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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 43 | |
| Location | South Africa, Gauteng, Capital Park | |
| ๐ Sexuality | Straight | |
| ๐ Ethnicity | Black / African | |
| ๐ฌ Smoke | No | |
| ๐ท Drink | Socially | |
| ๐ก๏ธ Safe Sex | Always | |
| ๐ Height | 5ft 7in (170 cm) | |
| โ Body Type | Average | |
| ๐ฆต Body hair | Natural | |
| ๐ Piercings | Never! | |
Trevor
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1:51 pm Thursday, 6th July, 2017
Confessions: The thrill of the chase (..and the flop with the find) I have seen a number of diary entries from the ladies that guys tend to disappear (and disappoint) at the last minute. I can understand the frustration with guys seem to lose their passion when they have finally started meeting/seeing/fucking/dating you. Like maybe everything is hot up and steamy until your first encounter, after which they might just disappear, or become less available and accessible to you. Confession... I have also been guilty of disappearing after a sexual encounter or cancelling a scheduled appointment, and it's not because of "fear"... but sometimes, we get enough validation from just the fact that you think we "worth" meeting.. At which point, the thrill of the chase is lost. Maybe just knowing that someone found me interesting enough to want to meet is conquest enough (sounds lame I know). But we are hunters, and we enjoy hunting - the process of hunting itself is fun, even if we don't end up |
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9:52 am Friday, 30th June, 2017
The intimacy of a kiss... So unlike us men, women have two sets of lips... both soft, sensual, and both an object of desire... I know - some of my fellow brethren just prefer to focus on the lower set of lips. I dated a girl once who almost orgasmed solely from deep, passionate kisses - on the facial lips. It just had to part of our foreplay routine. And sensually running my tongue over her lips whilst penetrating her just drove her squirt mad! But that's a story for another day... I love kissing! Kissing arouses several senses: touch, smell, and taste. I love the warmth and the smell of your fresh breath in between kisses. I love the softness of your supple set of lips. I love to taste you and share the deep intimacy of a kiss. I love to feel the touch of your nipples on my chest. I love the vulnerability of a kiss as we let ourselves loose, standing naked before each other, past any inhibitions and any reservations, just us, setting ourselves up for an amazing journey of carnal sati |
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11:13 am Thursday, 19th November, 2015
A tale of 3 diaries... (and psychic men)... it's a minefield!!!! A tale of 3 diaries... (and psychic men)... it's a minefield!!!! It's interesting how diverse the definition of a "woman" is. Not from a guy's perspective... but from a woman's perspective. Every woman, seems to think they are the epitome of being a woman, and they set the standard for what women want... "I'm a woman, I expect this"... only problem is... this 'expectation' is so varied, I can understand why some men get confused over what women are looking for here... DIARY 1 Written Today at 6:10am Why is it that some guys do as if when you agree to fuck they think there are doing us ladies a favor. he asks you to host him then you say you can't host , he goes ahead to and say book a hotel room and let me know so I can come and give you a nice long fuck you have never experienced before, like really? ? Come on guys we both going to benefit from this let's meet halfway. ------ Observation 1: I agree with meeting half w |
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3:10 pm Friday, 20th November, 2015
Be his porn star! Firstly... why do men enjoy porn... I think, after all the masturbation and all that... it boils down to one thing: and it's not about quality or quantity, but about availability. The women simply look like they actually want to have sex. They look hungrier, readier, less inhibited, less of a chase, less work and that is just a hell of a lot easier for us guys! And like water, or like rivers, or like money, once discovered, we follow the path of least resistance. For me, porn was never really about quantity. I enjoy a good flick, but I don't want to spend hours and hours on it. My hardcore porn tolerance is usually just a few minutes. I've always liked softer kinds of porn, with more intimacy and some semblence of relationship. I've always liked how the women really do want to be with their men, and aren't afraid to get what they want... they are not frigid. So... just be an easy lay! Not for every man out there... but for him ( and me of course! :D lol ). Give it to |
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4:36 am Wednesday, 19th November, 2014
Real people, real deal, real feelings, big shoes... And the one that got away... Every once in a while you come across that one person who, in the sea of hopefuls, attractives and potentials, you just click with right from the get go and it's more than just lust at first sight. You get on board this emotional roller coaster: chatting, laughing, teasing, sneaking around. There's these fun and witty conversations, and lots of naughty pics, seduction and all. It's the perfect setup, it's really a reminder of everything that many of the married people here have come to miss in their partners. The lighter side of life. No talking about bills and kids and responsibilities. Just bullshit. So what made her so special? I guess she was super cute... Not just physically, but she tickled my mind too... Attention seeking, joie de vivre, hesitant, nervous, excitable, sweet, always smiling, thoughtful, always going on about her grandson, and she just kept the photos coming. She was real. A real pers |
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10:50 am Friday, 18th July, 2014
Fucking, having sex, or making love... A lady here asked me for my thoughts on fucking vs making love... technically speaking, both of these terms are referring to the same general action: insert penis in vagina and move it all around, in and out, maybe scream, maybe shout, maybe groan, but hopefully (and ultimately) at least one of you comes. Is the difference defined by tenderness and intimacy, roughness and unpredictability, or is it somewhere in between. Also, in the very same session betweek two people, it's very possible for one to be makinng love and the other just fucking. Or as many married couples do ... just have sex - driven by neither lust nor love. At least it's better than not having any sex at all. I sort of think fucking is more driven by lust and is perhaps a lot more selfish in nature. I suspect that this is what many people want when they say NSA. The expectation is that there is not necessarily an emotional connection or responsibility to ensure the other party i |
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9:43 am Monday, 21st July, 2014
When will men understand (***First a thought***) It would really be nice if these diaries allowed for comments and discussion! AND if everybody could just see everybody elses diaries without gender filtering... and comment - discussion forum style. Anyway, I actually don't think that this is about "men" alone. Women also create that impression as well - just read the profiles and you will see. NSA means lets have some fun without creating any obligations beyond the moment - financial, emotional, social, relational, or anything - just lust and satisfaction. Many women's profiles promise the willingnessdesire to have sex without the necessity of a relationship or the responsibilities associated with a romantic relationship (many categorically and emphatically state that they don't want a relationship). We do what we do tonight and dont ever have to see each other again (unless we really liked what we just did and BOTH want some more). But I think it's perhaps necessary to take a step |
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Trevor
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11:54 am Monday, 2nd June, 2014
Joke A cat falls into the water the rooster laughs. Whats the moral of the story??? A wet pussy always makes a happy cock. |
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11:31 am Monday, 9th June, 2014
Cunnilingus vs felatio So I've really been thinking about my willingness to give andor receive head. And I think in all honesty, I really now just prefer to give oral sex... I have made my partners come through oral sex, but never the other way round... I've never really really really felt that it was to die for. There are some wow moments, when she moves her lips somewhere or when she wraps that tongue in a certain way or whatever... but in the end, I could skip that part. Could be about my partners, or could be about me... but I really wonder whether guys out there really feel it. On the other hand, I loooooooove giving oral sex. There is just something about a woman's pussy that us guys generally can't get enough of. I find it delicious; and I enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices, and seeing her so open and exposed drives me wild, and that just revs me up for a great fuck session afterwards too. There is so much more to cunnilingus than felatio, many more positi |
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Trevor
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10:16 pm Tuesday, 10th June, 2014
Not just a dick - phone numbers, flesh and blood... So a couple of ladies have given me their numbers and well, we've had the most boring conversations ever. With some, it's really been fun chatting and getting to know you. This is for those boring conversationalists... I'm just a guy, made of flesh and bones, blood running through my veins... and so when I then make use of the number, either a call or a WhatsApp... I kinda expect a MUTUAL conversation. We're strangers (hopefully), and I know so little about you, you know so little about me... let's lighten up, talk, engage, have fun, establish our expectations of each other, if it's a bad time to chat, say it, we can chat later. It's pointless when someone gives you their number and they just act like they expect you to know what they want (to talk about) or to essentially have a conversation by yourself and all they can do is give short grunts. It's a conversation, it would actually flow naturally, IF we both participate. That sai |
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2:09 pm Monday, 6th January, 2014
Staring at breasts Just wondering do women like it when you stare at their breasts or look down their cleavage? It's obviously a complement... that they look delicious and sexy! AND it has been proven scientifically that staring at a good pair of bosoms everyday for just ten minutes can actually extend your lifetime by almost 5 years! (YES!!! gets our hearts pumping)... I did get caught today on the Gautrain staring at a lovely pair. She looked a bit offended. |
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7:58 pm Tuesday, 27th November, 2012
The Wife vs The Whore Just read a really nice diary post by Nikki (Pretoria)... quite an interesting read... it's basically about the husband that has a 20yo gal that he fucks and a wife who's dying to be fucked and not just made love to... Well for my part... fucking over making love... big difference... fucking is raw, and about lust, and about taking the goods with no emotions or gentleness or tendernesss... just lust, just desire, just sex... not that it's disrespectful.. it's just totally carnal... if we both just want to fuck.. then there is no loss of respect... on the contrary... we grow closer... Making love is more about intimacy, romance, and emotion. It is about tenderness, gentleness, and communicating that you care... there is less emphasis on the lustfulness.... Which do I prefer... well... I think there is time for each of these... there is a time to fuck! and a time to make love! Sometimes, after a long day at work... your juices are flowing, and you just want to re |
