I am a spanker and a spankee - although I rarely find both in one session.
I love spanking in all forms - but tend towards the straightforward spanking rather than the complex psychology of discipline.
I am happily married so not looking for sex, but happy to spank, and to provide caress or gentle massage as part of the lead inaftercare.
For me, sometimes I need just a firm spanking leaving be sore and red, whereas other times I need to be spanked soundly.
When spanking I favour the hand, belt or brush - but have other toys and am willing to adapt to whatever is needed.
Boundaries are non-negotiable - we must agree what is acceptable and stick to it. Similarly I usually stick to the well understood safewords (Red=Stop Now; Yellow=Slow Down, reaching my limit).
I am sane, friendly and lean toward a consultative approach - but am able to carry through things if we have agreed them (i will not be put off by tears or your pain).
Get in touch if you are interested.
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male |
| Age | 51 |
| Location | UK, England: Hampshire, Andover |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight |
| 🚻 Gender Expression | Masculine |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian |
| 💞 Relationship status | Married |
| 🚬 Smoke | No |
| 🍷 Drink | Sometimes |
| 💊 Drugs | No |
| 🤸 Exercise | I go through phases |
| 📏 Height | 6ft (183 cm) |
| ⌛ Body Type | Big & Beautiful |
| 👁️ Eye colour | Blue |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Dark Brown |
| 🦵 Body hair | Natural |
| 🎨 Tattoos | Never! |
| 💍 Piercings | Never! |
| 🖌️ Body Modifications | Never! |