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Does the race matters

5:21 am Tuesday, 21st April, 2015

Hi everyone, hope you guys are enjoying your swing life, my reason for writing this blog is to share ideas and also seek other people's opinion on the race preference, does the race really matters?
I have been swinging for some years now, and I have meet with nice couples and single ladies, both here in Malaysia and outside Malaysia. Also have experience the bad ones as well, I notice the Asians always request for the Caucasian, is there anything special about it? Also am sure there are other race that are reliable and trustworthy, I believe a book is NOT judge by its cover. Although I respect their preference, so don't feel offended please.
Well, doesn't mean all Caucasian are like that as well, what matters is the chemistry.
No offensive comment please, let's just share our opinion. Thanks



Comments
7:52 am Tuesday, 21st April, 2015

Hi mate, just reading through your blog finding myself feeling some weird conspiracy towards your ethnicity by women's preference are Caucasian only. Part of the puzzle I might be able to add is I have 3 female escort friends who sadly have been held down and fucked systematically which wasn't to her taste and my other two buddy's there scared of a black guys temper from previous experience but hey the women generally love you guys and the porn industry favours the black dude because your more well defined physically and myth goes blackAfrican guys are better lovers so I guess preference to the mind more then to the colour of a mans skin. Hope I explained myself sincerely and have t offended anyone. Take care guys

7:57 am Tuesday, 21st April, 2015

Make love not war, if there is any racist naive idiots on here, go educate yourselves and see When a any human cuts there self they bleed the same as any other.

5:47 am Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

Of course ethnic background does not matter.For "race " substitute the word " chemistry " and there you have it, the only constituent needed for a good relationship.
By the way, I am an extra-terrestrial form the planet Zob and I do OK with Earth women !!img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

3:16 pm Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

Darth Vader dark and mysterious enough for you MacB? Think he would scare the life out of any fair maiden rather than snare and temp her into submitting to his Dark Forceimg src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

3:18 pm Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

*tempt

5:25 pm Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

Well, I do live in an Asian country and I do know that they do prefer caucasian men. I think this is just due to the fact that they r consider more attractive and they are also thought to be more educated and richer....but I think it cud be changing as more foreigners come to China.

In case of women I think they need to be very slim, very pale, big eyes and I better dont go on because that means I am very ugly. hahaha....And I sometimes do wonder if they see me as an alien from another planet...lol

At the end of the day, if someone prefers another person based on just the way I look or my race. Then, honestly I am not interested at all to have any dealing with that person....As Mac said personality over looks always...

6:40 pm Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

As long as Darth's sister doesn't look like Chewbacca then you could be onto something Mac

8:13 pm Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

MacB do you mean BB rather than SS? Sadly i don't know if Darth had a sister, brother or daughter nor a son Hell does he even have a mother lolimg src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

8:14 pm Wednesday, 22nd April, 2015

What a fluke we must have spotted Macb's mistake at the same time SS lol

8:28 am Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

If you're feeling hard done by, you should get yourself over to the UK :-) There seems to be no shortage of women who are clamouring for the company of black gents, and in fact in their profiles some of them actually state that they will not go with anyone else. The specific rationale escapes me, but it seems to be almost gospel here that only black gents can deliver :-)

11:18 am Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

Strange how my previous post got nuked, whereas the current one - which echoes popular folklore - has been retained. It seems it's almost tantamount to blasphemy to question sexual dogma :-) Still, it's been a useful and informative experiment :-)

1:04 pm Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

Mac: Not really :-) You could throw it open to the floor, though :-)

9:54 pm Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

och get the razors out MacB and be done with it, it's the summer after all so get out and let the sun reach the parts ,that is hasn's seen in a while.lol

9:55 pm Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

*hasn't seen in a while

10:05 pm Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

"Does the race matter"
Only if you don't cross the finishing line lol

11:41 pm Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

cliff here hi well AuthorWolx black lad well mate i,m white but ye, no that dosent matter whatter,s is what,s in your hart and mabe what,s in ye, mind skin is othing i,d be ye mate ok any others too, i live in everton,liverpool ok take care ok oh and sex is sex

11:47 pm Thursday, 23rd April, 2015

cliff here sorry mistake it,s Wolex ok sorry oh we are what we are up to all to be apart of each other dosent that make sence,

12:27 am Friday, 24th April, 2015

Lol.. i dont really think race matters as some people say its ur heart n personality.. but i do agree that MOST asians would go for caucasian rather than black...and SKebbie u right about uk females and black men..thats very true. My gf is white asides from loving me for who i am..i think she is more attracted to blacks as she has never dated any other color... in conclusion we are all the same irrespective of race color or ethnicity.

6:07 am Friday, 24th April, 2015

I totally agree that one shouldn't read a book by its cover, and in fact it has often astounded people that someone like ol' Dixon should have teamed up with such a weedy and Gollum-like side-kick :-) The sheer variety of humankind is one of the things that makes life so interesting, and it would be dull indeed if everyone of a specific ethnic group had totally uniform anatomical features, attributes and talents. Yet it appears that at least *some* people on sites like this appear to believe this is the case :-)

On balance I would say that - in the world of 'swinging' - the existing evidence would suggest that black gents don't do too badly for themselves, given the existing dogma. If any 'discrimination' exists, it appears to be positive rather than negative, and the same can be said for Japan, where I live most of the time. So perhaps, wolex77, it's just a question of location, location, location :-) ??

4:09 pm Sunday, 26th April, 2015

Here is my thought. Asian people do not like the sun because it makes them darker. You will almost always see them dressed fully while in the sun. They connect being dark to poor, rice field workers. My wife is Thai and I am a beach bum, so she spends much time in the sun with me. Her sister gets angry at her for being so dark. Notice the ad's on TV. The Thai people are all white, not a true representation of the people of Thailand. They sell whiteness in the body lotions and face creams. Much like years ago in America they sold tan as healthy. "Tan don't burn get a coppertone tan" remember that? So I do not think it is a racial thing, I think it has to do with the perception that dark skin represents poor working people. Mark

5:32 pm Sunday, 26th April, 2015

I swing on occasion and being Caucasian i don't judge based on race mainly I judge by physical attraction. I know some will say but what if you find black people less attractive and I don't find that a fair. Most swings I don't know the people for extended periods of time so usually it's based on first impressions. How they dress, how they talk as well as there physical features (skin color may be a factor here but it's more like she may have a beautiful light chocolate skin color that works well with her features) etc all play a factor in the selection process. I, however, can't speak for other countries where there are other cultures with underlying prejudices...Hope this helps :)

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