted company. 😘 Plus, although sex is obviously what everyone’s after, it’s not guaranteed at any sex party. However, you’re much more likely to get properly down and dirty if you know or bring somebody who’s already expressed an interest in wanting to fuck you. 😜
The hard part is over - you made it! Prove yourself to be a star guest to make sure people invite you back. 😇
Respect the house rules set by the host - dress code, alcohol policy, and any safewords if you’re getting kinky. 😈 Some people use aliases when they’re swinging, so always follow the names given to you by the party go-ers, even if you’ve met before in a vanilla setting. No one wants to be reminded of that business conference in 2012 when they’re tryna warm up for a super-hot group sweat sesh. 😆🥵
This advice bears repeating: talk to everyone, not just to those who turn you on. 🔥 You never know how valuable those connections might be when it comes to finding the next sex party (and so on, and so on… 😏). 🥳
Who knows, you might even meet enough saucy swingers to host your own next time! 🔥
Have you been to a sex party yet? What are your horniest sex party memories? What do you think makes for the hottest parties? Share all in the comments - we can’t wait to hear your tantalizing tales. 👇
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