9:57 pm Wednesday, 17th April, 2019
We all love it when a horny hottie makes the first move, who wouldn't find it exciting when a fittie focuses all of their attention on you. Ensuring your profile shows off your personality, and you have a sexy photo to go with it, will attract them to your profile.
So what happens once the naughty members land in your inbox? How can you keep the conversation going while keeping them interested?
If you want to get ahead of the game, try a few of these fun and frisky tips to guarantee they keep coming back for more.
We all like someone with a sense of humour. Is that a tiger they’re posing within their profile picture? Perhaps a snap from their recent holiday? Maybe inject some humour into that first message with: “I see from your profile picture you have a tiger as a pet. I wonder how you would cope with handling a wild animal in bed?” Teasing someone in a light-hearted way can create instant intimacy, and their response will reveal whether they can take a joke.
Netspeak, bad grammar and bad spelling are massive turn-offs for both men and women. Be literate, the way we speak to friends doesn’t mean it will work when trying to hook up with someone. Surprisingly, studies show that expressions of amusement such as ’haha’ and ‘lol’ are exceptions to the ‘no netspeak’ rule with higher response rates. So in short, “Ur realy hot. Wot ya doin Fri?” is a no-no, but letting them know you can have a laugh will give them a confidence boost for better conversation.
Think about the type of message you would like to see from someone. Simply throwing out a “Hi”, “Hey” or “Hello” is going to get an equally boring response back. Overloading them with your life story in your first message is not going to improve your chances either. Finding the balance is key. You're attracted to this person, not trying to bore them.
Do you prefer kinky sex or passionate sex? Asking these questions is an excellent way to suss out common interests, and you can almost guarantee the answers will get seriously dirty if you want them to.
Yes, they look super hot in their profile picture but play it cool. Studies show that messages with the words sexy, beautiful, hot and cutie, fizzle out after a short time. Focus on how awesome their profile bio sounds. Chances are they know how good they look, that's why they put that saucy picture on their profile.
The hookup world can be fun if you know how to do it right, Who doesn’t love that tingling feeling you get in your nits when someone you're attracted to is reciprocating and showing the same interest? So what do you think? Have you tried any of these and how did things turn out?
