The Mind-Fuck; why personality counts! ;)

Very Well Written My Friends!! ;)

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Yep that happens too often and it can be so intense and a tease, but I usually prefer the fantasy I play out in my head over the reality of going over and saying hi, as it frequently leads to disappointment; when you end up talking, the fantasy dies and the personality isn’t what you expect it to be…then again my partner and I wouldn’t be together if he didn’t take that risk, as we eye fucked each other for a whole night before actually talking for the first time, so it is true that sometimes you may be pleasantly surprised and the fantasy becomes a reality. Basically, you’ll never know unless you take the plunge! ;)

We agree with you!!! Looks are very important but they are only the gates in order to go into such an adventure with a couple you don't even know. But the personality also is very important and it is the key to having fun before and during bed.A good conversation always makes the sex experience a lot more satisfying and lots of fun.
As for us , and from two years in this lifestyle , we met a lot of wonderful people but also had some unfortunate bad ones.
It is not easy to find the right combination Good looks , educated and good in bed couples.
Also, it goes without saying that a certain level of education , is an appetizer for the main course.

wow makes me horny just reading it

100 % , i agree with you, i'm into this lifestyle since 18 years, you cannot imagine the desires, the fantasy , the wild personalities i met during it,and i discovered the best friends i ever had till now is those i met in swinging life.
Friendship no one can understand.
Physical appearance is very important,but not the only thing to look after.
you can have a lot of fun with average people regarding "beauty" but when you start talking and the way they spend their time with you makes you forget the physical and concentrate and enjoy the moment and these moment are unforgettable and rare to be repeated even if you do it with the same couple many time, every time has its taste

I am in total agreement. The expectation from fucking the mind builds up to an explosion on contact that leaves either party mysteriously find the capacity to make a meet everlastingly memorable.

Bodies usually speak for themselves. You can sit for long and not even talk but by analizing every single part of the others body emotions either start to build or stay as they are or contrary decline; as they say eyes are tongue of our soul. According to the out experiances revealed if a person is concentrating on someone else's face then it is believed they are pondering about romance. In contrast, if the person was gazing at someone else's body, it revealed feelings of sexual desire. So eyes can say everything and even its true that when someone is confidentaly is talking abt certain subject and expressively moves all his body all that can show how excited he or she is to the other...
We have had pretty good experinace until now and we never had wrong assessment abt most of the ppl we meet anyways lets keep everything simple body language is the key to that chemistry which can lead u to that dreamy fantasy that we are searching for.
Hoping always to meet ppl that have the mental and physical education which can lead them to worlds that we are all desiring to reach.
As u r saying sex is a body language which through it all our inner hidden mind start dancing. Sex is an Art and never an Act.
Waiting for the right time to have that contact with u "The Author"
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I agree with every word you wrote, most people here are interested in body fuck ignorint most of the time the brain fuck. All what they ask pictures, they want to judge the others from pictures not brain, you have a good look, big instrument for male, big breast for women , you fit or other body descriptions. Sex start with brain and finish with orgasm. You can make a woman horny and make her cum maybe just talking, touching her, even without fucking her.  nging is very simple way of life butmost people don't know't know what they want

Very well said , couldn't express myself even better than this ,cheers

100 % true

spot on, we get on with mind fucks......see our recent blog, similar views 🙂

Couldn't have said it better myself ! Kudos to you both xx

Absolutely spot on ...most bulls simply don't have the quotient to appreciate.

100% agree!!.

Stimulate the mind and the body will follow

I like it.  For me, fucking, having sex and making love are all the same thing.

We said, the mind is a great place to play  

This is so important....I definitely need my mind stimulated by someone first before anything else follows!

I've always enjoyed the social fore play of meeting someone new. It's so much better when you have rapport. My eyes light up when i meet a similar mind. 

Great blog post.

Well said

Finally someone not only actually speaking the truth but also

Some studies looking into intelligence seem to suggest that people higher in cognitive ability are also more likely to look better as well, so a lot of the time the handsome fella or the attractive woman will have various desriable traits. Charm and wit can play a somewhat important role I'm sure, especially in face to face situations. Online sites and apps (particularly hook up ones) do heavily favour aesthetics. So much so that some small studies have shown that the majority of women are only interested in a relatively small minority of men. Some have compared it to the economic free market, where a smaller number of people rise stratospherically in comparison to the rest.

Thankfully, this is not the case in all situations. 

So I read your blog and I agree and disagree. I agree with the attraction part. But are you talking about making love or just fucking? Do you really need all that just to fuck ? Stranger fuck is the best in my opinion. 

How can a person just have sex with no commitment feelings. I love having sex and have several things I would like to try, but I am single and can seem to do any of this without being in a relationship with someone. Amy ideas?

I so agree with this, without personality, your just an empty vessel. I have seen great looking guys but have the personality of a stamp, and ugly blokes with a great personality! A good personality is a huge turn on, so attention all blokes, get a new personality lol

Well the mind IS the interpreter for all those sensations we feel, from tingles to climaxes.  I say it's all foreplay until you cum.

excellent 

Absolutely