Where do you draw the line ???

4:45 pm Saturday, 20^th June, 2015

I just wanted to ask you all when is it ok to break the rules??? This is our dilemma we set our selves some simple rules when we joined this site and decide we wanted to be a part of this exciting lifestyle , one was that we would only meet single guys or couples as stated in our profile . We've been chatting to a male really clicked was looking forward to a meet then he said he has a girlfriend .. We are not judgementle each to there own however it is the one rule we said we would never break , but now I'm questioning are we being to strict with our rule after all we are not looking for a relationship and monogamy from any one we play with its them that has to live with there desistion to go outside of there relationship to fill there needs .would you break your own rules ?? Advice please xxxx

Comments

Rugbyman22	4:51 pm Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 No I wouldn't do it, as I wouldn't like it if someone done it to me. Anytime I speak to someone and they say they have a partner, I make sure the partner gives permission before we continue. It's morally wrong and I believe what goes around comes around. Best of luck x
dougfunny11	5:02 pm Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 I'd steer clear as it'll cause aggro.
Mrdjandmrs	6:36 pm Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 Its all about FUN !!!! However if you had a partner the whole time I would not , if you just became a partner I would have to ask partner if they mind !
hulldom2015	9:55 pm Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 You are right to set your rules and then to keep to them. You are happy to see a single guy or a couple so if he has a girlfriend, he should either stay faithful to her and not see anyone on his own or discuss with her, how involved she wants them both to be and have a couple's profile that reflects that. If he goes behind her back, when she finds out, you don't want to be involved in her anger. I'm sure there are plenty more members that are more suitable for you both.
LJBevensII	3:40 am Sunday, 21^st June, 2015 Garryandkerry... Let me first explain what I have learned from my years as a single in this lifestyle. All couples set boundaries and rules as to what they are comfortable with. Being such they have thought out as many scenarios that they may possibly arise and have ensured or secured their own comfort levels as a couple. I have know many couples that one or the other is allowed to play on their own and it is an open knowledge to who they also play with. These are their choices and can only be decided by them. Too often casual single males will join lifestyle site with the intention or thoughts of an easy lay. If it has been your rule to meet only single males and couples... If he is a part of a couple then ask him to have his partner accompany him on the meet. If he is not comfortable then you have not broken your rule by canceling any meet as he has deceived you with being single and trying to deceive his partner as well. I can assure that should anyone find out they were deceived there will be a lot of drama that you will not want party to. I have seen this all too often and it never ends well.
Garryandkerry	8:17 am Sunday, 21^st June, 2015 Thank you guys I think u r all right , stick to our rules .. Thanks for your incite xxx
EspanaNewbie	2:52 pm Sunday, 21^st June, 2015 Very risky, move on to another male is probably best
rigger101uk	5:46 pm Sunday, 21^st June, 2015 It's your gig....stick to what makes you comfy. Whilst great fun this mullarkey can be a little bit complicated emotionally especially at first.
eroticgoddess	8:36 pm Sunday, 21^st June, 2015 My response is not aimed at this one specific rule you set and are now debating, but rather as an overall input on rules in general. I don't mean to say you should or shouldn't meet with an attached man, as only you can decide that. I think rules are guidelines to start with, and arecan be flexible as things go along. Go with what works for you, if your ground rules at any time seem too lenient or stringent, you can change them at any time, for any reason. Just be sure they are what works for YOU, not because of what you think others will think.
Rayvan24	1:54 pm Friday, 24^th July, 2015 Stick with your rules!
UnaRisata	6:47 pm Saturday, 25^th July, 2015 Did the guy say his GF knew? Because if so...seems like a different story than not knowing.