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Finding (and Pleasuring!) the Clit

A body part made purely for pleasure? 😲 Yes please! 🙋🥵

Listen, we know that the clit can be pretty intimidating (and elusive!) for some of us, but it’s not as complicated as it looks, we promise! 🙏

Today we’re taking you through all things clitoris – how to find it, and how to use it to feel good. 🤤 These two factors are intimately connected, so let’s dive straight in… 🤿💦👇

All about the clit 🌸

For people with vulvas, the clit is the most nerve-dense spot in your whole body. ✨ Most of us know the visible clit, but this is actually your “glans clitoris” – in essence, only the external manifestation of the clit.

The clitoris is actually a complex structure, shaped a bit like a wishbone. The internal parts of your clit hug your vagina when you’re aroused to make penetration more pleasurable. 🫦 More on that later… 😏

But where is it? 🧐

Okay, so we’ve established that the clit is bigger than you think, but how do we find the bit we can see? Well, that’s located at the top of the vulva, above the vagina and the urethra, and normally hidden under a hood. 👌

The external clit can be hard to find if you’re not turned on. However, during arousal, blood flows to your genitals and your clit will swell. 🩸 Your hood might retract too, making that ultimate pleasure point easier to spot. 😉

Getting better acquainted with your body will always make your sex hotter. Masturbation is the easiest way to make clitoral stimulation better – touching yourself will help you learn the best technique for you, and then you can show your playmates. 😜

Wanna explore yourself? Get in front of a mirror, and leave those lights on. 💡 Relax, stroke, stimulate… All our bodies are different, and clits come in different shapes and sizes, so take your time and look around. 🤤 Isn’t the human body amazing? 🤯

It takes a moment for the clit to warm up to stimulation, so the best place to start is always heavy foreplay. 😘 Make out passionately, move your hands all over each other’s red-hot bodies, and tease your playmate by caressing their stomach, their pubis, their lower thighs… 🫦

Remember that everything is connected…

  • There’s skin joining your clitoral hood to your labia minora (the inner lips), so anything that moves your labia will stimulate your clit too.
  • Some scientists think that what we call the ‘G spot’ is actually just part of your internal clit. 😲
  • Penetration feels good when you’re turned on because your engorged clit hugs your vagina. 🥵

Stimulation techniques 😜

Our sensitivity changes during different phases of arousal, and all bodies are different, so there’s no rulebook here. 🤷

Unsure what to do? Just ask! Try a few different movements and ask which feels better. 😏 Check in on the pressure and speed of your stimulation. Ask them to show you what feels good so you can copy (and this way, you get a horny view too… 😵‍💫).

Here’s a few motions to try – by yourself or with a playmate… 👉

Glide and slide 💧

Use your hand or a sex toy to glide up and down or move side-to-side over your clit and its hood, trembling as the waves of pleasure build within you. 🫦

Tap tap

Start with a gentle tapping motion on your clit and its hood, gradually increasing the speed and pressure as your arousal gains momentum. 🔥

Grind 🛏️

Straddle a pillow at just the right angle, and grind your pelvis until you hit your clit.

💡 Clit Stimulation Tip: Keeping your clothes on while you do the grind gives you a lil extra friction. 😉

Two finger pinch

Form your index and middle fingers into a peace sign, then softly pinch your clitoral hood. Tug up and down or back and forth. 👅

Round and round 🔁

Trace slow circles around your clit and its hood with your finger. Grazing everything around your clit, especially your labia, spreads the sensation and stimulates the internal structures of your clitoris. 😋

Vibe it out

Sex toys can enhance any (and all 😈 ) of these techniques. Get yourself a clitoral vibrator, or go to town with a suction toy. 🤯 Start with the lowest setting and ramp it up as all those horny feelings build. 😵‍💫

Getting off 💦

Nothing kills the sexy mood like pressure, so take the focus off orgasm and put it on pleasure and stimulation, baby! 🔥

Relax and go where the mood takes you. 🧘 Touch, rub, lick, and buzz what feels good. And when you find something that works, keep it going, amp it up, and don’t stop… 😩💦

Do you love clit play? What’s your favorite way to drive them wild with clit stimulation? Tell us all your saucy secrets in the comments. Don’t worry, we’ll keep it between us… 😉🤫👇




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