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Exploring Your Bi Side

Okay, let's admit it, many of us have thought about what it would be like to at least kiss someone of the same sex, and some of you possibly already have, but does that mean you are bi-sexual if you want to go further?

September the 23rd is Celebrate Bisexuality Day, so we have 6 tips on everything you need to know on exploring your curious side.

There’s nothing wrong with exploring your bi-side

You might have reservations about exploring your sexuality, you might be afraid of judgment because bisexuality or sexual fluidity is often associated with sexual promiscuity. This is far from the truth; If you try kissing someone of the same sex, it doesn't automatically make you gay or bi. Being bi-curious just means you – like all the rest of your fellow humans – are a complex erotic being, a little experimentation doesn't define you.

How to decide if you're ready

Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with someone of the same sex using your imagination. Consider what qualities and physical characteristics you're attracted to in the same sex. Try masturbating while fantasising about being with someone of the same sex.

Finding someone to explore with

Let's face it, chances are you are not going to go around winking at sexy strangers hoping they will fulfil your curiosity. So the best place to find somebody to explore with is online. It's a lot less intimidating to chat someone up this way. You'll also get a chance to talk things through with the other person before committing to anything to make sure you're on the same page.

Make your intentions clear from the get-go

If you're meeting somebody online or thinking about sleeping with somebody you know, you need to be honest with that person. Be upfront about being bi-curious with potential partners. Do not try to pass yourself off as an experienced bisexual or that you are gay and have been involved in multiple same-sex relationships. You need to make it clear that it might not necessarily be a regular thing because you're unsure of your sexuality or you're just exploring.

Doing the deed

You don't have to spill your entire story to your hookup partner, but if you want to go further than just a little tongue to tongue action, you may want to consider sharing that it's your first time with the same sex. Once you're in the midst of your hookup, just enjoy it! Don't think about what it means or whether this makes you bi or not. Notice what you're feeling in your body, but don't analyse it. Have fun!

Okay, now what?

If you're feeling even the slightest bit of curiosity, we encourage you to go for it. You are more likely to regret something you never experienced than something you did. For some people, it could be an important moment and a big change that leads to coming out. For some, it could mean very little. For others, it could be the sexual gratification they need. But for everyone, it should be an amazing experience. Leave your reservations at the door and enjoy yourself because sex is a lot of fun.

Let us know in the comments below if you have had bi-curious thoughts or if you have ever acted upon your feelings and how you went about it.




Comments
diamondave65Liberal

Curious my whole life but never acted on it till my 50th birthday after I caught my wife with a younger man. I thought why not try a younger man too . After several drinks and replying to 3 different cl adds I found the one I wanted and was knocking on his motel door .the rest is history I found out that I love to bottom and have great oral talents

noshirt19

I'm have no experience. But if it feels good,  why stop

krushnachbatu0

I hope you good friendship together life is too short time to enjoy with friends bhubaneswar, odisha 

wwwrbrtc123Badda

hi

digger61ukCreeting

Thats exactly what im looking for, have dabbled s bit but want to experience the full deal.... so looking for a suitable person, hopeing to do it soon.

Hugeforyou

Hello

donpnj

Have done it several times. First time was very nervous couldn’t do anything but now,very ok with going down. 

girishprab

It took me awhile to come out to my family and tell them that I'm fully bi. I told them that it's more than just sexual attraction to either sex. For me personally, it means that I have the capacity to fall in love with either gender, for who they are and not what's between their thighs. Every bi is a bit different, I guess, but that's what being bi is for me

shiftstick69Chasetown

i think its fab 

raju2212

Hi, I'm Raju from Mumbai, looking friend long time relationship, fun movie party, interested meet, I hope u also interested meet. Wait for ur reply. 

Emsue

Always wanted to see two guys sucking each other and persuaded my partner that we shoul try a 3some. We pick a young biguy up in a gay bar inllandudno one night and explained what we wanted. To watch my boyfriend sucking a cock was trully amazing.

Slowjoe57

I really want to feel another dick then my own I just don't know where to find one.no good  at on line cant figure things out.

Passion68

I want this experience so so badly. 

wesmeeks61

I have been with another guy and it was great. Would like to try it to a further experience

Sexpot2019

I want to try the bi experience with a man and try new things like sucking a cock with a man in local looking for a wm 

anddeb6368

My wife and I are both bisexual.... it’s the best thing ... so liberating... we have had so much fun with guys and gals ... very arousing for both of us ... 
if there are guys on here reading this and want to dabble into it I would suggest making a visit to a bath house ... they are discreet ... and for the most part lots of fun. At least you get to be be naked with guys if that’s what you want to do ... or certainly get to feel another guy ... there’s quite a number all over the USA ... not sure about other countries 

boydc1

very curious by like others don 'know where to start

nclleiser

Love when my Mistress makes me suck another guy off in front of Her!!  Need a new Mistress now in Savannah to do that to me

albikehike

Dont find the look of guys or their 'apendages' attractive but the feel of them...mmm!! Hence tried it a couple of times...now like both !!

cwa2359Pyrmont

Hi there Mate ?

novacdar

I like be bisexual is my life that 

aak472

Bi-curious but never tried anything just fan

fh424Alvor

Hi welcome any time  to explore the  bisexua  way -  if someboday like to know more please send PM

alwayshorney2019

have often wondered what it would be like to have sex with another guy. am very ready to have the experance !

arnie4NewtonNewton

Really would like to try this out. I have fantasies about being with a man in my bed. Thinking about it turns me on. So I'd like to get past the first part kissing. That's the thing that scares me most. Please contact me if you are feeling the same way. 

sco802

Yes I have yes it was exciting

Kaymag2

I was introduced to males by mmf 3-some. Receiving a blow job feels great regardless of the partner. Sucking a cock and drinking the cream is like sucking on a large, lactating nipple. Double vaginal penetration, EVERY woman is tight when she is squeezing tow cocks together. Loved it all and need more in Calgary AB.
Nswbi6108

I loved to wear panties real skimpy ones so 1 night I stripped to pink panties and begun playing I'd been curious for years and recently single so I went for it I opened my door and my neighbour was walking up to knock when he spotted me he watchdogs awhile then let him self in it was so good he was 30 years older than me was hot

davesta872

I've been married for 43 years and I've dreameped and fantasies about a man penetrating me so I could feel his balls hitting my body his hands squeezing into me body holding me tight and going for what seems hours then exploding in side me with his hot cum juices then pounds into me even harder then he slowly removing himself from me washes his hard cock lays on his back with both of his hands on either  side of my face he slowly intrudes his cock to my lips and slowly push his cock in my lips my touge plays around it until he penetrates deep inside me and I feel the ball bag on my chin then I wake up wet and hard . But as of yet having trouble finding a man in Sydney Australia that after a newbie 

joblob20cyhdw

Getting fucked with a strap-on made me very curious. Having tried it, I now love cocks in my bum. Now I realise I am sub and would love to be totally dominated by a guy (or a group of guys).

gundagaifrank45Tumut

Hi i havebeen biccurious for a while now 3or4 years so i'm looking for a try out want to try it with a woman with a strapon then a shemale to see if i like it and find out how to kiss the same sex and enjoy it and if all goes well then a guy     frank

keithrac11

I'm definitely bi curious.  I haven't tried it yet.  My ex-lover used to have me suck her dildo and that was hot.  I also fantasize about being bi.  Would really like to explore with a couple.  I been corresponding with someone on this site but we haven't met up yet.  I keep saying some day.

hotanhard

I have done it a couple of times with a guy whilst having a 3some. I started playing with there cocks, then sucking them and finally wanking them off. I have never done anal with a guy or never swolled. My preference is playing with guys that are uncut. I have had praise the way I give a BJ

kuskk

I Had a girlfriend who always insisted I was gay and always wanted me to cross dress so one day I took her up on it And we went out. Needless to say she was right. I slept with my first man And never looked back! Been on hormones  for 4yrs now and live as  female. Life’s is good

Puckstopper

Great article in my mind. Looking forward with anticipation for my first and hopefully my first experience. 

rayman2565

I consider myself pan sexual.  I've evolved over all of my life and am comfortable in my own skin.  Ray

fste872

I'm bi curious but strong  welling on a understand of me being bonded and forced to a safe person and giving me what I want

allubedup13

I have had many sexual experiences with older men. That is my preference. I just recently got into wearing lingerie. Twice now I have been penetrated while I was wearing lingerie. Feeling a big hard cock enter me until he was balls deep in my ass is very exhilarating. I prefer raw bb sex in the shower or on my back on the bed or bent over the edge of the bed with my panties tugged to the side. Yes, I am bi. No I am not curious anymore. I have had a lot of man on man sexual experience and I love it just as much as woman on man sex. 

joefierb495

Sex is fun ! I have always CD'd off&on for my lifetime. My first experience  with a male was a long time ago,about 45years. That was my only till about 3-4 yrs ago. While CDing I got curious and contacted people on line and had a few meets,some of best oral in my life! Nothing else attempted yet. Wife found my clothing stash resulting in a serious problem but she doesn't know about this side of my life,??

guybea167

Will written. Thanks

christo04

As a c/d it reminds me that I want to be forfilled in more ways than one , I have had an intimate with amale and rubbing each others bodies was very ex plosive and hard I am willing to try again.

michaelpanettiere1

I like to find out what's it would be to suck a nice cock. The difference  between  a men's warm soft but hard cock and a hot woman and her strap on 

jamesdixon1988

Would certainly like to discuss bi experiences with someone. Give me a message sometime

look4my1st

Yes would love to explore my bi curious side.  

darinwilson42

Definitely interested in sex with a shemale.

Julie32R

I haven't been with a man, yet, but, when I do, would like to like to be treated as a sexy lady. I would like to feel his manhood then be extremely intimate. 

wellscj64

I’ve been thinking about it a lot but can’t decide how to go about it! I’m definitely wanting something exciting!

koalakraft70

Hi , I'm a early starter ,at12 my aunts took me & turned me into a lover of lingerie and porn ,I still enjoy today,????????

Fun2dome4

1 it's just makes life more interesting happy and want to do more things it's a wonderful world being bi

rtomlin1951

       I love giving head and being pegged by both two legged males and four  I am submissive to both. I also love love to be submissive to a female who is very dominant sexually.