Every once in a while, I question my lifestyle as a bull. I’m not looking for a change- I love what I do and have made friends with some amazing couples. That said, I still think a healthy reality check now and then makes sense given that there are certain risks that come with all the fun I’m having. I try to protect my health and safety as much as I can by using condoms. However, the biggest challenge for bulls and couples is probably maintaining a healthy balance between playing/swinging and the rest of their lives. I think I do a better job than most guys considering how busy my life is, I still manage to stay pretty grounded. However, I sometimes worry that couples can get in over their heads. I guess I want to be sure I actually buy what I’m selling -that cuckolding can be done in a healthy way that brings couples closer together. The reality is, once you start down this path and watch your wife with another man, it’s hard to pull back. It’s hard not to have those scenarios invade your every waking thought and that can seriously interfere with a couples intimacy. It’s difficult not to think about it #1 because it’s so freaking hot but also because you probably will start to see your wife in a different light less as a mom and more as a sexual goddess. I think that’s a good thing for a lot of couples but too much of anything can be terrible. There is a thin line between sexual goddess and sexual object. To make matters worse, sexual images are everywhere to remind you. Even if you don’t record your wife with other men, the internet is full of explicit images that are hard to get away from. A person can stop doing crack by staying away from the crack house but these days it’s practically impossible to cut yourself off from the internet completely. If your wife is slow to give you the fantasy you crave it’s far too easy to turn to the internet or worse places to get your fix and that’s when things can go wrong pretty quickly. I still believe that this lifestyle promotes honesty and communication while satisfying everyone’s sexual desires but it’s hard to balance and might not last forever. The important thing to always remember is to put your wife before your sexual kinks. Love>Sex. The second she wants to take a break or stop all together she needs to know that you will be okay with that. Stay honest with each other and keep the lines of communication open and you will continue to have amazing experiences😀
