First year on the Hub....

10:34 pm Sunday, 7^th July, 2013

Well, it’s been nearly a year since I joined The Hub and I thought it would be an ideal time to reflect on the change that has manifested itself within me over that time.

When I think back to the shy, awkward, occasional cross-dresser that was wondering whether or not it would be a good idea to join up one year ago and compare her to the person she is today, I find it hard to believe these two polar opposites are one and the same.

In particular, I recall the day I took delivery of my first wig. I excitedly opened it and rushed to try it on. As I approached the mirror I was hoping to see Pamela Anderson looking back at me but instead, to my extreme disappointment, I was confronted with Joe Elliot (of Def Leppard fame).

I feared I would never achieve my dream of looking like a nice lady but after many months of trial and error I finally find that I feel so comfortable and natural in my second skin. Much to my delight, I now genuinely have a fully formed feminine alter ago with her own set of emotions, feeling and experiences which is not something I even fleetingly considered possible on the day I joined up!

So, I’m interested to hear if any fellow ‘Hubbers’ have experienced any similarly dramatic transformations since they joined up ;-)

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	4:50 am Monday, 8^th July, 2013 Skebbie Well I've been here for yonks, and on another site for even yonker :-) Before I signed up here I'd already had a fair bit of experience, so it wasn't as much of a "watershed moment" as it has evidently been for you, Stacey. However, I would say that making the transition to adult dating has enriched my life beyond measure, and I can't even imagine the state I'd have been in if I hadn't done it. Praise the Lord and Halleluja for the internet :-)
	8:12 am Monday, 8^th July, 2013 eroticgoddess Stacey....I think you're gorgeous, and it's wonderful to hear of your transformations. I, too, have found a lot of changes in myself since coming here, and have learned a lot. I didn't come here looking for anything--I signed up when a friend suggested me come here to see each other on cam (sounds weird, yes, but nothing else would work for us), and am so glad I found it. What I've found is a new confidence in myself and an acceptance of my body as it is, despite all my lumps and bumps. I've also discovered that not all men are like my husband, a fact I will be eternally grateful for (yes, I believed that relationships are about being with a control freak who thinks that yelling, belittling, and talking in a condescending manner are the norm). I've learned that I like sex, after all (can't imagine why my sex life was nonexistent before?!?!?!). At first on here, I chatted with almost anyone who pm'd me; I've gradually found the courage to tell the idiots to piss off, that I want to be spoken to like a woman, not a piece of meat. This has translated to my outside life. I find myself in real life dressing nicer, not just in shapeless T shirts and oversize clothes. I'm less likely to suffer fools. In short, strange as it is to me, chatting on here has been a catalyst to some big changes in my life and how I feel about myself. When some say I should be on a dating site rather than here, since one night stands and casual sex are not my thing, I can honestly tell them I think I'm in the right place, for me.
	9:41 pm Monday, 8^th July, 2013 stacey153 Wow, thanks, what cool comments xx I guess in many ways we're all an inspiration for each other. For example, Roslyn, you've already done something I've nowhere near plucked up the courage to do and ventured out and about! I still wonder if I will ever do that but if I've come this far in the last year, who knows what the next year will bring? What's also really nice to hear is that it seems this site has had nothing but a positive effect on everyone that has found it x :-)

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