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Nude or not nude your profile pic choice

7:18 pm Thursday, 31st July, 2014

well been a few days since my last blog, and though i have a few mins just to jot a few lines. tonight's blog is about attracting attention on a profile and a dilema us guys have.

Now i would like to think i have a gentlemanly disposition so when doing my profile i choose not to put nude or semi nude pics up but pics that portray me in a normal light. I do this because i read so many female profiles and they say no cock shots, nudes etc however on the other hand i have read just as many who ask for the opposite.

So the dilemma is where does a guy strike a balance, for me personally i don't like nude pics i like the mystery as i have alluded to in a previous blog , but it would be nice to open a discussion to gage the feeling on nude or not.



Comments
7:55 pm Thursday, 31st July, 2014

D44, do what's feels right and comfortable for you bud! I played the fully clothed picture game when I first joined, not wishing to offend or upset, but then I thought, 'ah what the hell', it's an adult site I'm a grown up, it is what it is! I think personally that as long as your not stuffing objects up your backside, or waving a fully erect cock close up to the camera, with your undies round your ankles no one is really going to object, and if they do, well, perhaps they're not right for you! Have some fun, you only come this way once! img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

9:45 pm Thursday, 31st July, 2014

The way I look at it is that this is an adult site with people looking for sex so they should not be offended by photos of cocks, breasts or open leg shots but that's only my opinion

11:41 pm Thursday, 31st July, 2014

I prefer not to put nude pictures of myself up. I don't like looking at nude pictures unless they are done artfully and most are not. I wouldn't not talk to someone if they were naked, but I do like to see someone's face so I know who I'm talking to. Do what you feel is most comfortable for you. The women have plenty of naked men they can look at if they so wish...doesn't have to be you.

12:44 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

Well....those familiar with my profile will be under no illusions as to my preferred approach :-) so I feel folks ought not to be offended by nudity here. Having said that, I've always tried hard to take well composed andor intriguing photos, as I think it's possible to present explicit images in an erotic rather than tackyrevolting way if one puts enough thought and effort into it.

Another reason I've opted for nudityexplicitness is "my age" :-) For young guys it can be taken as given that most are in reasonable nick. However for a bloke in mid life such as myself, I think it doesn't do an harm to present some evidence that I haven't totally degenerated, and that I do what it says on the tin (to borrow a much hackneyed phrase). Of course there will always be women who are looking for romance and mystery - even here :-) And jolly good luck to them. However, I am not making any bones about what I'm looking for and what I've been up to, so if that doesn't suit a proportion of women here, then tough. At least I'm being honest from the outset.

12:50 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

I like something left to the imaginationimg src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

2:23 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

Can I assume you are indeed soliciting, Lilith :-) ??
Do you mean to say that all this time, you have been bashfully averting your gaze from my profile media?? :-)

I would never send unsolicited pics of Dixon (or any sexual activity) to a female total stranger, but I'd be quite happy to send such pics to any totally strange female :-)

The bottom line is that I have more than enough erotic profile pics to satisfy most tastes, which obviates the need to actively spam people via the mail network. Those who are so inclined will gaze, and those who are not will not :-) However, if someone contacts me and asks for some, naturally I'll oblige, but only up to a point: a certain spirit of quid pro quo is required, so I soon pull the plug if all I get in return is two lines of mail gibberish and a blurred pic of a roundish pink object that may or may not be a buttock, or on the other hand might be an azalea in a dark room.

6:38 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

'May or may not be a buttock, or on the other hand might be an azalea in a dark room'.

Genuine belly chortle from that one Skebbie. Thanks for that!

7:41 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

Well thankyou all for your comments and my mind is not nearer the Balance in fact im as clear as mud lol, so i need a half nude pic, slightly arty, and including a cock make over shot with a bunch of flowers up my arse PMSL GOT IT!!img src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif"

7:56 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

The pic of a Coke can up the arse was interesting, but not half as artistic as the guy sitting on his wooden bed post.

Not recommended!

8:39 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

Luv2: I had to issue a MYS-like chortle in response to that one. Are you on the level? :-)

8:46 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

PS: To lady members such as yourself, I imagine it must be extremely educational to see with your own eyes the lengths to which desperately deprived men will go in order to obtain some degree of sexual fulfillment :-)

10:12 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

PPS: I have to admit I'm slightly intrigued as to the motivation of any male who would send a woman a photo of his anus filled with a courgette (or whatever). If he were to send such images to a bloke, I could understand that perhaps he is a submissive gay. On the other hand, perhaps he has a minority fetish whereby he can only get off if women compliment him on the fine shape of his haemorrhoids. It's a funny old world, and no mistake...........

10:13 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

Unfortunately I speak the truth although, to be fair, the wooden bed post was a video clip on 'top videos'. It was discussed in a blog sometime last year.

It was one of those round 'ball-like' bed posts ... bizarre. Advert for that well-known furniture store with the blue and yellow sign perhaps?

10:20 am Friday, 1st August, 2014

Curvy: Your photos are *ace*, BTW......
(Note attempt to blend in with current parlance. I suppose I could have used "awesome" but perhaps that wouldn't have done sufficient justice :-)

1:48 pm Friday, 1st August, 2014

Again....unsure whether to "like" or sympathize...........

9:54 am Saturday, 2nd August, 2014

For me, along as it is within the law, and is with consent and informed consent (ie not under age, and not someone who is able to make reasoned choices for themselves) and very supportive of people expressing themselves sexually in what ever manner they wish.

There's plenty of stuff that is beyond my limits and not of my taste. I've no understanding of how some guys get something out of dressing in women's clothing, or are attracted to others doing so, or see it is sexual or attractive. So I just quickly pass by those pics - its easy.

And I'm sure some people don't appreciate my fetish for leather. I'm really not offended by people skipping my pics or having the opinion that it's weird. That's fine.

And the moderating is pretty good here, if you feel some behaviour is a bit too pushy, the moderators are supportive.

12:43 pm Saturday, 2nd August, 2014

The other issue of the difficulty of accepting nudity on this site, is that it is a bit like going to an orgy and complaining about the smell of cum. A great opportunity for people to express judgements about others, but a bit unfair as it is difficult to have a great orgy without a bit of bodily fluid here and there.

Nudity in varying degrees is really part and parcel of this hub.

9:42 pm Saturday, 2nd August, 2014

MissGoodnight ..... yeah, for me it mean low slung, arse showing jeans wearer. Particularly those cocky 20 year old guys, you know the type. But haven't seen so much this summer. Must be looking a bit dated now.

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