Some people are subs by choice, others are subs by default. I realized after nearly 40 years that I must be a sub, but not by design. My sex-life was parceled out to me in the most minimal way. My partner made a point of doing the absolute least. It was made clear to me early on that most touching was forbidden. Anything more intimate was not on the table. She was horrified at the thought of me going down on her ever.
I tolerated it.
Eventually it became clear to me that I was submissive by default.
I am looking for a woman who has also subordinated her needs.
I am in search of an equal who has a solid sense of self and doesn’t need anyone’s validation. I am looking for a fellow traveler escaping the sexual desert of their past and is finally seeing the green fields and forests of the possible stretching out before them..
Join me, let’s see what we can make of our remaining years..and let’s make them much better than the time we’ve wasted being proper, polite and passive.
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male |
| Age | 69 |
| Location | USA, North Carolina, Chapel Hill |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian |
| 🏠 Meet At | Your place |
| 📏 Height | 6ft (183 cm) |
| ⌛ Body Type | A few extra pounds |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Gray |