BDSM Newbie wants to explore all sorts of play...

Swinger switchedmode (Male) from UK, West Byfleet

I have been fantasizing for some time about exploring my submissive side, but have only recently dared to try to find someone to help me in this exploration.
I am quite new to BDSM but I have read a lot about the things that interest me, and I am now looking for a Mistress who will teach me how to be a good sub. I am not looking for anything too extreme at first, so you must be able to respect my limits, but if I feel comfortable with you then we can work on pushing my limits.

I am not really interested in discipline, punishment and mental submission as such.. after all, I haven't done anything wrong and my mind is my own. Instead I feel that this is about giving control of my body to someone else that I trust, to explore my physical limits whilst retaining my individuality.

Activities that particularly interest me are anal play, light bondage, enemas and CBT.

Seeking Female


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switchedmode Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 44
Location UK, England: Surrey, West Byfleet
šŸŒˆ Sexuality Straight
šŸŒŽ Ethnicity White / Caucasian
šŸš¬ Smoke No
šŸ· Drink Socially
šŸ’Š Drugs Sometimes
šŸ›”ļø Safe Sex Always
šŸ“ Height 5ft 11in (180 cm)
āŒ› Body Type Slim
šŸ‘± Hair Colour Dark Brown
šŸ¦µ Body hair Trimmed