Safe ways to meet a bondage partner

I would love some advice on how to safely meet a bondage partner. I love being tied up and am definitely a sub... have a normal family life where nobody knows about my fetish. that means discretion in a friend would be crucial. I visit a dominatrix sometimes, but it is a long journey and expensive if I want to be tightly tied up for long periods of time.. as I do. therefore I would love a way to increase the time I can spend enjoying my fetish- but am very nervous about safety and anonymity! Anyone else been through this and have advice?

Hi Sue.. where are you based? I am near Guildford- despite what it sayd in my





Hi Sue, where are you based. despite what it insists on saying in  my profile, I am actually in Surrey