Does paying for a roll in hay make it worthwhile?

9:59 am Friday, 19^th June, 2015

I have been wondering every time I get mail and I'm asked what I expect in return, I lack an answer last I checked I indicated no to paid service but seems there are those that itch to justify their could I call it infidelity, or guilt by exchanging money, I wonder if it's possible to be good friends without watching out for that card that's hidden under the table just my thinking

Comments

Bigbadwolf212	2:32 pm Friday, 19^th June, 2015 allureKenya I would love to meet you. you seem fascinating to say the least
furanshisu	5:06 am Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 Lol allurekenya We had faced mountaineous pressure frm a diff couple... I knew its my life my choice and had to call the meet ups of! Needed to feel comfatable! img src="imagesadultemoticons005.gif"
Fetch1	6:28 am Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 I knew a lady who would exchange favours for money.She became a multi-millionairess as result. It was amazing how all those 20p's mounted up !
hulldom2015	10:22 pm Saturday, 20^th June, 2015 Ladies can enjoy sex as much as men. Everyone has their needs, so if someone isn't in a relationship and wants to satisfy their needs or wants an additional partner or partners occasionally, it should be just about having consensual fun. Surely it's better to be happy that someone has chosen you to share their bed with, rather than others who've replied to their advert? Assume it is a one off, and be even happier if there is a second (or more often) time.
Krefan	5:42 am Wednesday, 24^th June, 2015 I agree sex is not flavoured just because a guy pays for it. We have just been Socialised to pay because even when you just want to have simple good fun from a good consenting adult the kaching is asked of you. I just want good sex without legal tender.
Brinton222	5:47 pm Thursday, 25^th June, 2015 Because where I live is bereft of sensible public transport I sometimes inquire if a portion of the travel expenses would help. I do not consider this puts the lady in any way obligated to me,nor is it intended to insult her by suggesting she may be carrying out the oldest profession.
Cunnyli	10:08 pm Thursday, 25^th June, 2015 To make love to some-one is for the sentiment and mutual pleasure of both parties. If one is paid then it is a contractual agreement for the paid to please or service the payer. there is no sentiment in business take care of yourself X
pito5	4:42 am Friday, 26^th June, 2015 img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"
alltongue	5:17 pm Friday, 26^th June, 2015 Just to reiterate, yes, society has conditioned some men to always think with their wallets when it comes to knocking boots, some will even joke that they're paying for her to leave. It's always better when both parties are mutually into it and there's no (monetary) reward pegged to the some-some
dad13	11:53 pm Saturday, 27^th June, 2015 And we wonder how Hillary ended up with soooo much money? img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"
siralfie2014	8:30 am Sunday, 28^th June, 2015 Interesting discussion! But I think its a bit mistaken though I DO NOT SPEAK for everyone, This is because in my opinion when I ask a lady what she expects it means am actually asking 'what excites her or what fulfillment is she expecting from this' Now honestly some of the ladies here are masters of double-speak as their profiles say not interested in paid services but wait till you chat with them then undertones of "money issues"...now such instanes can only reinforce the thought amongst some men that every lady here is seeking monetary favors in return for a good time. However, there are some who are genuine but when asked this so question of "What do you expect?" have misunderstood it to be "HOW MUCH DO YOU expect?" Now this goes both ways, if the lady and the dude are interested in each other then best each just be straight and ask what exactly does the other mean. I believe being on this site is that you are mature and not looking to beat about the bush. Basically, I want great consensual sex with a mature lady. She wants a the same. Period.So we talk it out and see that we are on the same page then we hit it. In short both parties ought to seek clarification and be certain of what the latter meant. I would love to meet mature ladies commenting on this blog.