Experienced and quietly converting vanilla to more intense pastimes. I briefly surfaced on the Manchester scene until kink got uncomfortably close to my day job. I don’t have issues dating or need to tie up woman to keep a girlfriend. Kink is a preference, its the rush I feel corrupting you as I strip away your demeanour, replacing it with feelings of utter debauchery. Its making good girls bad and bad girls better. Its the deeper more personal intimate connection you share with another, feelings that sometimes take years to develop or never really happen at all.
If your thinking at this point, he’s soft. Don't under estimate my ability to inflict feelings of fear, dread, ecstasy, guilt and lust all within half an hour. BDSM is as much about managing emotions as it is the physical, some Doms understand this. . . . others just hit you really really hard your choice which you want. I see submissive's needing to address deep desires in a non conformist way, I'm the catalyst to make it happen.
I'm not a control freak, I don't feel I have to display my manliness by carrying a whip I apply discipline, support, encouragement and comfort where and when you need it.
Me!
Typically the good humoured, slightly over confident business professional you would see walking down any street. I'm not the leather wearing Drax the Destroyer type you meet at most fet events, who are generally good people so don't judge. But I don't see leather or rubber making me any more dominant, although if it is really going to float your boat it can be discussed.
I am tall'ish 5'10 in socks, relatively trim with a 47” chest and great legs apparently. Brown hair with distinguished grey my stylist calls it, she likes the touch of grey it makes me look distinguished and commanding. . . . if only she new. I don't take life too seriously its for living but presently my business is taking up a massive part of my time. That you will need to live with, all be it for the short term. I also need vanilla time its important to me, that includes eating out, theatre and film so you will behave in polite company no exceptions.
What do you get!
Currently I am happy to take a girl anywhere she wants to go within the kinky universe whether that’s with an experienced player or as it seems on this site someone new to the scene. Closest pain slut and masochists, if getting you into “sub space” means leaving marks I can leave marks but its not a preference.
Done pretty much everything kinky, rude and on occasions disgusting. . . its amazing how girls minds work once liberated from conventionalism. And that's my specialisation, getting all your naughty thoughts into reality and making you embrace them. The female body has a multitude of nerve ganglion’s for pleasure, but none compare with that atop of your shoulders. If I can turn on your mind your body will follow.
I'm comfortable with roll play, leather and rope bondage, restrictive play, physicalmentalsens ual torture, spanking, floggers and paddles. Other skills include an insight into female psychology and in-depth knowledge of female anatomy and sensual massage. Coaxing orgasm's out of women, has never been an aspiration just a time frame to align mind and body correctly.
One last thing.
I am mentoring a new young sub. That means advice and dealing with the occasional emotional crisis only, no physical stuff and definitely no play sessions. I trust this will not be a problem.
Thank you for reading my profile and may you find what you seek. I have been around a bit and I am happy to offer advice if I can.
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male |
| Age | 56 |
| Location | UK, England: City of Manchester, Greater Manchester, Manchester |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian |
| 🚬 Smoke | No |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially |
| 💊 Drugs | No |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Always |
| 🏠 Meet At | Your place |
| ⌛ Body Type | Average |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Dark Brown |
| 🦵 Body hair | Natural |