To wear or not to wear?!

Blimey, this discussion has been done to death over the years and the sensible people on here have given their " raison d'etre" for using condoms. Can there be any dissention ? I think not !
I am now looking to see if codasil can be arranged so that the safety of using a condom can be enshrined in Magna Carta .img src="imagesadultemoticons016.gif"

But preferably not magna carta era condoms, if they even had knotted sheep's intestines for your old chap back then

I'm with Fetch on this. Mostly.. but...

Would you, anyone I mean, ever consider agreeing to be exclusive to one lover... and both deciding to be tested.. and then not using condoms for the 'life' of the arrangement?

Twice in my life I've done this. They were both old friends, very special women to me, as I was to them.. Short story, after lots of talking about it, is that we had a relatively carefree lovelife for quite a long time.

One lover put an end to one arrangement.. and I stopped the other one, so fifty fifty I guess.

I'd never do this on a site like this of course, but the two concerned were both, like me, out of very long term relationships and we did all test.

I'm not advocating this, but have been involved twice now and it seemed to work. When it came time to end things, we all took it well and there were no bad feelings. Trust is all.
But it can be do-able.

Oops.

No, I wasn't a special woman... to anyone ;-)

Ronald, you made me laugh so hard!!! lol....I agree with defo condom when you do not know the person's sex background in details and when in doubt. Defo yes, when u don't want to have unwanted pregnancies.

No, if you r in a long term relationship and you both know u r clean for sure. img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif"

Restraint. Maybe God did say all those things but as you probably know,he got a bit hacked off by the behavior of the people he created and sent hem plagues to teach them a lesson.Do you not think that if he was very cross ,he may have sent a plague of STD's hidden among all those frogs,locusts etc ?
Perhaps he said to himself " Let's see what the Human race make of that ! " but was ultimately gratified to see that the ingenuity he had imbued them with,enabled them to produce rubber receptacles in a range of sizes and appealing colours !

I've never known anyone to say they prefer sex with a condom. However, while I agree a condom does kill the moment, that's better than killing me - simplistic, but that's my approach.

As recently recommended on another blog: save money and unnecessary fuss fiddling around with condoms - Simply tie a ligature around the end of your foreskin, thus converting it to a "natural condom" !!! Makes the end of your dick look a bit like a haggis, but hey - no-one will see it when it's slipped inside.

Note: This technique is not suitable for those unfortunate gents who have been circumcised.

Was barely 16 my first time,,was my brothers mate who was 21,he didnt have any johnnies as was then,but he said nto to worry as he would pull out before he came,,,,,,,he lied,,,lol,,sonce taht time have hardly used condoms at all,in the years until my 40s had many preggt risk scares which all added to excitment along the way not to mention my 3rd baby which wasnt hubbies,,,but she was well worth it

The best method i think is ejaculation out, may prevent pregnency.

If someone asked me how I felt about Durex, my natural response would be something like "Well I suppose it's a fairly reliable brand. More durable than most Japanese brands, but perhaps a bit tough on sensation, while being a tad tight and not as stretchy and flexible as Trojans."
Would that be OK?

Re Fetch's comment on the 19th. You forgot varied flavours too.Man is quite inventive nowdays.