How would I deal with this kind of sticky situation?

5:10 pm Thursday, 14^th May, 2015

I joined this site because I stumbled upon my partner having a super secret account here. It was sort of painful seeing graphic photos of him being displayed in cyberspace with a "playmate" who happened to eventually fall in love with him.

I've known my guy to be very adventurous and super horny - something I loved and hated about him at the same time. He's the best sex partner I've been with, and lucky enough he also gave his heart to me. So plus points for that. I've been aware of his craziness for the last 7 years and still - for some effin' weird reason, I still can't let go. He still chose to save our relationship and told me that we will work it out. That I shouldn't worry because he's not out to replace me or give up what we have.

So is it really possible for him to eventually give up his need to fulfill his "other side"?

I need sensible answers from sensible people please. Thank you for your time.

Comments

Tteaze	5:46 pm Thursday, 14^th May, 2015 Why would you want him not to fullfill his "other side" ?
JosephBlob	9:22 pm Thursday, 14^th May, 2015 Hope it works out for you BBW, my only advice is that if you feel uncomfortable with his behaviour then you shouldn't be afraid to call it a day. You can't change other people, only your good self.
freeforpleasure	4:06 am Friday, 15^th May, 2015 Dear BBW - For what you are saying, I really doubt he will change his ways. I have come to realize that men also test boundaries in a relationship. If you are still with him even though you know the way he is, I think in his mind he knows he can get away with it and no matter what he does, you will stay with him. Therefore, you have 3 options: 1. Pretend and just be blind. Forget and forgive. Meaning don't even think about it. I doubt that this will happen btw. 2. You are ok with it and as Darkangel suggested explore the different options that an open relationship offers. Hopefully, if you go for this option, you will also consider what you want not what he wants. 3. You decide to let him go and in the future, you may find an amazing person that will truly value you. I hope at the end of the day, you know you are the most important person. Good luck!!!
luvepussyuk	9:07 am Friday, 15^th May, 2015 simple answer is NO HE CANT
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msnaughty69	7:18 am Friday, 22^nd May, 2015 I think if you can both be honest with what your doing and still come home together then it shows strength in your relationship. It sounds like you have a bit to work out but with believe in yourself you will get there. Good luck x
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hornyfastgixer	12:52 am Saturday, 23^rd May, 2015 Betrayal is betrayal, I am single, have never cheated in the past, and never would. Get out now sweetheart, things, unfortunately, will never change, good luck in your future.
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