older women and younger guys

And some of us older guys have an extremely strong sexual attraction to older and mature women as we value the experience, sensuality and subtlety that such wonderful ladies bring to the relationship.

I have to agree. I like a man that knows how to please.♡

I definitely agree 777times that is far nicer :)

After an epic fall recently with a young lover I would say I prefer an older guy now.. Ten min fix compared to a few hours of hot lust.. Confidence I guess?? And the body thing too.. Boys seem to b too skinny these days.. Sorry..

There's time's, I enjoy aggressive Hot sex and Stamina. Can young guys do that?img src="imagesadultemoticons029.gif"

The reason i wont go near a young man is because the majority seem to treat older women as a fetish. Something they want to try.

I'd like to be desired for being myself and not because of my age.

Speaking for myself...I have chatted with many many younger men and for the most part we are just looking for different things. That being said, I have met a few younger men and overall the experience has been mixed. Some great, some losers...same as with any age group, really.

I am not one to put an age limit on it all.

I think a lot of older women think younger man is immature but that's where you need to prove them wrong xx

Maybe your right (youngride11). I've always turned down younger men. Maybe I'll keep an open mind, next time♡

I won't say no to being proven wrong here..I agree that maybe u guys r keepin trim bt just like some guys don't like size 6 girls .. I like a bit of bulk bt I do appreciate a good toned body .. Young or older .. So I didn't mean to offend .. Like I said maybe u would like to try n prove me wrong x img src="imagesadultemoticons016.gif"

I used to fancy older women, now they're younger than me. ..how does that work??

Personally, I don't think age is important in itself. I'm someone who likes an evening of 'swinging' to be a mixture of social and sexual, i'm not interested in the sex on its own. Therefore it only works out if we have things in common, similar life experience and points of reference. While that's not impossible with a large age difference, it's less likely - if I have very little in common with someone then it's that factor that makes things difficult, not the age difference itself, though that difference may well be the root cause. As hotlips86 says, I get the impression that many of the young guys who like older women to treat it like a bit of a fetish, which isn't flattering at all.

Mind you, being with someone like snowcougar would be like being in Paradise, whatever the age. xxx

Simple really clim4, as a young man I adored older women because of their wonderful skill and experience of making love so beautifully, and allowing the young lover to relish the perfection of making love. As an older lover, I still wish to always have the pleasure of being with such fabulous ladies. xxxxximg src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif"

I suspect you don't like men too much?

"Many older women (over 40)"

Are you having a larrrf? Reaches for pension book, support tights and zimmer ...

Oh, I forgot to mention that I draw the line at anyone who is young enough for me to have given birth to. Call me fussy ...

But a wee slip of a girl of 40 is older (than me)...

I am 45 and I am one of those older women that prefers older men. Not that age matters but I've chat with younger men and the ones that I chat with were immature and indecisive and they turned me off. Men in their 40s and 50s know what they want and are not afraid to ask for what they want. Hope this helps to answer your question.

Zook "A wee slip of a girl ..."
I'm still young at heart though (most days).


For me, it's not a question of maturity, conversation skills etc. I know lots of young guys who are very mature, sensitive and able to hold a conversation without texting mommy to check what's for dinner. They can even do their own laundry and tie their own laces; imagine that!
I just could never imagine getting down and dirty with someone who is old enough to be my son.

Prize to DukeBoi for having the cutest profile pic ;-)

luv2....."anyone you have given birth to" ....that would be approx 12 years younger?????? (let's go with 14 to be safe?)

Damn, and I'd have missed out on a few.

My oldest is 19....I DO have an issue with meeting teens......pretty darn certain I'd never do that.

I have to admit to some concern at those who say they wouldn't have sex with "anyone I could have given birth to".
Having given birth to a grand total of zero people I admit I'm not representative. But had I done so I like to think I would have kept track of them all, and wouldn't wonder, if I met a young man, if perhaps he was one of mine :-)

Haha EG, my eldest is three (almost 4) years older than that.

It sounds like there are a lot of generalisations in play in this thread. Young guys are always immature, older women take NSA fun far too seriously, and so on. As with most generalisations they lead us into characterising people's behaviour before they have a chance to prove otherwise.

I desisted from commenting so far on the grounds that I am neither a young man nor a mature woman :-) However, if I can extrapolate my experiences to this thread topic, then I can say that - on the whole - I have a better mental connection with women who are roughly the same age or up to 15 years or so younger, and that this makes it easier to empathize and enjoy more relaxed, sensual sex. The physical merits of youth are indisputable, but it's only rarely that I've found much younger women (i.e. those in 20s) to be on my mental wavelength. But rare examples do exist, and when you find them, it's very special.

Never a truer word xxx

Is this still about sex, or mortal combat??

You ain't seen me...roit??

A most entertaining, revealing and excellent post - I think I know where I am now - or perhaps not. xxx

Well reminded, I need to contemplate the greasing of trunnions...

I feel old, can I have black with one please?

Me...learn? pha! I need to keep an eye on the young whippersnappers though, see what they're upto...

I agree with you all! xxx

Ooooh gosh: a personal question :-)

Maybe I should put one thing straight: my "popularity" (such as it is) has been largely confined to Japan, where I live most of the time. UK women generally give me a wide berth because most are really looking for a solid andor regular connection, despite claiming to want one-offs or NSA. Probably my sparkling personality has a lot to do with it too (haha.......).

Anyway, since you ask, the age range of my female partners has been 26-51. Admittedly the top and bottom ones were "statistical outliers" (qv) :-) Met the 51-yr-old when I was about 43, but she was in great shape (as many Japanese ladies in middle life are).

Depends how you would define "older". Naturally I'm willing to consider any age, but the bottom line is how well preserved people are, and as far as the UK is concerned I think a woman aged 60-plus would have to be in exceptionally good nick for me to consider her.

I know all this sounds hypocritical in the extreme, as I am no spring chicken myself. However, I fully accept that I am beyond the desirability age range of many younger women whom I'd find attractive, so the same standard applies to my own tastes.

Sadly, then I was a "young man", I was never led astray by a MILF or cougar, and I always think that is something that was missing from sexual CV. I suppose the only way I'd be able to simulate that experience now would be to raid an old folks' home :-)

clim4x: I've done that already and its shelf-life expired :-) Maybe once I can admit to myself that I'm totally hideous and can no longer get it up, I'll settle down with an understanding nurse :-)

I think you right

I think you right

About the same as I have of an older man with a woman half his age...don't worry me! (Not that I'm after a woman half my age it must be said. ..)