Here's a thought or is it a question.....maybe both

To be honest I think men sometimes tend to just look at the pictures and then send a message without reading whats on the profiles, maybe they just see what they want to see, now don't get me wrong I shouldn't think its all men just those that can't be bothered with what you've actually written or what your status is.

Well I really should not be surprised by that, after all they are very visual creatures.....generally

Agreed lol my other half looks at the pictures but to be fair if he sees someone he likes the look of and he thinks I will he will then message them, but never if the profile isnt what we are looking for ie: the woman isnt Bi. Mind you I find that people don't message back, not even to say sorry your not m type or Im not interested : (

Yes loverstogetheruk, we look at the site together and alone but we both know our tastes and boundaries and there is no excuse for being rude. Sorry you are not right for us is honest and not difficult to type.

Ewahoowah. I must say we have been very lucky and we have meet 2 incredibly brave ladies, one we hired a cottage and they other half was a little apprehensive (have no idea what he thought we were going to do to him that he might not have liked). Pitch black when we arrived the lady turned up a couple of hours later. Giving him time to do his stuff in the kitchen. Wonderful night my first time with a lady his first time with two. Next time lady came to our house, she has visited a couple of time now, very enjoyable.

Miss goodnight, nothing wrong with being nosy, just call me Pinnocchio.....
I share that love of arty pictures..... So sexy.
There is a saying where I come from "you first eat with your eyes"

Two4fem, very responsible members. They do exist........

We have been lucky and met a very lovely lady, it was our first time with another present, we had an awesome time.
Sweetwhisper you are right there are responsible and honest people out there, its just a case of trying to find them. We had someone contact us but unfortunately she wasn't our type, so we spoke with her and explained and thanked her for contacting us and that we hoped she would find what she was looking for very soon, she then replied back and was extremely gtrateful that we took the time to answer back as she ponted out no one every answered her back.
As we all know politeness doesnt cost anything and I believe if someone takes the time to write to you, then they deserve a respnose one way or the other

Well said loverstogether, we can just keep trying to find and separate the goodies from the nasties.