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The quirks of erogenous zones.....

8:37 pm Sunday, 2nd August, 2015

I thought I'd try to start a new conversation, hopefully a little more upbeat. Now I can lay bets that this is a subject that has been covered (or uncovered!) before but bare (ha) with me.

We are all aware of the usual and predictable erogenous zones in the modern western world, hell, hardly a thing would be sold without one or more said "zones" being exposed and exploited!

But what about those areas that are a little more unusual or underestimated? Not including the brain, which is unfortunately underestimated by far to many.

I am thinking along the lines ( with apologies to a fellow blogger) of a " finely turned ankle" (LillieGs being the ankle under discussion). I am aware that the nape of the neck was a highly eroticised zone in Japan in the Geisha era. Maybe Skebbie can confirm if this is still the case?

My favourite zone to admire and lavish attention on is a clearly defined collar bone. Maybe odd, maybe not. A little more predictable is the hollows on either side of the tummy leading to the pelvis.

Anyone else with a yen for the wristbone?



Comments
9:54 pm Sunday, 2nd August, 2015

Debrose, from my knowledge i haven't encountered this subject in blogland but i am sure one of the other bloggers will correct me on that but i dare not delve into the blog archives again, not sure my frayed nerves could withstand another excursion there.

An ostrich feather used lightly in various places usually teases out some of the more unusual erogenous locations.
Inner thighs, backs of the arms, lower buttocks and small of the back; nowhere to sensitive as you don't want your partner in fits of laughter.
The use of a blindfold helps build the rension and lets you tease your unsuspecting partner.


9:57 pm Sunday, 2nd August, 2015

I love nothing more than having the back of my neck kissed, especially when my dress is being slowly being unzipped from the back at the same time. Do this for me and I can't be held responsible for my actions :-)

10:03 pm Sunday, 2nd August, 2015

The small of a womans back is amazingly sexy! Nothing more alluring than an open backed dress or as previously mentioned the action of unzipping one :-)

10:08 pm Sunday, 2nd August, 2015

Ooo Joe, get your coat!

12:34 am Monday, 3rd August, 2015

I think you have to make a distinction between an erogenous zone (which when stimulated turns someone on) and an erotic zone (which is a visual turn-on to the observer). The nape of a woman's neck revealed above the kimono was, and still is, considered attractive and erotic in Japan, but has been largely superseded by what is revealed by western clothing, and that means most of the features that are considered erotic in the West too.

I once saw a tongue in cheek "map" of male erogenous zones, and basically it was a circular and symmetrical target with the "bull's eye" located over the glans penis. I think the "author" of the map was trying to suggest that males are pretty simple creatures to understand, whereas the sensual topography of the female tends to be a little more complex :-)

4:45 am Monday, 3rd August, 2015

slowly kissing a womans neck while unzipping her dress is very sentual and followed by running your tongue gently along the lower neck

8:31 am Monday, 3rd August, 2015

And i spose using the entire ostrich is just damn perverse!
Unless of course it is a consenting ostrich....
Hmmm, think i better leave it there, dont want to end up being ostrichised!

I was thinking about the various erogenous areas suggested thus far, the ear lobe had not been mentioned but worthy of inclusion.
So far, all of these areas suggested are pretty insensitive to touch so what makes them such a turn on when you are aroused or in the "right frame of mind"?
Why should a simple touch to a part of your body when done during sex feel like electric when any other time you would not even consider it.
How would Sassy cope on a packed commuter underground carriage if this was to happen all the time?
i can now imagine her doing her best "When Harry met Sally" Meg Ryan impersonation.

9:46 am Monday, 3rd August, 2015

Hi Sassy if you get the balance right the Stilettos may work, i do think woman in stilettos is a good look once the brain is engaged the rest will follow lol

4:06 am Tuesday, 4th August, 2015

As has already been mentioned women are much more complex than us blokes, but for me one of the best bits is the voyage of discovery that is totally different with every woman and the short cuts to others arousal and excitement may have little, or no effect on the next, so never take anything for granted. But me being me, one of the first places of my interest to investigate, impart because it falls so easily to the touch of my lips, or fingers, as can be done while still clothed and still standing, but love turning my attention first to a woman's ears and neck, for me this is made easier and more enjoyable for both if no earrings are being worn as like to kiss the ear lobes from the front and the back, very gentle and above all quietly lol. If this is having the desired effect, kiss a little, but only a little more intently, if still having the desired effect, gently nuzzling mainly behind the ear, lips first, then allowing my nose to make gentle, then firmer contact with the back of the earlobe and at the same time kissing the neck at the natural point where my lips would fall while still making contact with my nose behind the earlobes natural pressure point, tracking back slightly before slowly tracking down from there with very feather like, or even butterfly type kisses moving down to the nape of the neck, from there along to the collarbone very slowly, letting my breath caress the path of my moist kisses as I go. It's the journey of discovery that's important here and sharing in your enjoyment and if at any point I detect heightened enjoyment from you, I will investigate further and depending on timing maybe a lot further. But rest assured if I've found your interest in any of my light, or otherwise touches I will be back to capitalize further on what I hope will be the first of many of your erogenous zone discoveries. Finding a woman's erogenous triggers is one of life's rewards for both, using it to start, or build arousal is one thing, but being able to use it to heighten, or push you at will over that sensual, sexual orgasmic cliff is quite another and a rush not to be missed :0())

10:50 pm Tuesday, 4th August, 2015

I seem to recall a Hitchcock movie starting out with a misunderstanding similar to this one playing out here........

11:29 pm Tuesday, 4th August, 2015

Some time ago I realised that generally, if I like a face it'll have well shaped and defined eyebrows.

[grins] This makes me a Superciliophilliac...

12:01 am Wednesday, 5th August, 2015

Trying to steer this back on course, but hoping I'm not sharing too much lol. When it comes to what I like the ears have it again, I guess its all those nerve endings we have there, so especially when being played with and I include milking and being edged and not just being wanked in this, but love it when a woman kisses and licks around my ear and especially in my ear, as well as having her breath there adding to the sensations, but the closer I get with her hand stimulation, the more I want her to lick and probe the inner part of my ear, so always increasing the touch of her playful tongue and just at the right moment, nothing better than having her stick her tongue right in there and for all that she is worth, keeping it there pushing me over the edge until my happy ending, which given my liking for the above is never fare behind...

Writing this made me think, perhaps one day I'll be lucky enough to have two women do this for me at the same time (any takers?), now that really would blow my mind and not just my hot, sticky load... :0())

11:44 am Friday, 7th August, 2015

Mac.....you realize, of course, that you have just outed yourself as a guinea-pig fetishist :-)

1:21 pm Friday, 7th August, 2015

Never underestimate the appeal of the sound of a good woman having a really good time, especially if those sounds are involuntary, so genuine & not faked. Like music to my ears!:0)

3:37 pm Friday, 7th August, 2015

very nice,pair of breasts,bye

11:25 am Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

In the film Thunderball, James Bond got a good reaction from the girl at the health farm with a mink glove stroked over her back & shoulders. I must endeavour to purchase same!

12:33 pm Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

I've found that some ladies like a cube of ice slowly running over sensitive parts of the body. Sometimes a few cubes popped inside them, towels required. I'd you don't have cubes then licking small areas then gently blowing on the area significantly reduces the temperature causing goosebumpes and luscious moans.

4:46 pm Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

mac - Just don't spray any babes all over with gold paint (Goldfinger), or it could be a long stretch, lol!

4:48 pm Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

behind ears, running down the neck

6:12 pm Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

Macbloke, I think it depends on your cooking skills. I've never actually killed anyone with my food, but they tend not to ask for seconds... Hey! That's JUST like my sex life!

11:40 pm Tuesday, 11th August, 2015

The inside edge of the cochlear, always a challenge to reach mind...

2:36 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

Great blog. Well I have to say I absolutely adore when someone massages my scalp...I know little weird and well I have a very secret spot that when it is poked, i jump...olala img src="imagesadultemoticons024.gif"

2:38 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

But i should clarify. I DONT make guinea pigs noises....lol

3:21 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

freeforpleasure - I'm totally with you there. A scalp massage makes me melt, especially when it's accompanied by some whispering in my ears - gives me the shivers!

3:39 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

every body is talking about the physical the spots which feel sensual, sometimes this can be as subjective to the individual after all we are all different, but what about the spirit, the part that doesnt rely on the physycal but is stimulated thought ideas and emotions the ability to feel enjoyment wherever your touched due to the connection you share with the person touching you. In my experience sex is always more pleasurable when youre emursed in the feeling of the act with someone else and share a loving , chemical and physical bond. Is the act itself more important than the build up or does one highten the other?

maybe im just a hippy at heart... free peace n love guys

8:18 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

Indeed the wrist bone and the inside of the risk which is quite predictable. I was with a friend last week a lovely Indian lady who has been married for many years and I demonstrated how kissing the base of the back could be very enjoyable I assumed she had experienced this... She had not and it blew her away...

9:04 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

Like everyone i do have a special place that when caressed, nuzzled or kissed i positively soar and feel as though i've been whisked off to another timeplace. But you see alas i can't share the details of that oh so special location as it's highly classified information that is only shared with people who have passed many many security checks.......Or when someone happens to come across it purely by chance will they know that they had hit the 'spot' :-)

9:16 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

Ahhh you read my mind Deborose, that's one of the reasons i prefer to keep my special 'quirky' pleasure spot sort of secret ;-) x

9:20 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

PS. you commented on a blog that has vanished off into the blue yonder that you used to be a 'Goth' made me smile as there are quite a few of us that used to be into that scene back in the day wandering around on this here site :-) x

9:27 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

SueChris you two always make me splutter my half swallowed coffee, Oft at this rate my poor laptops days are numbered. :-) x

9:34 pm Wednesday, 12th August, 2015

Shhhh my poor laptop.....must invest in a mini umbrella for the poor thing as it's just been caught out by another coffee shower lolol :-) x

12:35 am Thursday, 13th August, 2015

suechrischris - "just a thought", or more a necessity after every highly entertaining, enjoyed internet surfing experience. Sorry perhaps that's just me. But here's another thought, Sony tablets & phones tend to be waterproof & can cum in handy, sometimesoften. :0())

1:06 am Thursday, 13th August, 2015

freeforpleasure - Thank you for clarifying that you don't make a noise like a guinea pig when having your scalp massage in a certain way, :0( but feel I need to ask for further clarification as to the sound you actually do make when having this done properly for you? Also wondering if you've ever experienced this while having your hair washed rather enthusiastically at a hairdressers & if so have you been back? Lol P.S. If your having difficulty in identifying the exact soundsounds you make while being massaged in this way, can I offer my own highly skilled, eager hands & fingers in teasing that sound, sounds out of you & making music for my ears!!;0))

5:56 am Thursday, 13th August, 2015

Nothing nicer than having fingers lightly run from the back of my neck down my spine to the small of my back, followed by very light feather kisses. I find that very sensual. At the same time the unzipping undone of a dress is optional, obviously depending on whether this takes place at the beginning or during the evenings pleasure

6:58 am Thursday, 13th August, 2015

Tom, I found funny you mentioned that as it is true I had to restrain myself from having those lovely scalp massages in Asia at the hairdresser...:P...In relation to my sounds, I think I have been already quite kind enough to give info about one of my secret areas....so until someone does not touch me, I should leave the sound I make to everyone's imagination. img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

9:49 pm Thursday, 13th August, 2015

Hi freeforpleasure. Thank you for replying, although still leaving my mind more tortured than pleasured it has to be said, as to that intriguing sound that you make, as both blessed and cursed by an over active imagination at the best of times, but currently torturing me, as can't even be sure that sound isn't closer to guinea pig in nature than you would have meus believe now lol.

Funny to think up until I read this blog page, the sounds that guinea pigs make never featured very highly in my kinkier thoughts, but oh, how times change..

Anyway at this point I will surrender, as know when I'm beaten and short of being lucky enough to meet you and even luckier to gaining access to your wondrous, long healthy hair and sensually alluring scalp, I'm not about to find this out anytime soon..

I guess this only leaves me one option in my quest to learn more about the sensual pleasures and resulting induced noises that head massage can bring forth in sexy, young women, while having their follicles teased and extremely well looked after, by a healthy, probable over excited male member of staff. :0)) To help me in this endeavour, I intend to blag my way into working in a ladies hair salon, aided by my freshly printed CV and certificates, that testify to my expertise in washing hair and giving out of this world Indian head massages, well its got to be worth a try, wish me luck freefortorture, sorry freeforpleasure.. img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

11:32 pm Thursday, 13th August, 2015

Hi macbloke. Thanks for the heads up, I never knew guinea pigs were so easy to look after and to please, as sounds as if there not too fussy were they sleep, or who with for that matter and to cap it all a very cheap date lol. If I didn't know better, I'd be thinking you were trying to turn me off of my favourite little furry and not, so furry pussy animals that I love, adore and even cherish, not to mention spoil, whenever I get the chance and onto the idea of keeping a tame little sweet, squeaking guinea pig. Well it wont come as too much of a surprise to you and others here that I do like the little squeakers, but my first love is always going to be kittenspussies!!:o)) But then again........... Do you think you could send me one in the post, special delivery of course. :0)

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