I am a well experienced mature Caucasian guy who is into 3some fun with Asian Couples in reality it’s not hard to be a great playmate however single men do need some help navigating the basics of being a single male in the swing lifestyle.
These are my well proven tips to assist you succeed in this amazing lifestyle, before you even create your online profile do some research as It’s important to gain an understanding of why couples want to explore the swing lifestyle and how you, as a single guy, fit into that picture.
If you want to stand out then you need to put time into creating a profile which will appeal to the couples you want to attract. An engaging profile is about creating an emotional connection based around what the couples are looking for, as it about them not you, this really works for me.
Once you’ve made a connection with a couple online it’s only the beginning how do you progress this to a meet them, whether you’re online or you are meeting for the first time, talk to BOTH of them, not just the wife. They BOTH have to like you. feel you are respectful and be some chemistry there to feel you are someone they could potentially get naked with. Build an understanding of their relationship dynamic and start to build a connection like you would with anyone you want to be friends with.
On your first Face to Face meeting dress smart casual, freshly showered, well groomed, in reality all the basics you would expect if you were meeting someone for a date with the potential of having sex.After initial conversation with them and you feel things are going well, and you feel the couple want to progress to have sex with you, discuss their boundaries and rules for play and take onboard it’s up to you to play within those boundaries and obtain full consent. Don’t try to shift their boundaries or be disrespectful about their rules – it’s their rules after all. I also invariably have a SAFE WORD which means NO this must be adhered to.
Personally, I use a normal massage as an ICEBREAKER then on reading the wife’s body language know whether to proceed to a sensual one which invariably leads to a fun night for all three. Finally, some couples will take several meetings before full sex, so don’t be frustrated if the night of sex pleasures you imagined turned out to be a social night where you chatted to the couple and never be pushy or aggressive, just relax and play it cool
Genuine and Experienced Professional Scottish Guy looking for threesome fun in Negombo
