I have four weeks before my trip to the UK. Unfortunately, I had a silly accident and my ankle fractured and now I am spending more time chatting to people that I have ever done before.
Now, this has brought some consequences. I almost feel compelled to chat to many people in the hope someone will just surprise me and I will have a big grin on my face for the day. Indeed, I have been surprised by many, scared by others, charmed, annoyed and I have been going on an interesting roller coaster these days.
I have been also getting messages from different people which exactly the same effect as the chats.
Therefore, what is this blog about? I have been fretting about how powerful you think is that first chat you have with a person? What are the variables that you consider to keep the chat going for a long time? Can you think of something that they write that immediately makes u want to suddenly have no Internet? LOL
OK maybe u r not a chat person, but you check you messages. What are the messages that grab your attention? Which ones would you reply?
This is me. I enjoy chats when men are just themselves. There is also something extremely powerful and compelling about someone just trying to get to know you more than just your favourite sex position (probably just me?)
In relation to messages, well I am copying and pasting the messages that have just made me laugh or get confused. You can be the judge and feel free to share your favs. 
1. hi, maybe you need something new to excite you somehow,I would like to give your some spices if you are intent to, why not drop me a line.
2. its interesting your profile!
It touches deep in my heart!!!
Let us be good friends...
Take care.
3. hi, I like feet. Would you like to be my feet muse? xxx 
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10:08 am Sunday, 31st May, 2015
I suppose some blokes consider themselves skilled communicators because they can chat endlessly, but if you ask me, the ability to chat is only one part of the process and I don't think it's the most important part. I think the best communication happens when there's an equal exchange between two people with no one person hogging the conversation or message exchange.
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10:12 am Sunday, 31st May, 2015
Hope to meet you when you come to the UK hun shame to hear about ur ankle :) img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" |
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12:38 pm Sunday, 31st May, 2015
Why should time be spent responding to one-liners or even one-worders? I felt bad ignoring them at first, but now they just go straight into delete.
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1:25 pm Sunday, 31st May, 2015
Corn: I just got a message from someone saying " .....maybe we can meet and you can take pleasure in my feet and maybe more....." I think someone thought that now I am into feet img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif"
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1:41 pm Sunday, 31st May, 2015
It was the 'sporty' bit that worried me, Sassy. Tennis, rugby or basket balls?
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3:40 pm Sunday, 31st May, 2015
Psavour: Honestly, I know now that because of you all I am going to get many lovely messages or massages? today hhahahaha....Glad to know you are doing well! :) |
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6:09 pm Sunday, 31st May, 2015
Not sure if marbles constitutes a sport.
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6:35 pm Sunday, 31st May, 2015
Hell, what would I know about sport?
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8:12 am Monday, 1st June, 2015
You mean my favourite position to play with the marbles? img src="imagesadultemoticons024.gif" ....I definitely I am not against heated correspondence but it should not be something people should expect on the first line, right? img src="imagesadultemoticons022.gif" |
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8:20 am Monday, 1st June, 2015
Mac: There is a game in my country with marbles (canicas). The winner takes them all at the end. I used to be really good and had so many I could barely fit them in my hands. Do you think I was greedy? img src="imagesadultemoticons022.gif" |
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10:00 am Monday, 1st June, 2015
Mac: i wud not know. Never had a.handful of melons lol
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12:52 pm Monday, 1st June, 2015
Don't know about marbles but they do say a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. Not sure that's correct....... Or even the right blog? |
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1:05 pm Monday, 1st June, 2015
Yes, defo the right blog Joe. Marbles, Melons and now birds....Therefore, all have a ring to it and appropriate to the blog :Pimg src="imagesadultemoticons027.gif" |
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4:02 pm Monday, 1st June, 2015
I have my raisons to contribute.
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4:25 pm Monday, 1st June, 2015
Wow LeOdom, what can I say except that was genius! I am changing my profile as we speak. I hope you don't mind I take your idea!! Great profile btw!! :) |
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5:04 pm Monday, 1st June, 2015
If your near south coast will make time for a drink.
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2:57 am Tuesday, 2nd June, 2015
My pleasure FreeFor, feel free.
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4:27 am Tuesday, 2nd June, 2015
And today I got this message: "This is going to sound a little odd so I apologise in advance but I believe in female superiority over men, would you be at all interested in having a personal slave boy?"
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5:34 am Tuesday, 2nd June, 2015
I can quite see how some inane, opening, one-liners can be irritating and off-putting. Unfortunately, some do not have the power of the written word or the perception to see what might stimulate some interest from a lady.
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11:41 am Tuesday, 2nd June, 2015
Fetch, u r by far one of the most versed, articulate people I have ever known and I learned so many words with you...(ok now I am being a geek lol)....
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2:23 am Monday, 15th June, 2015
Gosh: Today this message made me laugh so I thought I would put it here as I know many ladies could be interested ??? hahaha
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6:12 am Monday, 21st September, 2015
AGRRRRR!!! Why oh why?
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6:39 am Monday, 21st September, 2015
So which part of that rather sweet comment didn't you like? ;-) |
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7:08 am Monday, 21st September, 2015
Maybe he should have mentioned feet too? img src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif" (BTW this was a sarcastic comment for those ones who do not get it). I do'nt want to start getting weird messages...lol |
