Rough Sex Done Right
4:02 pm Monday, 3rd July, 2023
Do you like it rough? 🥵 Are you yearning to have your hair pulled, your ass spanked, your back scratched, all in the hot throes of pure passion and pleasure? 😩😍🔥
Today we’re talking all things rough sex. 😜 Release your tension, re-ignite your passion, and let your inner beast roar. 😈👇
How rough do you like it? 😏
Communication is key in all sex, so talk about your desires before you start biting! 😆🫦 What first piqued your curiosity? 🔥 What kind of things do you wanna try together? 😏 Is there anything off-limits? 🙅
You wanna be prepared, so get yourself a bottle of long-lasting silicone lube, and stock up on the extra-thick condoms for peace of mind. 💧🙏
Let the sexual tension in your bodies build up, using the time before sex as extended foreplay. 😍 Let your desperate desire for your playmate’s fiery touch mount. 😩👅 Of course, being turned on makes everything looser too…! 🤤
For lots of us, fantasy is a lot different from reality, so let everyone feel it out before fully cranking up the heat. 🥵🔥 Share your filthy fantasies with with each other, show your playmate the porn that turns you on, and indulge in dirty talk to explore your innermost passions. 😉
Make sure everyone is on board before you start, and agree on a safeword you can use if you need to stop the action. 👌 As a reminder: everyone should feel safe to stop sex at any time, for any reason. If you suggested something kinky, but then it turns out you’re not into it, that’s A-OK! 🤷 Let’s stop, reflect, and decide together if we wanna carry on, or try something else. 😘
Learn how to read your playmate’s emotional and mental state. Ask yourself: do they look present, or do you think they might be dissociating? 🤔 If in doubt, just check in. You have an emotional responsibility to your playmate, as well as a physical one. 🥰
And finally, remember that rough sex doesn’t have to include discomfort or pain – but it can if you want it to… 😈
Let’s do it 🥵
Rough sex can be soooo many things! 🤯 What do you wanna try…?
🫦 Lip-biting
😩 Hair-pulling
🤫 Dirty talk
🩸 Back-scratching
💥 Spanking
🍆 Deeeeep penetration – faster, harder, harder, HARDER! 😈
The energy is contagious – you slap my ass, I slap yours back. 😜 Bring that aggressive energy out – when changing positions, gently push, shove, or manhandle your playmate into just the right spot. 😉
Rough sex is the perfect gateway into BDSM too. ⛓😏 Mouth gags, wrist ties, chastity cages… They’re all waiting for you! 😘
Amp up the intensity with moments of calm and sensuality to heighten their sensitivity and have their body tingling with anticipation. ✨ Pause for a few seconds, stare at them with desire until they’re begging you for more, then pounce right back in. 😋
Aftercare 🥰
You’ll be using up a lot of energy – the aim is to collapse in an exhausted heap of erotic bliss, right? 🥵💦
As the adrenaline leaves your body, you might feel vulnerable, so cool down from your intense sex sesh together. Look after your playmate – cuddle, talk, reassure, rehydrate, moisturize the parts of their body you’ve spanked raw… 🍑😩 Relish in all the dirty things you’ve done together… 😈
Once the smoke has settled, you might be ready for Round 2! 😜
How rough do you like it? 😩 What’s your favorite way to make sex that bit kinkier? Tell us all your dirty secrets in the comments… We’re desperate to read them. 🤤👇