Where has the seduction gone ???

I am a straight male, I have been part of this site approximately 2 hours and I am getting sent things from men.......Where did I go wrong?img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

Wow, great to know its not only us, agree with you Cambscouple15 we have received quite a few messages and out of the mass have some nice exchanges going with some couples and singles. Not yet at the moment of meeting, as we are also at fault our lifestyle is hectic at the moment, but we do have some people that are on the TO DO list ;-) but as you say the others well I do not understand how they hope to get a meet with that one line attitude
Boatguy thanks yes I guess so but hey, if someone wants to touch them selves looking at us, hubby or myself that's also cool, as long as it is out in the open, makes us feel good that we get people hot and bothered. what we have a hard time figuring out is the lack of effort, I mean the lead up and knowing people makes the meet 1000 times better ; -)

Why would you put in a lot of effort when there are so many scammers out there?

Well, to answer you twinl, supply and demand, lots of single guys here and less couples, even less that would like a single guy to join them.
So already you would think that the single guys would put a bit of effort into it,,,, cause as a couple we are getting heaps of messages chat requests etc. As for the general feeling that the site is full of scammers fake profiles etc, we really do not know for the moment we have a couple of leads that we are pursuing, no scamming for the moment ;-)

Blacknight4, Seems to me a bit like the chicken and the egg, who puts in the first effort the guy or couple writing or the person that is getting written to, I guess the ones that put the most effort in at the seduction game get the prize....

Olivehp2, for us it is Seduction, romance is another thing and is strictly keep for our couple, we are also weighing subscribing to the site, we will see in a couple of weeks, seems to be a benefit to be able to write and contact whoever you wish.... but the normal membership is also pretty good in that we have been able to start some interesting exchanges with people.

At the end what makes us wonder, is that both of us have a sensual side, and we love the flirting, seduction, waiting and wanting of the game, this starts on the site and then goes into meetups, drinks etc, then leads to the touching kissing licking etc etc better the start is and more build up better the end result for all concerned ! ;-) without this well may as well just go dogging or buy a dildo if we want impersonal wham bam thank you mme sex .. ;-)

I think for me the reality is that because the site is so unbalanced in terms of lone males to couples and lone females that the amount of messages that are received by people who are looking for a lone male is ridiculous. I have a friend who is that elusive of things a bi female. She must get 10 to 20 messages a day. It's difficult for her to read them all. So you put some time and effort in to your message, reading the profile, looking at photos and saying something about yourself only for the message to not even be read, let alone replied too. I totally understand why some people go for the scatter gun approach.
That's not to say I don't do ok from this site I've met some lovely people and had some incredible experiences.

actually generally couple draw a criteria and she choose finally but when hubby watching type some times he decide i m lucky got chances ummmmm