very adventurous guy looking to meet the finer mature ladies in life

Swinger arunmatthew (Male) from UK, London

I am a nice decent guy type until it gets down to the sexual side. That is where I am dominant and enjoy the non-conventional side of sex. I suppose I am seeking the lady in the street and whore in the bedroom syndrome type.
I like to be sexually dominant and controlling, and I have a fairly vivid imagination. I want to arouse you, and keep you aroused all day. Keep you on that delicious edge of arousal and anticipation, with just a few words or ideas or little instructions on what to do to yourself. I want to tell you how to touch yourself, and when. I like arousing you, hearing you moan and gasp, making you breath heavily, trying to make words come out. Until finally the breaths become a word. The word is "please". I love hearing that word. It makes me want to tease you even more. So I do. And then I decide if I am going to let you have an orgasm. And when. and how and how many.
i like knowing that I can make you feel this way, that I have the power to do this to you. The biggest turn-on about this kind of thing for me is the mental part of the control you give to me. Perhaps you are an intelligent, sexy, independent, attractive woman that has thought about something like this before. Yes, I've done this before, and trust me, it can be surprising intense and exciting and powerful. So, I am wondering if there is a submissive or "submissive curious" woman out there that would like to explore this with me?
Lets explore your feelings and see what I can do to make any of these things a reality. I am VERY discrete so your situation is not usually a problem. I am not looking to change either one of our situations. Age, race and physical attributes are also not a limiting factor

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arunmatthew Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 42
Location UK, England: Greater London, London
🌈 Sexuality Straight
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink No
💊 Drugs No
🛡️ Safe Sex Always
🏠 Meet At Your place
👱 Hair Colour Black