“That’s it, Don’t Stop!” How to Make Sex Last Longer

4:35 pm Friday, 6th October, 2023

Do you wanna last longer? 🫦 Is your sex so hot that you just never want it to end? 😩😍 Whatever the reason, it makes sense that a lot of us wanna indulge for as long as possible in our favorite passionate past-time, right? 😉

Today, we’re sharing our tantalizing techniques that’ll have your eyes rolling back in your head for longer, your body trembling more intensely, and your pleasure going on and on and on… 😈👇

Everybody wants it 😉

When we asked you horny devils about how long an ideal sex sesh should last, half of you said “the longer the better”! 😵‍💫 After that, 23% wanted about an hour, and 15% at least two. 🤯 You just can’t get enough, can you? 😈 Let’s take a look…

Foreplay and indulgence 🤤

Sex doesn’t have to be all about penetration – that’s just one possibility within a galaxy of sex-ploration. 🚀 There are other ways to turn each other on and make each other feel good that focus more on intimacy, rather than direct genital stimulation. 😉🔥 Focus on all the erogenous zones – we all remember that scene from Friends, right? Well, there are waaaaaay more than seven. 🤯

Reframe your hot sweat sesh to focus more on foreplay and extend your period of connection. ⚡ Make out passionately, run your hands roughly and softly over each other’s bodies, explore the tastes and smells of your playmate’s trembling body. 🤤👅

Explore sensory play to tease and enhance their sensation – use feathers, pinwheels, hot wax, ice cubes, and any other implements that heighten sensitivity. 🕯️🧊✨ Sample all that’s available, and spread the pleasure wiiiiide. 😍

Wanna start it off slow? 🧘 Warm yourselves up with dirty talk, staying fully clothed to start, not touching each other. 😏 Ask different horny questions that’ll get you all riled up for the fun to cum… 💦

Being prepared ☝️

It’s always good to know what your body wants, and masturbation and self-pleasure is the most effective (and fun! 😜) way to figure that out. 🙌 When you know exactly what kind of touch and stimulation gets your motor running, you have more control over your body, making it easier to prolong sex. 😘

Keeping your body healthy will give you all the energy and stamina you need to keep going, so exercise often, eat well, and avoid too much alcohol before sex – it’s a depressant, after all! 🏃🥕 Regular exercise makes for good blood flow, which in turn makes it easier for everyone to stay turned on – and if you’ve got a cock, it’ll help you maintain your erection for longer. 🍆😉

💡 Sex Tip: Thicker condoms decrease sensitivity for the penetrating playmate, so wear one during sex and keep pumping for longer. 😜

Make sex a priority – plan out a few hours into your schedule, and let it run over. 🤤 It might seem a bit formal, but if you’ve got sex in your diary, you’ll have something to look forward to, and you can make sure you arrive with energy. ⚡

Sex techniques 😏

Switching up positions 🔀

Changing positions lets you have a break from stimulation, slowing down the build up of your arousal. 😝 The easiest way to prolong sex is to take breathers when you need to – let yourself cool down before you get hot again. 🥵

Lower impact positions like missionary or spooning are better for longer sex sessions – only move to higher impact positions, like doggy, when you’re ready to finish. 💦

Edging 😩

Delay your final satisfaction further with edging — bring everyone super close to orgasm, without tipping over the edge. 🫦 Use a ‘start stop’ technique, or squeeze the under the head of your cock for five to ten seconds to stop your orgasm by constricting blood flow. 😩💦

Edging will leave you hyper-sensitive, spreading tingling sensations alllll over your hot, trembling body. 🥵

Sex toys ⚡

Sex toys help you vary up stimulation and bring out different dimensions of your playmate’s arousal. 😩 Clamp their nipples, vibrate their pubis, gliiiiide a pinwheel along the divots on their lower back… 🤤

📜 Sex Fact: People with vaginas often need clitoral stimulation to cum, so help your playmate along with some sexy vibrations. 🌸💦 Buzz buzz!

It’s about the journey 🥵

Sexual arousal doesn’t have to go in a straight line – bring your playmate’s arousal up and back down to play around with expectation and keep them guessing. 😜 Sex is meant to be exciting, right? 😁✨

Hey, not everyone has to cum to enjoy sex, either! 💦 Still, if you find it’s constantly unbalanced—maybe you’re always cumming fast and they’re not cumming at all, or vice versa—then it’s time to have a conversation. ☝️ What can you do to make sex more enticing and satisfying for everybody? 😘

Reaching your orgasm doesn’t always mean you have to stop… 😏 Why not go again? 😈 (And again! And again! 😩 ). If cumming means you wanna stop using your genitals, you can still help your playmate get off with toys, hands, fingers, mouths… 👅

Experiment with maintaining stimulation during and after your playmate’s orgasm too, to let them stay longer in their moment of erotic bliss. 🤤 Their whole body will be extra-sensitive, so play around with touch in the afterglow. 🔥 Start super light and playful, and work your way up from there if you get a good response. 😘

Of course, sex is never really over if you keep it in the spank bank! 😉 The memories of that extra-lengthy, extra-hot sex sesh will stay with you for looooong while to cum (and cum, and cum again! ✊💦 )…

Is it true what they say about ‘the longer, the better’? 😉 What do you do to make your sex sessions go on and on? Divulge all the dirty details in the comments… 😈👇