Questions to Ask Before Your Next Threesome
5:32 pm Tuesday, 11th April, 2023
Looking for a third? 😉 Getting kinky with a new playmate is our favorite way to spice up your sex life. 🌶
Today, we’re talking all things threesome preparation, so sit your kinky asses down for a lesson in all the things you need to ask your new playmate to make your next threesome the hottest yet. 🥵😈👇
❓ What’s your experience with threesomes? 😏
Are you open-minded newbies, or have you been around the block together a few times? 😜 There’s advantages to both, so be honest about your levels of experience - if you’re new to this, your unicorn (your new playmate!) can guide you through. ??😘
❓ When was your last sexual health check-up? 🩺
When we’re getting down and dirty with multiple new playmates (our favorite thing to do!), we gotta keep track of our sexual health. 👌 Give the people you’re fucking some peace of mind. 🕊️🥰 We’re gonna enjoy sex more if we’re feeling safe, right?
❓ What kind of protection do you use? 💊
Condoms for all kinds of penetration, dental dams for eating out someone’s front or backdoor 👅 , contraceptive pills for vaginal sex, latex gloves for fisting… 🧤💧 The kinds of sex you wanna have will determine what protection you wanna use, so talk through all the possibilities. 🔥
If you’re bringing a queer guy or trans person into the bedroom, ask if they’re on PrEP for that extra level of protection. 💊
If you need condoms to stay safe and they don’t wanna do that, that’s a dealbreaker! 🙅♀️ There’s lots of people out there dying to have a sexy time that's both hot and protected. 🥵😘
❓ What kind of toys do you like? ⚡
What dirty devices are you horny little devils storing in your bedside drawers? 🍆 What toys do you all have stashed away? 😈 What’s everyone bringing? Who’s up for using which toys? Where, for how long, how hard…? 🥵
What can we squeeze with this tight clamp? Can you handle it? 😩
❓ What kinks do you wanna indulge? 🔥
We’ve all got plenty of kinky fantasies swirling around in our horny minds, and a threesome is the perfect time to indulge. 😋 Does your new playmate wanna sit back and watch, voyeur-style, before diving tongue-first into the action? 🤿
Have fun with some kinky roleplay scenarios - meet up as ‘strangers’ in a bar, and flirt outrageously. 🍷🫢 Invite your playmate round to play the horny handyman. 🪛 Does anybody here need a long, hard screw? 🔩😜
Looking to ramp up your kink level with BDSM? Read on… 👀😈
❓😈 What are your hard and soft limits? ❌
Hard limits are for kinks you’re absolutely not up for. 🙅♀️
Soft limits are for kinks you might try. 🤔 But let’s approach them slowly with caution. 🖐️
❓😈 What’s your safeword? 🙋
It’s always okay to take a pause during sex, and everyone should feel comfortable to stop at any time. BDSM gets intense, and sometimes we need a few minutes to breathe! 🥵
❓😈 What’s your pain tolerance? 💥
Tell your playmates a number from 1 to 10 - from wincing at the tiniest pinch, to squealing with delight under the crack of a bondage whip. 🤏💥
❓ Are you looking to stay over? 🛏️
Stopping by for a quickie, or hanging out for a full-night sesh? 🤷♀️ Either is completely fine, but it’s good to check in beforehand! ✅
❓ Who are you comfortable touching, and where? 🖐️
It makes for a much hotter threesome if everyone is able to let loose and get fully involved in the action. 🤤 When looking for your third, find someone who wants to get down and dirty with everything you both have to offer. It’s much more fun that way, trust us. 😉
❓ Who’s fucking who? 🙋
Who likes giving head? Who wants to fuck, and who wants to get fucked? How about at the same time? 🤯 Hell YEAH! 😛
Fingering, oral, vaginal, anal, double penetration… ☝️👅🌸🍑🍆🍆 There’s so many possible combinations with a threesome! That’s the kinda math we enjoy. 😜
❓ What positions do you wanna try? 😛
Do you both wanna go down on them at the same time? 👅 Who’s fantasy is it to get in the middle of an Eiffel Tower? 🙋 Wanna create a threeway oral triangle (also known as ‘The Daisy Chain’)? 🌼
Communication is the cornerstone of amazing sex, so make sure you’re well-informed before you dive into all that sexy group fun. 🥵🔥
Have you had your first threesome yet? What questions do you like to ask before organizing your ménage-à-trois? Tell us your naughty antics in the comments - we can’t wait to read allllll about them. 🤤👇