What code words do you use?

I suppose you could keep a small patch of elephant grass in your pocket and subtly on view, isn't that supposed to be a sign?

Code word is iron man hahah

I've been wondering why ,when I approach people and intone what i thought were the code words " May the Bird of Paradise Fly Up Your Nose " ,they have either looked at me blankly, tut-tutted in sympathy or told me to bugger off !
I have now dumped my personal Enigma machine in the bin !

I'll remember that when I next bump into you Sue img src="imagesadultemoticons006.gif"

All the talk of black rings...it's a bit Tolkien ain't it, begging yer pardon Mr Frodo Sir.

Broadsword calling DannyBoy, Broadsword calling DannyBoy ......... Over ;-)

Ankle bracelets are rather popular amongst those who are into their cuckolding...

Apparently.

Not that I would know anything about that, me being so innocent and the like....

Sorry to post on the blog. I was just picturing me wearing a black ring and a bracelet in China to see what would happen? hahaha The answer probably nothing but I bet you would have to be careful as different cultures imposed different ornaments, It is very common in India for example to wear an ankle bracelet!

Maybe they're all at it? They did come up with the Caramel Suture all them years ago.

code words, rings, not that far removed from the rituals of the masonic lodge has anyone tried a funny handshakes yet?
Best to stick to a site or club that's why people join sites and go to clubs to interact with like mined people.
Happy humping

A sign is probably a bit extreme, and would get a bit tedious to carry round after a while. Unless it was an 'end is nigh' sandwich board I suppose, that would be easier to shift about.

Maybe carry under your arm 50 shades of gray would also give the wrong impression? img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif"

Dok: U make me smile! :)

I seem to recall way back that this site was advertising a "swingers' lapel pin" for the cognoscenti :-)

My usual method for advertising my availability when amongst strangers in a public place is to don my Hugh Hefner dressing gown bearing the said lapel pin, and then adopt a sort of languid pose with an e-cigarette holder outside the ladies' toilets. I find this sends a fairly unambiguous message, and so far has served me well.

Skebbie: Could you let me know which toilets do you go to? img src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif" You made me laugh so hard but now, thinking it with more pause, I think it would defo suit u :P

Skeb, did the magistrate capture your intentions properly in his summing up last time??

Ankle bracelets ? I wondered why people kept winking at me after the police tagged me .

Fetch: You've just given me an idea. As it seems that most women are drawn to "bad boys", perhaps I could improve my chances if I manufactured a fake but convincing ankle tag to supplement my Hugh Hefner outfit. However, I'd have to make sure the badness I conveyed was something akin to a Marbella mafioso rather than a lager-lout ASBO. I suppose as a last resort I could attach a few henna tattoos as well.

While we're still on this thread, I'm surprised no-one has yet mentioned the secret and unmistakable "swingers' handshake". No description is necessary, surely.

an approach that has worked very well when I am out with my partner, if you see a couple you like go up to them and 'hi are your John & Sue?' They will usually say no then you say 'really sorry, we tentatively arranged to meet a couple this evening that fitted your description' you would be amazed how many have then explored further through to having a really horny time! Have fun peeps 😊

Maybe I should try that approach with single women :-)

SueChris: Actually I thought my one-liner above was pretty inane by my standards :-)

Skebbie. Just a thought but i don't think going up to e random lady and saying " Are you John or Sue ? " would have the desired result........or maybe it would on second thoughts.img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

Marie's post wondering who around her participate in swinging can be source of endless amusement when done in conjunction with people watching is it the couple in the car in front, the person walking down the street? Appearances can be deceptive as we found out in the car park outside a club we exchanged pleasantries with a couple not realising they were heading to the same venue next time we saw them she was the centre of attraction of about 78 men and handling it well yet outside the thought would have never have crossed you mind. (aye right) When we view an image attached to a profile particular those taken outside inevitably there are times when we may recognise the location which raises a smile or more if the image is pleasing to the eye. At the moment whenever we see a female on a mountain bike we smile and wonder but would never have the courage for a direct approach with our luck it would be the wrong person with a partner 6ft square and intolerant of swingers.

If you are going to do a sign or signal then it needs to be simple and almost every day. Like if you are in a pub you stand a coin up on the table, doesn't look out of place. So if you see that you reply with a similar simple sign like sticking an empty crisp packet in the top of a bottle.
Good old James Bond stuff here.

What happens if it's the wrong flavour of crisps and they're actually Quakers looking for some sinnwrs to convert?

Does it come with standard code word? Not swingers

Well if we could identify likeminded people who swing it would save a huge amount of time

Maybe the best is to use a special word for all the swinger community. I mean if you r speaking with someone for the first time, use this special word in a normal sentence during the discusion and if they notice it ( because they know this word as well) , it mean they are in the swinger world, if not you know they are not...