someone asked me incredulously "what do you want a 10 year flirtation"? and the answer is unequivocally yes! a certain amount of boredom is inevitable in a relationship, i understand that but one neither has to accept it resignedly nor (worse still) welcome it with open arms.
I am looking for friendship andor intelligent conversation. a relationship based more on a sense of adventure, discovery, faith, strength of character than on security (or fear to give it its proper name). all this with strings, i want intimacy, loyalty and commitment too!
I am passionate, cerebral, persistent, sceptical, funny, energetic, curious, libidinous, voyeuristic, dominant, polemical, loyal, generous, sentimental, romantic, idealistic, realistic, liberal, masculine, sensuous, sybaritic, adventurous, introspective, extrovert, sensitive, impulsive, complex, spontaneous.
I have Herpes.
I love cinema. films with a philosophical theme, films about the human condition, films about passionate love. Rarely Hollywood (a good recent exception is ‘the hours’) and mainly European. I have enjoyed films by Eric Roehmer, Fassbinder, indian arthouse cinema, interesting new far eastern stuff from china and taiwan (i think because the exciting changes happening there help), dark stuff like Bresson and anything about the state of play between the sexes (something of an obsession). i try to take time off to gorge myself during london's festival. but my favorite films seem to be french, betty blue, entre nous, the hairdresser's husband, Monsieur hire ....
I mainly read (and i hardly read anymor, no time), nonfiction (anything to do with the human condition). i think a lot and when i'm not thinking i'd like to be indulging my seemingly insatiable appetite for sex. i share R Crumb 's devotion to rubenesque women but don't let that put you off as long as you are shapely.
My Ideal Person:
There are 3 things that I can get from a woman truthful conversation, emotional warmth and sex (in order of importance to me - and in reverse order of likelihood). Ideally all 3 together but any one of the first 2 could form the sole basis for a relationship I cannot imagine enjoying sex on its own.
you should have an active mind and be able and willing to reveal it. You understand the importance of truth and candour in conversation (this is perhaps the most challenging aspect of a relationship for me many believe that there is a time and place and especially a way to tell, truths. i like my truth unvarnished and like to get it that way too). that there can be no passion without risk. generally accepted virtues like fidelity, trust and 'being nice' don't mean as much to me as meaning what you say having the guts to avoid the natural inclination to meaningless smalltalk. boredom is the greatest sin. .
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| Gender | Male |
| Age | 63 |
| Location | UK, England: Essex, Colchester |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | Black / African |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially |
| 💊 Drugs | No |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Always |
| 📏 Height | 6ft 1in (185 cm) |
| ⌛ Body Type | Athletic |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Black |
| 🦵 Body hair | Natural |