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I'm totally getting it wrong and ask myself, "is there an art"

10:49 am Wednesday, 23rd April, 2014

Well for many years I have had thoughts and dreams of a sexual nature but have never really perused it. Did all the usual, marry, kids, divorce, career but now it is my turn. So I decided to join here recently and see what was going on. First impression was wow, sooo many people on here in the same boat looking for fun and adventure. But as the days pass I realise just how hard it can be to get involved and network. Either that or I'm just impatient or doing something wrong. Any advice from the more experienced of members would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks for reading. D



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4:46 pm Wednesday, 23rd April, 2014

Just don't do what an unwitting newbie did to me last night.....ask to meet and fuck within the first two sentences, then say, "but I thought that's what everyone was here for."

One VERY LONG RANT later he had learned that while some here like quick meets and all with anyone who suggested it, NOT ALL DO.

My only advice here is that while we are all different, talking to each unknown person as you would speak to them in a public place (think chatting up a woman in a pub before you're too drunk to make a total idiot of yourself) will win you far more than the alternative. Yep, it takes some time, but no matter what you're looking for, stepping on fewer toes in the process will only win you a better rep with those who matter.

4:54 pm Wednesday, 23rd April, 2014

Many thanks for your responses guys. I can see why nebies think that its a quick wham bam, life is so fast and been made faster by the web but yes, I see behind each letter on the screen there is a human being typing, some stranger than others but I respect peoples privacy or wishes whoever you are. I'll take the advice on board.

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