Wanna meet up & f*ck?

Totally agree with your views. A lot of them are slam, bam, thank you ma'am. Total turn off.

Well said fuly understand your view some guys make it bad for the normal ones due to their uncontrollable thirst makes me wonder if the cant get a woman without using this site the nerve of some people

Totally agree with your views but its sex site for working women ,,,,,,,most ask for money so the guys dont beat round the bush its not social media or dating sites its wht you make it out to be .not every guy here like that

Seems like another fake attention seeker to us. Not even a pic on your profile,that is of course if you really are a female.
Simple solution if you not happy here.....
DELETE your profile & go elsewhere, then no ones time,including your own gets wasted.

Nice 👌

This is totally biased... Look at some women profile here! It harsh and brutally to the point of pay for sex. Just do a search and look at the females profiles or message the said ones and have a normal convo then you would understand. The will cut you off cause you wasting time. I slightly understand the start a convo properly but at the same time you sadly have your priorities mixed up or looking for something emotional, this is a sex site get real! Other foreign countries this would not be a problem but in Trinidad some women like yourself full of it. If not one man gave you attention you would sing another tune but sadly it have way too much thiirst men that feeding your ego!

Your words strike a resonating chord with me..Any relationship is much more fulfilling if there is a total meeting of minds as well as bodies. Yes of course this is sex site but I don't understand why good manners and respect have to be thrown aside by some individuals who are misguided in thinking that a lady is without feelings and sensitivities.I'm not saying that people will all become soul mates but I can attest that if you show a genuine interest in someone as a thinking, breathing personality and show a genuine interest in all aspects of their life,this can be so much more rewarding. A dear friend on here copied and mailed your blog to me as she thought it summed up perfectly what we were both thinking. So yes,fuck each others minds as well as bodies,it is the happiest of conclusions xx

Uuuummm I dunno if som of u are dyslexic or otherwise, but I did state I hav no problem with being here, wat I do hav a problem with is d approach. U don't hav to want sumn emotional to want to hav som sense of who the person I before fucking them. Only dogs do that, see the opposite sex & just start the humping & still the female wud decide which male she gonna fuck with according to his approach or otherwise. So I guess from som of the your responses here wud lead me to believe in Neanderthals still existing.

Mayb not all females, but I believe by just reading someone's profile u wud kno starting a convo wit lets meet n fuck, might not work out for u. Its kinda common sense. I hav spoken to ppl here who I believe or hope to b genuine, but due to the mass of DISRESPECTFUL messages, its hard to reply to those cuz dey get lost in TRASH msgs.

And I don't think I need to put up a pic to b real, we all kno there are ppl here wit pic filled profiles, faces etc, but possibly not who they say they are.

I guess from these responses makes it easy to conclude I shud continue reading & looking at porn. I bother noone by doing this, jus d same as everyone thinks I should delete myself, I believe my profile can also b ignored by those who so desire. My time is never wasted when I log on here, I'm always highly entertained & even shared the site with friends. I wont mind one bit if u guys especially with those sending kinda messages stop messages me.

We are not the same, I am a Martian! Lolimg src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif"

The funny thing about it is even if the site wasn't about sex thry will always be the disrespectful thirsty with no manners but that is the Internet life some learn to tolerate it some just can't handle it or accept it but in other case they made blocking n reporting to help sort out the bad apples

Its strange to see a post like this. I always thought woulmen up hear want the rude approach. I've never been rude in my initial messages and never get a response. Sucks though. I always ask to talk first. The site is very cool. But I've yet to find sex through it. Its much easier finding a woman to please in person than on here.

I agree with the lady .... some me on this site is just plain tactless .... guys even if you go to a "whore house" you choose who you want to fuck .... if you are in a orgy or swing party the men and women choose who they want to play with ... so why do you expect then on a social media site every woman you talk to must want to fuck with you .... regardless of where you go women are women and the majority of them like to be mentally stimulated .... I am not saying that you have to spend days and weeks chatting but you first approach will dictate the outcome. imagine my profile has I am a straight male but yet gay guys sill send me messages like "nice dick lets meet and fuck" ... wtf .... come on guys the lady is right some of us need to step up our game a bit .... and as "Fetch1 said ... fuck with their minds and their body will cum right along ......On the same not ladies it would be nice to at least get a response saying sorry not interested instead of being ignored or just no response ....happy hunting all and enjoy the lifestyle ...

Well yea I agree with u guys. The first person I got into a convo here with, I felt like I met the person at the mall or sumn, stimulating convo, I didn't join the site knowing wat it was about, but som of the first couple people I spoke to helped me understand the site, gave me advice on not posting my pic due to privacy and that there are fakers here.

It was cool talking to those people, even got me even more curious about certain things here. But as time passed, I pulled back into the safe place of avoiding convo after getting numerous messages, and was even told that once you're talking to someone here the person expects eventually it wud lead to meeting for sex. So I've decided not to disappoint anyone.

I understand that we here for sex n not to get to kno each other or hav deep convos, but is that really how this works? So many men complain they don't get any here. N I believe its partly cuz of those disrespectful people, sp the rest of the guys get put in a place of unsurity or distrust, it might b unfair that one pays for all or all pays for one, but we live in a selfish world where everyone thinks of themselves & no one else.

And sometimes being selfish could b a form of self preservation. To the decent guys who I've neglected or not responded to, I'm truly sorry, but I don't wanna talk to anyone & have them waiting to kno when we gonna fuck. Lol

Basically ima virgin to this kind of lifestyle, and I would have sooner gotten into it if my experience hadn't turn sour so quickly, nevertheless, I'm staying, cuz who knows, yall got mw curious once.......img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

I hav not blocked anyone, just have stopped responding to requests.

I think I got the point now. Thanks everyone img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

Hmmm I example, I guess u were right about alot of things seeing that I was clueless.

Sorry about......img src="imagesadultemoticons009.gif"

I am a man and I see it as totally disrespectful,any female that responds to approaches of that nature is below maturity level.Other men often times feel the blunt because of those little boys..sometimes not even a good conversation can be received because of the stigma that all men are negative and are the same.

The site automatically sends messages from people by default. I don't think most people know this. Check your "promotion" settings.

Shouldn't matter that this site is designed to get people together for sex, everyone e should still be courteous to each other regardless.

The younger generation are only just learning their way in life Princess, maybe some of the older also , try your best and teach the boys how to show respect for one of natures gifts in life

To the none Trinidadians please until you had the misfortune of engaging a Trini woman sit down yur asses a bit. 1 it is a fuck site , most ppl in other countries meet simple and have sex in Trinidad it's like a down low peistitution ring all females here to make money. I am not saying men have to be disrespectful, but I will also say don't join such a site to just tlk about dinner dates and yur day. Best advice for women who don't want to link up leave the site.

wow! hehehehe anyways good morning...

Most of my requests to be paid for services are from Trini men lol. So I guess they helping it to be about prostitution. Lol I got offers to cam up n get paid to do so from a Trini. But anyways lol as I said, only animals do that.

No hi how u, just u wanna meet n fuck? Ok sure, time & place? But if females are agreeing to sex like that, Trini women or otherwise, can one of these females tell me how do u decide on who u gonna fuck if u got that msg from 10 different men in ur area. Is it by looks or dick size? Cuz I'm hoping with every part of me that they don't accept every invite from those 10 different men. Lol

2 a day? Mayb plan n invite 3 of those other guys & turn it into a fun orgy?

I don't think you guys get the point. But I can't win, I'm d only odd female here hmmm

Lol@delete myself to comfort the penises n egos of men here. I guess I will go when admin deletes me.

Click the report button, it might happen lil sooner img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif"

i totally agree with what u are saying but y does peter have to pay for paul ?

A comment like that, and you are doing it with a banana - let me wonder

Perception matters.
You become what you think.

What does the video in my profile have to do with those messages? I'm gettin those messages before I uploaded that video. Been complaining about those messages in wall posts way before that video was posted.

Peter isn't really paying for Paul, I joined the site unaware of its content & what it was about, as time passed I understood what it was & have not been convinced I'm into THIS type of hookups, simply because i don't trust people, & learning right here that there are fake people here, I wont really be into it. By explanations & many messages from males, if I'm not looking to hook up I will be wasting people's time in convo, cuz they expect eventually I will decide to meet etc, which I kno I wont. So I have ceased convos with everyone including the few I actually enjoyed talking to.

Not goin to play or mislead anyone. I'm here still cuz the site isn't JUST about hook ups, so I do not socialize with anyone, eventho I post, its up to whoever to reply. But I don't reply to messages to have one on one convo with anyone. And men here are so disrespectful, they admit reading the blogs or seeing what my profile says, but still send those messages. Lol

I really don't understand how my presence is a bother. I message no one, don't respond to requests or even view profile, if I view is accidentally cuz my phone screen does whatever. I guess my one admitted fault is clicking like on dick pics lmao

However, I'm not saying I will remain here & NEVER link with anyone. But at the moment I have no motivation to do so, & since I'm also NOT in a hurry to experience these things, I will continue as I am doing.

Again, sorry to those who were not disrespectful or forceful, but as I mentioned earlier I'm a virgin to this, & we all kno how virgins are, especially the old ones. Very stubborn & slow to action.img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

Lol.. that's like too much caring. Sounds like an explanation, unknowingly. Ease up, chill.

Not as much as you're still here commenting. Guys here trippin cuz some wont reply so they can bust easily. If yall didn't care you wont even bother replying to this msg cuz u gettin pussy & one 'caring' female does matter, now does it?

N I'm here all up in my feelings cuz....oh I dunno *sighs*img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif"

Yup. It doesn't matter.. And yes, about the care, well I don't.. It was simply an observation.. My apologies though. Adios!

Oh no! Please don't go, who will care if u go? *cries*img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif"

Bored don't make any sence at all don't feel u are the only woman dat men ask for any type of sex the real problem is with dis site most  of the women here are on girls any and the rest are on money money money better I start go  to whore house cause wen you go meet some of u ladies who wants more money Dan ah hoe who looks better than the lady from here who wants money so if is like dat take my chances in  the whore house if  I have to pay to  get my dick wet

Girl I like your comment here. Its an eye opener for guys especially mature and decent guys like me who is just looking for a mature and decent girl for sex with decency and respect.

Tommybay..being decent or mature not changing the end result if the females here not open to interested in men....but at the same time being respectful should come naturally from us men after all we are humans not animals...

well said point taken an guys take notes 😇

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I know I am late to the party but this thread is hilarious as it shows why so many people don’t succeed and it’s all because of their mindset. Luckily not everyone is this way.


Firstly: Is it so hard to understand that yes I’m freaky and yes I may like casual sex but I also want to be treated like a person, respected, prefer to fuck someone that can put two full sentences together and has a unique thought in their head beyond just “pussy…tits…fuck…now”? This in no way means I want a relationship or there is any emotion involved. 


Guy there is no shortage of nice cock around, sorry to tell you that but it’s the easiest thing to find so what separates guys apart? Intelligence is attractive, personality and wittiness is attractive, confidence is attractive, holding a conversation is attractive, yeah physique matters but I’d wager less so than the other stuff. ————


Secondly: people don’t read profiles carefully. I get so many  messages from single guys when I very clearly stated I’m not looking for that with 99.999% of them unoriginal and with not a shred of creativity to set them apart from the herd.  ————


Thirdly: Yes there are some people that are too harsh but that’s usually because they’ve been harassed way to much in the past. If you’re a guy, most likely you have not experienced it. You don’t get the hundreds, upon hundreds of random emails from people you are clearly not interested in. This has the side effect of making people hostile and short tempered. The ones that take the time to write a decent message I at least try (it’s time consuming) to respond with, I’m not interested, the others either get blacklisted or immediately deleted. However honestly guys please don’t  get surprised you get ignored and blacklisted with a normal message particularly if you ignore someone’s profile or a person likely has been harassed and isn’t interested. Accept that’s likely to happen and try elsewhere. Speaking from experience people do get through, they just have to come good. ————


It’s simple, if you’re not interested in putting out any effort or you’re not interested in “wasting that time” then you’re likely looking for a paid service or that unicorn of a woman that may not care. However if you believe that I as a woman who isn’t charging and honestly has so much options to choose from, is going to be interested in a random one liner with zero originality then you are extremely delusional and you come off as uninteresting and a bit immature. I’m not trying to be harsh, just being real. As the old adage goes, “You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar”  Just my $0.02 ————


P.S. Please don’t message me without reading my profile. If you don’t match and not local, I’m DEFINITELY not interested. 

Not all is like that

Not all is like that

well said we chat if you want too 

Sup link up 

i totally agree with her. Yes i understand that this site has the potential for individuals deciding  to  hook up and have a good time. But the level of conversation that a lot of these persons may like to have is simply disrespectful yes. We all have vices need and wants, but that doesn't mean to degrade other users member when firstly introducing your selves🤦

hard fucker here

well written and thank u for sharing a woman's point of view.

Hey wanna hang out ?

Smhhh😮, hey Intrested in getting to know more.😇

and why not pop up a sexy lol 

and why not pop up a sexy lol 

tough to be unique,different,write something that stands out when you are getting hundreds of messages from us guys.I have done the long thoughtful more sensitive messages,only to get zero replies.So that has made me jaded towards anything but going straight to the point.
       I dont send dick pics,say rude or anything disrespectful,but let it be known im interested in having sex with you quickly.
      And to the guys saying  'just because were men we dont nee to act like this or say that"   fuck you cucks.