Hi people
I don’t view myself as swinger I have a lot of experience of sex and of playing with others to spice up a shared dynamic from time to time .
I have come onto here from the D/s BDSM scene so causal meets are a bit alien to me ,so are straight lets get down to the sex meets .
you see I am used to socialising with a s over several social meets building trust as we discussed play styles and needs frankly with each other before we take things to the bedroom .
I'm used to long term arrangements as I find the sex improves as the trust improves and bonds of friendship are formed . which makes meeting for sex on the first meet a alien way of thinking because of how my sexuality is normally satisfied .
But it has been brought to my attention that I maybe missing a trick here so to speak by that I mean .
Someone has said to me that there maybe couples out there where the wife's would love to be played with by a experienced D and husbands who would love to watch a experience D doming and enjoying there wife's charms .
By having the husband there the need for lots of socials and the need for genuine trust to be established would not be so great as a third party would be there to make sure limits were heeded and respected by me
although I will say this I am a consent freak who would never do anything not agreed before hand .but anyone could say that so like I said with a third party there everyone should feel more at ease .
Now the question for me is could I D with a audience and the answer is yes as I have done this before once or twice in a club on kink nights plus I've spanked bottoms at a private party before a while ago.
Can I fuck as part of a threesome again the answer is yes although I will add I'm straight totally straight not fab straight .
So is this person correct are their couple out there who would enjoy what I've wrote about above and if so would they respect the fact that I would need a few reassurance before I agreed to meet anyone .
These reassurances would be ..
Phone chat with both parties leading up the meet to discuss boundaries as well as messaging by social app text or private email .
A drink in public or private before the start of play where ether party has the right to decide they would rather not play if they weren't feeling it .
If the meet was a hotel meet proof of hotel booking and proof they were there before I was to leave to meet them .
I don’t mind paying my half towards the hotel room drinks excreta in fact I would insist because of the fact I'm a D who likes and has to feel like a man and paying my half would allow me to feel that way .
So I'm here I am a experienced D wondering if my friend is right are there any couple out there who would love to meet a experienced D for some friendly drama free filthy fun and hedonistic adventures…..?
John x
