Advice For Your First Time at a Swinger Club
9:09 am Tuesday, 21st May, 2024
Oh my GOD – that’s a lot of fluids! 💦😜
We’ve been learning all your first time at a swingers party stories – and wowee are you some dirty little devils. 😈🥵🔥 In our recent Question of the Week on-site, lots of you said you’d love to try out a first swinger party, so join us as we share some of our favorite tips for losing your swingers party first time virginity – the right way. 🕊️😘👇
Look around 👀
One swinger party does not fit all! 🙅♀️ There’s plenty of play parties out there for your first time swinger experience, so peep our Events area, see what’s going on in Spaces, and chat to other local kinksters online to get to know the scene in your area. 👋📍😈
Get your body ready 🤸
If everything goes to plan, you’re gonna be twisting, contorting and thrusting yourself into all sorts of scintillating shapes in the name of sex at your first swinger party. 🥵🙌 Relax your body and do some stretches beforehand – even just a few lunges will loosen up your hips. 🧘
Of course, our bodies can’t always do everything we want them to, so you gotta know your limits too! 👌 Take regular breaks and rehydrate before you dive back in – especially if it’s a first time swinger experience. 🤿💦
Don’t rush! 🖐️
As tempting as it might be to jump straight into the action the moment you arrive, you wanna start slowly. 👍 A few of you said your first time at a swinger party was “overwhelming” or “overloading to the senses”. 😬 Take your time to observe all the erotic antics going on around you. 😏 Explore the different rooms to get a layout of the venue. Don't worry, there’ll be plenty of time to get down and dirty! 😝
First swingers, remember: watching is part of the fun, too. 🥵 Just avoid looking like a stalker and don’t linger on any one scene for too long… Hey, there’s so much to see at your first swinger party, right? 🤯
Talk to people 👋
Wanna get the lowdown on what’s going on? Chat to the hosts at a private party or the staff at a sex club. 😁 Some parties even offer a tour for swinger party first-timers. 😘
Remember, we kinksters are a welcoming crowd, so don’t be nervous to approach! In our Question of the Week, one randy member who’s been attending regular sex parties with the same group for years said it’s “more about the friendship than it is about the sex”. 🤗 Focus on making genuine connections first – the filthy fun will follow. 😈
Talk to everyone at your first swinger party, not just to those who turn you on. 🔥 You never know how valuable those connections might be when it comes to finding the next sex party (and so on, and so on… 😏). 🥳
Release your expectations 🙌
The most important thing to do at your first swinger party is go with flow. 🌊 If you have a specific idea in your head about what your first time swinger club experience is gonna be like, you’ll probably emerge disappointed. 🤷♀️
Take the time to make considered decisions, but don’t let your inhibitions get in the way of following your dirty desires. 😈 We loved hearing your stories – some of you horny crowd ended up in steamy group shower sessions, in the middle of gangbangs, in discovering your inner exhibitionist… 🥵
Where’s your next swinger party gonna lead? 😏 It might be time to find out… 😜🥳
🤫 Psssst… If you sign up today, you can answer our latest Question of the Week, and your filthy sex stories could be featured in upcoming articles! 😘
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