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Pleasure from the Mastery of Cunnilingus

12:38 am Friday, 9th January, 2015

During my research I discovered that the question many guys ask is, "Why does it have to be so fucking hard to make a woman cum?" Too often that question is followed by, "Okay, I get it – licking her pussy will get her off, so I’ll hold my nose and do it." Unfortunately, that in turn almost always leads to "Well, that didn’t fucking work, so I just fucked her – she loves my dick, sucking it and feeling it fill her little twat." It’s inevitable that the conversation would ultimately conclude with, "Yeah, really, I left her. I got tired of her – she doesn’t know what she’s doing in bed and just lays there." Guys, it doesn’t have to be like that. The Winning Attitude means that you’re playing a team sport – well, a two-person team, sometimes three-person-or-more team, but a team nonetheless. You need to do what you can to help your partner succeed. If she orgasms, I guarantee you that she’ll do everything that she can to make you orgasm. On the other hand, if you’re just in it for your own immediate gratification, she’ll quickly come to the conclusion that she’s not getting much out of the relationship – whether it’s a one-time thing, or a lifelong commitment. We’re not necessarily talking about love, we’re talking about you becoming her sex god, the one that she worships and adores! In order to succeed you have to start with understanding the female orgasm.



Comments
eroticgoddess eroticgoddess
10:51 am Saturday, 10th January, 2015

Skebbie...I've also found that many men are lacking, telepathically, too. Maybe it's confidence earned by my age, but I've come the the point where I've become very open about what works for me and what doesn't. The hard part is those men who make it so DARN difficult to talk about it all, or worse yet, just don't listen.

I've also found that getting a man to openly say what he really likes is practically impossible. Most tend to just say....whatever. I like to know I'm doing what works in the process, not just as an end result.

Skebbie Skebbie
12:49 pm Saturday, 10th January, 2015

EG: Did someone call? :-) I almost bypassed this part of the tome, but lucky I dropped in. I take it you are referring to my earlier post in part I of the "Licker's Lexicon" ??

I think many men tend to hedge their bets in terms of stated preference, the strategy being to maximize their chances of getting at least *some* kind of pleasure by ostensibly not ruling *anything* out :-) As the poor things are at the bottom of the site desirability pecking order, they need to maintain this facade of "all-singing, all-dancing versatility". So perhaps if they were to say "I really enjoy delicate tongue-work around my frenular delta", they might worry that this would compromise their image as a potential pile-driving stud :-)

eroticgoddess eroticgoddess
1:03 pm Saturday, 10th January, 2015

OMG, it was WILF who mentioned telepathy....not Skebbie. How did I go so wrong? It was still early morning, that's my excuse and I'm sticking with it.

I'm telepathically inept.

Skebbie Skebbie
1:41 pm Saturday, 10th January, 2015

EG: Freudian slip, perhaps? Maybe you've given away too much already (lol).

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