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Casual Does Not Mean Callous

9:47 am Friday, 26th August, 2016

Just because people strip themselves of pretensions and bare their most primal, basic need, does not necessarily beckon raw, crude and careless behavior. Precisely why we signed up in sites such as these, because we are vulnerable in the outside world, we need to afford ourselves a blanket of anonymity or surround ourselves with like individuals who understand where we are coming from.

I hope the next meetups will live up to the barometer set by my first one where I, as a woman, practically begging to get laid just by showing up despite clear disclaimers, was still treated with utmost gentleness, patience, and honesty, and treated like a lady.



Comments
12:56 pm Friday, 26th August, 2016

Couldn't agree with you more re why we're on this site and great to hear the 1st experience was positive. Long may it go on!!

3:48 pm Friday, 26th August, 2016

Very well written. We can relate to your thoughts. Whenever we start conversations, it is immediately a turn off on the very first hint of the other party being crass or rude. The truly classy and cultured are out there too. And when you find them, it truly makes the search worthwhile. Good luck!

4:23 pm Saturday, 27th August, 2016

That's incredibly eloquent. A woman's perspective matters to a gentleman. And a gentleman always endeavors to treat his date as a lady. I look forward to meeting you and showing you that a night of beautiful music, wine, candlelight and conversation with a beautiful charming woman is in itself a gift to be cherished.

2:29 pm Sunday, 28th August, 2016

I wish I could find the courage to be to celebrate somethings like this.img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

12:48 pm Monday, 29th August, 2016

And why shouldn't you be treated like a lady? I'm glad you had a good meet, and that you enjoyed yourself and it's given you the courage to go forward and try some more, but seriously - you SHOULD be treated like a lady. I would expect to be treated with the same sort of respect. :) I'm not having a go, far from it, just saying that you ought to expect to be treated with respect. Good luck in the future, hope all goes well. :)

3:14 pm Tuesday, 30th August, 2016

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3:14 pm Tuesday, 30th August, 2016

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