I am in a loveless, sexless marriage, and that’s why I’m on here. I’ve had a few encounters in the last few years, and in each case we have chatted online and became friends first, and still are. I always want there to be something more than just the sex, important though that is.
It’s nice like that.
For me, there needs to be a meeting of minds, some intelligent (or silly!) conversation and shared interests.
You too?
I’m not into casual sex or one night stands. Why do it just the once if it’s good?
I often like to cuddle up, naked and skin on skin for ages before even starting anything and then it’s mainly caressing each others bodies gently all over.
Sometimes deliberately avoiding the rude bits altogether (teasing is fun, too!).
Maybe it’s because I'm a patient, gentle, considerate and unselfish lover?
I would certainly want to put your pleasure first, and would take plenty of time over relaxing you and caressing you, with lots of foreplay, of course.
To me, your pleasure and satisfaction are paramount.
And when it comes to sex, all women (and some men) know that it starts in the mind long before it reaches the rude bits!
For really good sex you need to be intellectually stimulated first, it's not even about penetration, necessarily. Some of the best sex need not involve penetration at all, it’s much more about clitoral and g spot stimulation.
A while ago I had a long weekend away with a lady, and she came 100+ times over the weekend and most of that was by fingering!
I'm NOT boasting, just establishing what I can do for you, and I know that I can give you enough orgasms to keep a smile on your face for ages!
So, if you have had several orgasms (maybe not 100!) before penetration, you will be really ready and we will climax together.
I enjoy foreplay, yes, but also “afterplay”, that magical time when we are relaxing down from our joint orgasms, hugging and kissing and gently caressing each other.
I love oral, too, and want to refine my technique...on you?
Mind you, that could take hours!
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| Gender | Male |
| Age | 81 |
| Location | UK, England: Essex, Witham |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian |
| 🚬 Smoke | No |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially |
| 💊 Drugs | No |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Sometimes |
| 🏠 Meet At | Your place |
| 📏 Height | 5ft 11in (180 cm) |
| ⌛ Body Type | A few extra pounds |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Dark Brown |