Being married is supposed to be full of love and intimacy. While intimacy is not all about sex, you would hope if you were intimate mentally, that sex would follow. When this need is ignored, and you are told that your mate now believes that what was once done is now wrong, what are you to do? You stay faithful year after year, and you have been pushed away; what are you to do? When you cry out for help and are told you are wrong to request those once-done acts from her, what are you to do? When your friends say you are crazy for staying with her because you're in love, what are you to do? When your heart is still hers even though you don’t think you have hers, what are you to do? When you keep trying and are denied sex 19 out of 20, what are you to do? Your sex tank is dry and you need to fill it up, what are you to do? Even after talking about the need and letting her know that you will seek an affair, what are you to do? When she states she thought you should have already been looking, what are you to do? When your heart breaks at her statement, what are you to do? When you finally start looking and you have a hard time finding the words to start your first profile, what are you to do? When you finally meet the first mistress and you only think of her, what are you to do? When you first get sucked off for the first time in 12 years and you wish it was her, what are you to do? I don’t think the women on here have this problem, but if you love your husband, please don’t ignore his needs. Husbands, you should never ignore her emotional or sexual needs too!
