The risks taken for pleasure

I can truly understand where you coming from . Being free to do what you want is the main reason life. You don't want any person whether in you life or stranger to judge on what you are doing . Not having photo explains a lot of mistry of that individual intention therefore they must not be on here unless your have free welling on what to do .

At least you are at an advantage in having an attractive face, and the confidence that can bring. Not all of us are so lucky, and not all members are sufficiently altruistic to ignore facial features in favour of "the lovely human spirit inside" :-) I definitely agree that the avatar system is puerile and neither use nor ornament, but hey-ho......

I sort of half show my face but will go no further than that in the public domain. It's not a question of being ashamed at what I do - far from it. It's just that I think my sex life is my own business, and I don't want total strangers linking my erotic media with my face. Erotic imagery is a significant part of my sexual expression and therefore I choose to reflect that in my profile. However I prefer to do that anonymously.

There was a documentary on the Beeb a couple of nights ago about revenge porn and the way that some people can hack profiles and use their media with malicious intent. This is a very real danger and therefore I prefer not to let people get a foot in the door of my private life by giving them my facial identity. As anyone who has PMd me knows, I'm happy to let people see the face behind the door if they wish to know me better, but there's no way I'd run it up the flagpole of the searchable and hackable internet.

Another interesting subject Debs and one to get the thinkers amongst us thinking and making me think in this regard were all a bit like the coins in our pockets, take any coin and toss it into the air and can only land either heads, or tails, so in this regard we are either one, or other, just like any coin, but guessing most of us have based our decision on whether to go headsface, or not on something far less random than on the toss of a coin.

Before I tell you my reasons for not going with a face picture at this time. I have no choice but to swallow the painful truth that when I read and thought about this topic,' when you boil it all down and makes me wonder, can it be so very different to others here if were all being truthful. But for me is a lack of guts and dare I say cowardice on my part and it is for that reason I think people like yourself that do show their faces here, I have a great deal of respect and admiration for and even more for women than I do for men, as like it or not, good old double standards are still alive and well in this the twenty first century.

My reasonsexcuses are two fold, firstly I'm painfully shy about putting myself out therehere and quite a private person generally, I'm better at showing myself in smaller groups and probably at my best when one to one with people. But add into the mix that I have a certain skin condition on my face, that I have had for a number of years now called Rosacea, which has a reddening effect mostly on my cheeks, it comes and goes a bit, but never seems to go completely, in general, day to day it doesn't really worry me, but whats worse is the fact that as soon as I have my picture taken the redness just seems to get magnified even worse than the reality as for some reason pictures highlight the red end of the spectrum, which always makes me dread having my picture taken now and the fact that I feel so uncomfortable pretty much makes it impossible for me to smile genuinely while having my picture taken.

Part of the appeal for me coming here in the first place was the thought I wouldn't have to show my face lol. But the truth is we all have to show our faces if we want to get laid, but equally thought and hoped if this is all just about getting laid, was hoping the ladies here, as none of us are looking for a life time partner, or commitment, might over look this one failing of mine. As the saying goes, you don't have to look at the mantelpiece while the fire is being stoked lol and if I'm going down on a woman and kissing and licking her womanly lips and clit, she isn't really in a position to see and hopefully way beyond even caring how flushed my cheeks are lol, just as long as my attentions are bringing the colour to her own rosy red cheeks, as well as blowing the wind through her hair.

One last thought, on the people from UAE and Iran. Part of me feels as you do Debs, but equally can't stop the thought, perhaps some, or all, if men, could have a duel standard going on being here. On the one hand admiring your womanly, scantily clad sexy beauty Debs as we all do here, but perhaps at home they actively encourage their womenfolk to cover from head to toe and hide themselves from the world and from all other men and their affirmations to there womanly beauty and ultimately their existence in the world and not just some dark shadowy figures passing unseen and unappreciated through it, except by one man if there are their husbands here. Well any such husbands if here? I would have to break the habit of a lifetime and judge and say any such two faced men would sicken me to my very stomach, if their more than happy to lust after your gorgeous sexy self and other western women here and wherever they can, but at home practice a totally different set of rules to live by, especially when imposing them on others, but not on themselves. We know their taking a risk just being here and your in a better position than me to know more about these men, all I'm saying is without knowing more, I would have difficulty trusting and excepting their friend requests, so please be careful is all I'm saying, one friend to another, Debs. xx

Thanks for the blog! I have always been debating about this issue. On one hand, showing a face brings a sense of trust and shows to a certain degree that you are real. On the other side, the dangers of how people could use your picture....I guess I went for the compromise...

I think for men is more tough though. I think a woman as long as she has got some exposure gets lots of interest but if a man is here considering numbers and does not have a picture, then his chances decrease. Besides, there is always the fear for everyone what people could think. Unfortunately, we live in a very judgamental one and it is difficult for people who have got children as it will also affect them in some way.

Such an iteresting topic but I better stop as my mind is going to different directions img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

Mostly i like to keep myself to myself, same reasen there's none of me on FaceFuck either!
I also don't like giving the nefarious toerags material to play with, there's enough of that on the interweb as it is without any pictures of me!

deb: That has, however, given me considerable food for thought :-)

Not to worry Deborose as it was far from being of the 'sickly' kind that some use at times ;-)

I will say for the record that couldn't care less what anyone would say or think if i were to be spotted on a site such as this.
I'm SINGLE so no need for me to hide, also i don't have kids to worry about. Though even if i did it's my life and i intend to live if as i see fit. I did for the first few weeks worry about about the safety of my job, till i spotted my boss on here so don't think i have anything to worry about in that department either.
I do feel sorry for women from different cultures as they don't have the same freedom of choice as the risks are higher for them.
In the same what that 'I' decided to join a so called swingers site, 'I' will decide whether i should or shouldn't show my face.
I won't however share any photos of the more risque kind as i think that they could cause more problems in the long run than a simple face photo should they end up in the wrong hands.

'It is difficult for people who have got children as it will also affect them in some way'

Sorry FFP but i have to say that i disagree with you on that. I do have a daughter that's all grown up and just taken her first step on the property owning ladder so has flown the coup. I would never 'visit the sins of a father on his sons' or in this case 'the sins of a mother on a daughter'. As i'm a fully grown adult i make my own choices in life. I won't let my choices be hindered by small minded people. Now i'm not saying i go around with a billboard or shouting it from the rooftops, but i'm rather sure there are far worse 'sins' that i could be committing than being a member of 'The site'. So you see i don't have give small minded people a second thought, as there are no laws against still wishing to be a sexual woman just because the person has 'kids'. 'Life' is what we each and everyone chose to make it. Like someone else wrote (think it was Morticia) I also intend to make the most of the time i have left and live life to the fullest in whichever way i choose to. After all i'm a consenting adult and not breaking any laws in my country.

I made the choice to have a face pic on show as i think that suited me more so than the likes of some rather dare i say 'naughty' pics that some choose to have on show. We all set standards that we are comfortable with and naked shots are not something i would be comfortable with. I decided that i wouldn't post any pic's that i wouldn't be happy for my daughter to see. In light of that i wouldn't bat an eyelid at her seeing a face pic so that's what i went with.

You should be able to do whatever you feel comfortable with and not be dictated to. If people decide not to contact or meet us because of this, then it's up to them. Though we will show face pics to people we may chat and arrange to meet up with. However, We will never have our face pics on show because of family, friends, Co workers and such like. Not because of embarrassment but rather it's our business and nothing to do with them. Would much rather not be the topic of conversation for an eternity. :-)

Sunshine: I am very glad that you think that way and I do agree completely with you. My statement was not intended to suggest it is something people with children should do but more like my mind was wondering about the different reasons for people's decisions.

I think we are lucky to have friends and in general a community in the UK where you find more open minded people. However, in places like the ones Deborose mentioned, not ony the person in question will be judged but hisher family too. Even in China, I would doubt many people would even dare as losing face is a big issue. Besides, there will always be people who r intolerant and think things should be as they would like and don't respect differences. Furthermore, the goverment has no law to protect them against (let's say) being fired for having a picture here.

Again, an excellent topic for the blog. I am now thinking about all those people here and their reasons. But as kev said every person is free to make the final decision based on their circumstances and what it is best for them.

, where the goverment has laws that would protect its citizens if someone (let's say) decided to fire them due to a picture here. Furthermore, it is a society where you will find more open minded people in general but in places likes Deborose mentioned and places even like China. It

Lil: The point you raise about your own case is a fascinating one as - if you like - you have your own "avatar" which is nevertheless a true and valid representation of yourself. In some ways we are similar because we both project two images. I've never made any secret of the fact that I'm geeky and in no way traditionally "hunky", and yet I have my own rich private sexual reality that I opt to present to the world via my profile. I prefer to keep my "hunky" and "weedy" alter egos separate, and this is perhaps the main reason why I do not want my "real" face connected with my sexual activity. I guess it has become a standard joke among the bloggers that Skebbie and Dixon are like Jekyll and Hyde, but to a certain extent it's a true reflection of how I live my life :-)

TomF: Great post. I'll get back to you on that when the asterisks have disappeared, as they have all but obliterated what I suspect is the main thrust of your query.

Just a quick thank you to Deborose for showing me your compassion on this subject. It proves to me yet again, something I often think of and that is, that its true that saying about suffering breeds character, as you displayed your own suffering gave you such a clear insight into someone else less than perfect (me) and could except my imperfection, as nothing to worry about. But would have never guessed you have days when you would ever feel less than lovely, not to mention desirable.

It reminds me of one of my funnier thoughts, if it were ever possible to take all suffering from all people in the world, wouldn't we all just be terrible people to live with, as isn't it our own failings and imperfections that make us more and not less human and having to live with are own imperfections and failings allows us to genuinely feel and makes us show compassion to others.

If you want further proof of this, look no further than anyone that would call themselves a master race.

So Deborose, you have shown and made me feel your compassion, that only leaves your other passion to see, feel and take care of now. ;0))

Skebbie - Thanks for any and all feed back, that's torn it, probable going to live to regret that now lol. That thing you said about my avatar is true, I even gave it rosy cheeks if you look close enough you can see, all be it, I wish my cheeks looked half as good and in general I think it does look uncannily like me, all be it a slightly younger version of me lol and no I'm not saying that's a good thing at all.

We have to admit we like to see who we are chatting with. Regards "mantle pieces and stoking fires" as one blogger wrote I personally prefer eye candy as the relationship is only superficial and I will be looking at their faces should we meet, but of course if we chat to people and like their characters we do form friendships with people over a time who are not beautiful or perfect. (Not that we are ourselves). I must admit I prefer real pictures to avatars.

Must point out that i answered Deborose blog,referring to the country 'i live' FFP, the UK being part of the 'privileged west' that 'Debo' asked about at the end of her blog post. I wasn't referring to other countries or cultures as they are not part of my day to day life. Now while i do feel sorry for people that are living 'by old ways' that have been foisted upon them from long ago times or more so religious teachingspreachings. I can't honestly comment on that as that's not part of my way of life :-) x

Oft!!! Indepth thank goodness it wasn't just me that took umbrage to the suggestion that i was in some way affecting my child by badly by being on a site such as this and having a face pic on show. I was starting to think i was the only one that could read that part and it had somehow become invisible to everyone elseimg src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

I'm sure you will have a fab holiday once you finally reach your destination Indepth. Wishing you a safe flight. Take care of you :-) x

Thanks Deborose! I think you got my point! and if I offended I do apologize I explained in my comments I dont intend to make anyone upset but I rather try to put myself in the shoes of many people around th world.

Mac, I love suits so I hope you dont :)

Skebbie: I have got my ways...lol...Actually tbh porn websites r not allowed but this site is not a problem Or perhaps party people are becoming swingers? I would not be surprised as I read an article saying people with money in China r spending more time trying "new things" :P

FFP: Do you have a secret VPN??? Just curious.

PS: Hope this thread doesn't get you dragged off to the Gulag (!)

I do Skebbie....but more for reading purposes...BTW if I suddenly dissapear, u know the PArty people read this and took me away...lol

Can only live in hope that 'some' people start to think before posting things that won't go down well with others or more so 'Mothers' unless the poster explains that they in fact meant in other countries outwith the UK or as Debo says 'at least in the privileged west' in their original post. An explanation after the fact is sometimes too late as the damage has been done as people's backs are already up and like a lioness any mother with defend her young.

Have to point out that SSG did make it clear in her first post that she was referring to 'her' country. So don't think she requires a lecture!!

Might be an idea to place yourself in a 'mother's shoes' then you may realise that the suggestion that they have 'affected' their child in some way by their choice to be on this site or any like it could cause offence. Just saying it as i see it
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Thanks for the heads up Skebbie. Other funny thing was it crossed my mind as it was very much about something we had both watched, so sharing my thoughts about that with you, but for all to read if they were interested, so for that reason and also because I was going off message a little, although in as much as some peoples reason for not showing their faces and themselves here I thought it was worth including under this topic heading and was covering something you had mentioned earlier here, so almost copied with the intention of sending it just to you, but then thought if I do that perhaps I should send a copy to deborose as well, so could tell me if wanted included under this topic heading, or not, so would have been your choice deborose, but thought in the end just easier to just put here as still relevant enough, but you would have both had copies had I done that.

In an effort to salvage something here Skebbie, deborose, can we just agree it was totes amazeballs. Lol

Mabe it's the G-men doing their MIB memory wipe thingy??

Seriously though.....I think we all deserve an explanation about why the thought police have decided to become so heavy-handed in the last couple of days. Just when I thought that things were starting to improve here......
This is like a return to Tienanmin Square tactics and is not encouraging.

Their reply rather leaves one picking over the possible reasons, rather than telling you clearly and without a copy, its rather an exercise in memory, don't know about you, but I tend to write things down so I don't have to remember them lol, but my best guess apart from not being, shall we say, not being PC enough, but that was because I was merely trying to reflectshow a moral decline and my own outrage, in the way some people treat others so badly nowadays and in order to building on my level of disgust and despair as I wrote and by way of trying to injecting a little humor, I used two swear words near the end, something I rarely do, but felt it really needed it as that was the true extent of my disgust and despair, which after all had been my driving force to sit down and write that post in the first place, as for me, I really need to feel something in order to write well, or at least as well as I can. I think if I can feel something about what I'm writing then I stand a good chance of making the reader feel that way too, assuming we share the same interests.

I will let you into a secret, if I'm trying to get a certain emotion out of the reader my trick is to be feeling that same emotion, so if its sadness I really need to be crying, or at least moist eyed as I write it and if its sexual arousal in the reader I'm after, well I need my other eye to be weeping for that one lol ;0) and if your thinking what about anger, well I don't really do anger very much, but again I have to feel it myself in order to be able to write about it effectively, as I was definitely channeling something when I wrote that post and perhaps a little too well for the moderators liking anyway. But without every word at my disposal, its like some sort of chemically induced impotence, or worse still chemical castration. :0(((

I can't help thinking any website with the word Adult in their name should expect not just adult imagery, but also some adult language from time to time, by all means take steps to limit its over use. I feel it should be the verbal equivalent of cumming, so after hours and hours of good, horny sex, comes the verbal climax in words, so right now I would be writing Oh F...., OH F...., well I would if I thought I could get away with writing what I'm sure you can guess is my meaning here.

Strange I can see the act on this website and if I had a lovely willing volunteer, I would be allowed to put that fornicating footage on this site and I'm sure they would be more than happy to except it, as yet more free content for them, which ultimately means more revenue. But don't even think about using the words to describe that act here, the words, standards and double, spring to mind, just not in that order...

You have caught me in a rather compromising situation suechris, hope you can keep secrets lol..

But definitely think you have something interesting there, I certainly wish we could make the powers that be here sit up and take notice..

I'm off to bed now suechris, have Fun xx

By co-incidence I was just explaining my personal situation to someone else merely moments ago and then I saw this blog on basically the same subject, so I thought I would share. For me being discreet is all to do with where I work. I love my job & the work that I do but the side effect is we are monitored (personal lives are not exempt) in a very draconian way for any sign of "deviation from the norm" be it: a gambling problem, drugs & alcohol issues, sex & shift in sexual orientation, change of religion, in short I and most of the people I work with are subject to a lot of scrutiny due to the type of work we do (and no I am not a spy or something). Its for security reasons but being judged by someone else and found lacking in any of the above are grounds for dismissal without recourse. So you can probably see why I will never post a face pic on the internet.

Hi funtimeguy. I can see how well your name suits you in this alternate universe, as your other one sounds, although a great job & one you really enjoy it I'm sure, but sounds the total opposite of a fun time, some might even say sh1t lol. But even as I read it I wasn't thinking spy, or working for the government, as in my limited & admittedly slightly out of date experience, "deviation from the norm" as you put it, doesn't bar you from working for them as long as legal of cause from working for the government, or civil service, just as long as you tell them everything & I mean everything & yes they will watch & be checking up on you, how much depends on your security clearance, but doesn't stop you working for them, especially if they really want you. Their main worry is you hiding something that you could be blackmailed with & making you a security threat, that's where their problems with people start.
So if not that my best guess would be a religious organization, not above the law, but can be a bit of a law unto themselves..

Little update. As I said in my limited experience & slightly out of date, so when I said tell everything that was pre ten or so years ago, so predating the media ageexplosion that were in now, so as D is saying I'm sure there are lots of secrets involving usage of the internet now, what I was meaning by telling all was if your gay, bi, or into cross dressing in your spare time, that sort of thing. Hope that clarifies what was a bit of a rushed swiping statement, as doing this on my phone & have a tendency to lose my messages if not sent quickly enough, which happened once already this morning. :0(

Deborse. Why is it I suddenly have this mental image of you as this sexy Miss Moneypenny character, all prim & proper on the outside, but very naughty on the inside. ;0) You can call me 008 & a half plus on a good day, but not telling you why. Wtf ;0)) img src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif"

Just lost another one, there dropping like flies now. Not sure why that one got pulled, although I was talking about site punishments for infringing site rules & making suggestions, perhaps a little suggestiveimproper, by their standards, but subtle, not like I was thrusting it in anyone's face, or anything like that. Wtf

These are not the droids you're looking for. ..move along...

Excellent point there should be no reason to hide, but I am guilty also not because of my friends but I have six children ranging from six to eighteen and I would rather save them any embarrassing comments

Personal preference.....
It makes no difference in my opinion whether you hide behind an avatar or a photo.
Can either truly be trusted?
There is not a single measure on this or any similar site that can offer a true verification of identity that cannot be abused by someone with intent.
So we just blimdly stumble on relying on our judgement to prove the integrity of those we chat with and hope to meet.
That said, you all seem a perfectly honest bunch so we have no need to worry.

Mac: I suspect that our present woes are due to the fact that the "usual fairy" is away on hols :-)

Good point well made Welcumdstraction & one I've had to ponder far too often for my liking.
I think if in doubt you always have to go with no you can't trust either. The trouble is where the internet is concerned there is always doubt...
Perhaps one day there will be a technical logical breakthrough that will give us all our trust back.

@TomFeral I would never work for Religious organisation.

I enjoy the work I do and most of the people I work with, when I was 20 something I didn't really think twice about the documents I was signing to get clearance to work on projects. Having been interviewed by and subsequently been involved in the checking process for others with the people who make the judgement calls on who is and is not a risk I can honestly say these are not the people I want standing in judgement of me.

In any case my personal case aside there are a lot of valid reasons (besides cheating on significant others) why people don't want their face on the internet, the Internet of everything may not be for everybody.

If I wasn't scared before, I am now!!:0((

The thing that makes them scary to me is the not knowing who the hell they are lol & not likely too.

My money was on L R Hubbard's lot, know they want to know all about their members (secrets). Makes it very hard to leave once in & also the reason people tend not to say very much if they do manage to get out, because they know all their secrets. Anyway not them, this time.

The only way to know someone truly is to spesk with them at length.
It might seem a little sad but make notes of random comments they make about themselves and then mention it in a future conversation to see if the same answer is forthcoming.
Use email properties to check IP address locations to ensure they match with where the sender says they are.

Fortunately on this site, i have not been contacted by a single scammer so i feel prettu secure here.
I have noticed the occasional mail message will have had the profile deleted by the time i see it so the site admin are proactive in weeding out the fake profiles pretty quick.

Unfortunately there are those sites out there where 90% of the profiles are fake and 9% are scam artists who are trying to sucker the 1% legitimate useres that will fall for a sob story and part with their hard earned cash. Those give good sites like this an automatic bad reputation for trustworthyness.
So if any of you need to be lent a monkey, i will be more than happy to do so?!?!

A foole & his money, be soone at debate:
which after with sorow, repents him to late.

Hi xiaospirit. Sorry to hear about that happening to you, hoping it wasn't too bad & that you managed to resolve it quickly, or at least that those bad times are behind you now!! Remember that saying, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, mate. Thank you for the insight & info.

Here's a similar tip, never put your mum & dad, in your phone as mum & dad, as similar sort of thing, a stranger with bad intent if able to access your phone can go straight to it & potentially send all sorts of stuff to your mum & dad, well not without knowing their names.

Little clarification about my earlier post, obviously it follows that such a big "religion" as I was talking about employ there own followers.

Fyi for anyone interested, have only just noticed there's a program on tonight on channel 5, Inside Scientology: And Escaping The Witnesses. If anyone's interested.

Welcumdstraction - Thanks for all the good tips, I still don't know how you check an IP address on an email, but will try & get the answer from google, or YouTube later.

I must say your experience of using this site does not reflect my own. I have had more personal negative instances, of scammers, or at the very least people that gave me reason to think they were scammers than I could possibly give you a figure for. Will give one recent one, where I got lucky & think its always worth doing the same in future now, was going to reply to this woman & for some reason decided to find her under name search & again lucky for me I only put first part of her name in & three totally separate profiles came up, two were VIP profiles, if memory serves from two different locations with pictures of clearly the same woman & one was classic, or standard because that one was saying in Germany & no pic on that one, but I was convinced it was the same woman, but this time saying gay. Talk about covering all basis lol.

I'd put money on this posting not being here this time tomorrow.

P.S. If its three strikes & your out, then I will be gone with my third deletion lol. So it will be goodbye from me & most likely good riddance from you!!:0(( Have Fun, if you know who will let you!!:0))

Tom,
Email properties can be found in file tab. Pick out IP address and drop into a search engine.
Plenty of sites will tell you the server location.
Not sure about the 3 strikes and yer out, i fell outta favour with Mary Whitehouse a few weeks ago.
Cross her palm with chocolate, that should sort it.

suechris
I'm glad somebody did lol xx

Welcum
Thanks for that, that will be another good weapon against the scammers!:0)

lostman
Does your good lady wife have a nice younger sister & if so what's her English like??:0))

Welcum
Sounds very kinky to me, I thought Mary Whitehouse died years ago, where did you manage to dig her up??:0))

mac
White chocolate I give it, because I certainly don't take it. When a savoury option is needed though, I always offer man relish, full of creamy goodness, including Zinc & Selenium, oh & protein, all part of a good healthy diet... ;0))

Welcum
P.S. I bet Mary gave you a really withering look, she was always good at those even when she was alive... Wtf

Sorry for any offence taken, but like I always say I can resist everything with the exception of only one thing, that one thing being, Temptation lol.

I really wouldn't want to publish a photo, not a pretty sight but I see where you're coming from, and, by the way, I have nothing to hide.img src="imagesadultemoticons007.gif"

I'm not a bad person, just another badly drawn avatar.

I figure if I can think of something that makes even me recoil in disgust and write it here, it will have the same effect on others, see above. But better some reaction than no reaction, as genuine reactions even to disgust not only tell us were alive, but where our hearts are truly at.

It is all about personal choice. For some it might be family, others career or even a marriage.

"Glad to be weird"

Amen to that :-)

My reason for not having a face pic is the career I've spent 5 long years training hard for. I don't think an employer of mine would see it as a good thing. Sometimes the areas are only black and white with other people. Reality is there is a massive grey area in the real world.

Great topic though xxxx

I've noticed some folk won't show their face, but their big brown eye gets a public airing!

For us there are several reasons, firstly we are considering our children, we are not ashamed but don't feel it's so they need to think about, secondly ex husband and Wife who would love nothing more than to broadcast to everyone who would listen - including the kids! And thirdly our jobs, we cannot afford to loose them. I certainly have a lot of admiration for those that are courageous enough to take the plunge! And when contacted we are happy to exchange face photos privately.

People are like tortoises & turtles, in that neither get anywhere until they stick their necks out & show their faces. ;0())

Hi Indepth, I've just seen our two avatars side, by side under the previous liking of LillieG's posting & I think we make a lovely (avatar) couple. XX

Not that you need anyone else to make a lovely couple & in more ways than one.... Lucky chap. :0)

Hey People, Lovely Day For The Race....

Oh I Do Hope So & much the same as mine. Now why doesn't that surprise me, probably because they reflect us so well. But as my name suggests, mine is just a (Feral) pussy (Tom) cat really. Just hoping yours is on a short leash like mine is lol

Shame there isn't a SimSinCity part of this website that we could send them both off to play together, might calm him down abit, or would that count as cheating in your book?

Funny how the future has brought us more questions than answers, I had been hoping for more answers, somehow.

I have an answer to my earlier race question though, if your interested? :0)

In a cat fight I'd probably let you win as I'm a bit kinky like that lol, just hoping you leave me able to fightclaw, scratch & bit another day... img src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif"

Like I said, bit restless lol. xx

Hahaha.. Don't knock it, its all good physical contact in my book, at least & yes your probably right I'm way beyond rescue remedy now. Sometimes only a Glock will do lol & guessing you'd like to do the honors, excuse me if I don't stand still for this bit. Would I get a last request?

Sorry for disturbing you & your sexy little avatars, lazy weekend. But thanks for playing with me here, its all good clean fun, unfortunately..... Lol

Think if I can't have you Indepth, I'm In danger of falling for your avatar. She reminds me alot of my first love Betty Rubble, you know wife of Barney, they were neighbors of the Flintstones, she was always my favorite & your avatar reminds me alot of her, but your avatars liking for biting & scratching is winning me over to (your) her dark side....... On second thoughts, pass me that Glock your holding in your hand, no your other hand, I said Glock. ;0())

Only just checked back in Indepth & apologies to you, debrorose & all here!! I'm guilty as charged all my fault, Sorry!! Hope I haven't gotten you into any trouble, if so just blame me, okay, or annoyed to many people here!! I'm not a fan of the chat rooms either, doesn't work on so many levels for me. I know your all loved up Indepth & I'm really happy for you!!:0)) I enjoy talking to you, so hoping we still can, if not here, then somewhere, but entirely up to you!!:0))

Has somebody got control of the horizontal and the vertical? ?

img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif" Get a room you two, think we all get that you are an item now!!img src="imagesadultemoticons023.gif"

Had thought that you would make use of the rooms then, rather than the blogs as 'you' alone with some others including me were not too impressed by others using the blogs for chit chat and blatant obvious flirting. Sorry clearly in some peoples books it's a case of some rules or common courtesy matters only apply to others. Just saying it as i see it img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

Should read * along with some others

I agree :-)

I thought that's what the blogs were for??

Ooops time for me to make a quick exit as a song just popped into my head.........'there may be trouble ahead' img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

OOh, a music blog....
we ain't had one of those in ages.

think that's because Music blogs have been blogged to death. 'time after time'

Couldn't help but slip in a song title. Though the music blogs do become a bit boring after a while img src="imagesadultemoticons020.gif"

Everything's gone straight to hell since Sinatra played Jaurez

Deborose 'Let's face the music and dance' was for from 'Follow the Feet' movie
'Cheek to cheek' was from 'Top Hat'

I agree S&C. I wish them all the best!! I'm sure they will settle down and go by Indepth's earlier advice to TF to keep chatting to the chat rooms. :-)

I think it's time this blog took a trip to Dignitas :-)

Well I suppose it's better than a food thread.

Well I suppose it's better than a food thread.

Oooopsss.......

Don't pretend Skibbie, you have been talking about food just a tad while ago LOL....

Gosh!! I love Paolo Nutini and Adele....but now listening Christina Perry "A Thousand Years"

Hello
It was so good to read about your thoughts. I am a man that lives my Life in Sweden. Here I have build up an own Company. I still work as a general manager for that last season. I have Three grown up Children and 4 grand Children.
I should love a lot to make love with you.
I hope to travel to London in kombination to look at some good football match.
Then I use to stay at Grafton Warren Street.
I hope you like my suggestion.
We can then have a cozy day and evening.
Hug
Erik

Nutella, now we're talking!!

Cadbury's fruit & nut might be a better fit Zook.

Bloody hell Skebbie, you was the first one to comment on the food blog.
I couldn't adam an' eve it if i aint seen it with me own minces...
You took to it like a duck to water!

Bloody hell Skebbie, you was the first one to comment on the food blog.
I couldn't adam an' eve it if i aint seen it with me own minces...
You took to it like a duck to water!

Bollox, bloody spell check....
like a Feck to water!

Thats better ;)

Hi all, well I am new here started with just clean shots with face, then I had a thought mmmm this site is really about one of the greatest pleasures in life that is good for you makes you feel good and you can have the pleasure of the enjoyment of making others feel good!!! img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" so I placed some naughty photos and blocked out my face, not really knowing why as I am happy and proud of being horny loving sex and feel sorry for those that don't have the passion for great loving sex like we do, then I got a weird message that asked me to do something that got me suspicious so I placed the naughty photos into private, this is disappointing as one thing I love about this site above all the beautiful horny loving people here, is the fact that you can say or ask about things that the so call normal people believe is out of taste.... Mark