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How to Bring Your Kinky Threesome Fantasy to Life!

Thirsty for a threesome but haven’t got around to trying it yet? Bringing someone else’s sexual energy into your existing sexual dynamic brings whole new flavour to the party.🍉

More hands, more mouths, more genitals… when it comes to steamy sessions, three is certainly NOT a crowd! So… you ask, how do we make the magic happen? 🔥

Get ready, kinksters! We’re here to help you confidently finesse your way into tantalising threesome territory. 👇

Introducing the idea to a primary partner 💬

Group sex meetups are like a dinner party… one wrong guest could kill the whole vibe. At least nobody will be complaining about undercooked chicken… we hope?!

For those who value exclusivity with a playmate, the idea of threesomes could sound pretty intimidating. But like all sexual adventures, keep your mind open to erotic group exploration - a threesome doesn’t have to lead you to a life of polyamory!

Reassure your partner when you divulge your fantasy, making sure they know you’ll still be wholly connected to one another as you progress to new sexual experiences together. As long as you’ve got matched and realistic expectations, you’ll stay on the right track.🛤️

Broaching the subject 🕜

For couples, the conversation should begin with why you want to invite a third person into sex. Are you looking for something new, or trying to supercharge what you’re already doing?⚡

If you’re not sure how your partner may react, you could begin exploring the fantasy together by watching some porn, or getting into some dirty-talk about three-way action. This way, you can gauge if it’s something they’d truly be into before having to openly discuss the possibility directly.

Approach your partner with sensitivity, and choose your moment wisely! The best time is when you feel that you’re at a solid point in your relationship. Whipping out your desire for a threesome at the wrong time may result in your current playmate assuming that you’re dissatisfied with them sexually.

If your partner seems unsure, ask them exactly what worries them and attempt to ease any concerns!

Remember: Trust is the most important ingredient in a threesome and necessary for everyone to revel in reckless abandon.😍

Set the rules for triple the fun ⚖️

Have a pre-agreed set of clear rules before you start your search for a third person! Discuss with your partner the boundaries of what can and can’t be done, being as specific as possible and with both of your preferences in mind. Here are some key pointers for discussion:

🌶 Is full penetration allowed?

🌶 What about kissing?

🌶 Can one of us sit back and watch for a while?

🌶 If someone leaves the room, should everything stop?

🌶 Will the third person sleep over?

🌶 What happens if the third person seems to be more into one person than the other?

🌶 What will happen the next morning?

🌶 Is this a one-time-only event?

🌶 Is a friendship outside sex acceptable with the third person?

Once you’ve laid ground rules with your primary partner, welcome the third into discussion as well. Threesomes work best when there’s an equal distribution of attention in all directions, so it’s essential that your third person feels safe as well as satisfied.

Finally - and importantly! You should all agree upon a safeword that will immediately stop any action when used.🚫

The third party 🦄

When it comes to finding the third person to spice up your sex life (often called a ‘unicorn’, meaning a bisexual or sexually flexible person open to threesomes - often rare to find!), you may first think about someone you know who fits the bill… But how close to home is too close to home?🏠

While it may feel like a good idea to invite a friend into your bed, carefully weigh up the possibility of awkwardness afterwards. The ideal third person is a playmate you trust but who you also won’t have to see regularly once the kinky action is over.

When looking online, make your pursuit a fun experience! Enjoy the thrill of the chase in choosing your third, as you eagerly anticipate their response to your message… 🤤

The mere thought of a threesome should instil in you a desperate desire. Now that you’re actually here? Devour the whole process in its tingling entirety! 👅

Getting down and dirty…😈😈😈

The thirst is real! But suppress those urges to jump straight into bed together. Relax first, with a few drinks if that’s your thing! Ramp up the heat by starting off with some raunchy games such as truth-or-dare, or rolling sexy dice with naughty deeds on them… 🎲

Kickstart the kinky with “Never have I ever… received double penetration” and see where it takes you.👅

Building this intimacy can help the threesome feel comfortable and inclusive from the get-go. Try not to leave anyone out and be as generous as possible with your tongue, hands, and sex toys, to make sure that everyone is getting what they want.

When it comes to the sexual dynamic, it’s entirely down to your vibe. There can be 2 active playmates while the third watches in voyeuristic heaven, all 3 playmates in active erotic play together, or even 2 playmates performing racy acts on the third. Why not switch it up? As long as you’re all satisfied, go for what feels best - you never know what might get you off in your new adventure.

Our best advice? Just go with it! 💦

The post-match chat 🗣️

Lying in your post-orgasm bliss? Embrace the euphoria for a little while… but then what?

Discuss your experience! It’s important to find out how your playmates felt during the threesome, and how they feel afterwards. Ask yourself the same questions, and be vocal and honest about your answers. Going forwards, you may need to adjust the rules accordingly - and with responsible fine-tuning, you’ll pave the way towards even hotter erotic experiences.

Done well, threesomes can bring a couple to a place of intimacy and closer than they’ve ever been before.❤️‍🔥

What are your tastiest trio experiences? We love hearing your stories. Let us know in the comments below!👇




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